r/Relationships FORCED TO PAY FOR MY BOYFRIENDS RENT?! - Reddit Stories

Reddit rSlash Storytime r relationships where My (17F) friend (18M) told me he no longer "respects" me after I went skinny dipping with him and 3 other guys. My family has previously done a week long family vacation in the summer. Starting last year my brother had a child and as a result wife and I had a bad time. He has two children now and we want to back out. I still love my brother though and don't want to hurt his feelings. My ex gave me chlamydia but when he got tested he’s negative but he was having sex with other girls and he’s my only sexual partner. can someone explain what it means when this happens? was i in the wrong for exposing him? could i have a false positive? Is it rude when my boyfriend (29M) walks away from a table without me (28F)? My boyfriend is supposed to watch the dog and send money today but he’s not responding to any calls I was gonna meet my GF after she had a quick dinner with a friend she used to date. They ordered an expensive 5 course menu, which was unusual for her, they left me waiting without letting me know, and I ended up leaving before they even got there. daughters boyfriend's mom wants to still be friends after split, I don't want to be friends with her anymore but I don't want to be mean especially since I'll still see them occasionally at social events.

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[michaelburtley]

A woman with the confidence to skinny dip with others is my kind of woman. You rock

[RoseSpirit]

Story about OP's partner always making her watch long videos with him: my bf constantly talks about TikTok's he's watching while I’m trying to relax, so I have to ask him to stop showing me videos so I can focus on me time or whatever I'm doing. He doesn’t get offended or anything, he respects it because he's a normal human being who understands that I’m my own person...

[MsTemptation]

S8: Just file for divorce and then serve him with divorce papers.
The reason would be irreconcilable differences.
Get your finances in order including selling the house if you own one jointly or start looking for a new place to live.
I wish op luck and happiness.

[KyraAlainn]

The dude needing to share his opinion and get OP to agree... this guy sounds exactly like my ex. Only difference is my ex refuses to work.

[koribeanOwO]

Story 1: OP's ex friend had a lot of assumptions about their friendship and was bold enough to make his opinion known. Based off that post, I think he's the type of guy to call a woman a prude if she doesn't do something scandalous and a slut if she does. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. OP can make better friends than this butt. His respect was based on if he can get with her and not out of genuine friendship.

[tararitz]

OP should be asking her DOCTOR all those

[thomaspowers]

In the husband want to much attention and time you OP sounds more like the husband and the husband sounds more like the wife so basically OP knows how it feels to be a guy in a toxic relationship she needs to leave him because it will only get worst especially if they have a child together

[RoseSpirit]

Chlamydia story: a similar thing happened to me! My ex had some sort of issue (might've been chlamydia, but idk) before we got together and he said he was cured. After we dated for less than 2 months and were broken up for a few weeks, I was having stomach pains and got tested. I had chlamydia. He got tested and supposedly didn’t have it and then tried saying it was probably someone else I slept with (I always used a condom with 1 of them and the other one hadn't had sex in over 8 months and didn’t have anything). He claimed he didn’t cheat, but a year after we broke up he admitted to cheating WITH me. Then he contacted me 4 years later and I sent a long text explaining how terrible he was and brought up how he cheated on me, and he didn’t deny it, just "apologized"🙃

[johnjly]

Story 10: Op is clearly in the wrong. If op is using the bf's place as a work from home locations and is there more than half the time i do think op should at least pay for some portion of the rent(maybe 1/8 or 1/4) as op is making money while using the bf's place. I'm not saying half the rent as that's clearly excessive as op isn't sleeping over or living in the place. As for gas and dates both should pay off and on. Op pay for one date then the bf pays for the next. Sounds to me like op IS taking advantage of the bf.

[megendoherty]

Last story! That dude is basically still a " child " at 27, my husband didn't grow up until we had our children at his age of 23! It took until his very late 30's to be fully grown up and 36 years later he is the best husband and father of our adult boys ! It all takes time!

[megendoherty]

When my husband makes popcorn he knows that there maybe a wife " tax" if I smell it cooking! I'm the same way with the husband " tax" if I make something! Sharing is caring! Letting someone have a little bit of food isn't going to " kill " anyone! Don't be a grump and share!😁👍

[micwclar]

So on the dude rushing around at the restaurant, the only time his behaviour would be acceptable would be if he was going to the front to pay. In every other situation it's rude to dash off.

[thomaspowers]

In the STD story yes if the guy had it and gave it to OP he is wrong but as far as him hooking up with other females she can’t get mad because they are not in a relationship they are friends with benefit so her blasted him on social media made her look bad and she loo worst because she has and he doesn’t do its

[jessicajansenvanrensburd]

So with the walking off at the restaurant situation...
My ( hopefully soon Bf) got worried... when we went out to a restaurant with some where with friends and family he walked with me and evreone els waited for me at the table. But halfway to the door i remembered my jacket i hade left under the table. I went back to get it . He followed me to make sure i was ok and asked what happend . And walked with me back .

Please note we arnt even dating but the intrest is there and we are working towards being together ( lots of other factors ( i have a son, and financial situation ext ..)

If this man can walk with me to the door and then walk back to check if i am ok and walk with me again.. your partner can do it... its hella rude . Also i am short and i dont walk fast 😅

[haggishunter]

Last story. Coeliac is pronounced see-lee-ack. Just a heads up for you, Steven 👍

[MsTemptation]

S10: You don’t owe your boyfriend rent just for visiting his home.
Seriously dump your boyfriend because why would you want to date someone who is financially irresponsible.
He will drag you down while expecting you to use your income to bail him out.
He’s basically with you for your money.
So dump him.

[kinosaga]

First story: her x friend acts as if she owe him modesty and a relationship, guys a few alone moments away from an SA incident.

[MsTemptation]

The last story: op grow a pair and stop worrying more about your boyfriend because he doesn’t care about your wants and needs outside of you pleasing him.

[beatricewolfe]

MY Boyfriend walks ahead of me and it is so annoying, but I let it pass cause when in the car I leave my shoes off and when we park he'll rush to my side and put my shoes on for me, I don't even ask, it sounds weird but it makes me feel like cinderella

[marylowther]

The woman who expects her boyfriend to wait for her while she gets ready to leave needs to ask herself if maybe she dithers too much. He waits at the door? How is that rude? Just how long does it take a grown woman to get ready to leave?

Has it occurred to her that SHE may be the problem? Does her friend go to the door because he got up to pay the bill? Does someone have problems sleeping on a pea?