All Christian Marriage Problems Are The Man's Fault

I would like to offer a challenge to my married brothers in the Lord. I want you to take greater responsibility in your marriage, and to be the very best man that you can be. The next time your wife messes us, ask yourself what YOU could have done to help her avoid making a mistake. The Bible teaches that a husband is supposed to be like Jesus Christ to his wife. The question is, how do YOU compare to the Lord?

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[Insidekimsworld]

I was born and raised in church. I married a pastor at age 18 (young, I know). I was raised to do all of the things a godly wife should do. I lead worship, children’s ministry, and kept my relationship with God above all else. I worked outside of the home to cover our bills and homeschooled our children during the day. I served my husband and the church the best I could, until one day he told me he didn’t want to be a pastor anymore and he didn’t want to be married anymore. Later, I found out that he was seeing men. What you are teaching needs to be taught to all Christian men. My story has a “part two” but unfortunately it is still not God’s ideal. I have come to understand that God will love and cover me. He is my strong tower no matter what comes my way.

[jsong]

My uncle told me when I got married, “Remember whatever problems you get into, you got there under your leadership.” That has kept me going and from playing the blame game

[crystalcutch]

THIS is how you Make America Great Again❤ We have not lost good men, our men have lost God.

[TruthisMarching]

I have a man who believes this, and our marriage is rock solid even though we spend months apart at times due to work and family duties. His sense of responsibility has won my respect and trust. I admire him.

[FoodFreedomUSA]

So true. As a woman, I can 💯 tell you that the husbands bad behavior and lazy masculinity adversely affects the wife, the home environment, and the wife’s attitude. Women want a strong confident man who has biblical values and guides the home in confidence and INTEGRITY.

[audrey]

Showed this to my husband/ he actually listened even though reluctantly at first- he really felt conviction! Thank you brother. We needed this. Praise Jesus!!!

[hawkofthereborn]

Glad I'm seeing this as a man not yet married.

[Starlightbarking]

As a Christian woman I see that marriages also struggle because women don’t understand men’s needs, especially in the midlife crisis season.

[angieblake]

Thank you!!! FINALLY, a Christian man putting the responsibility of the health of the marriage on the man since he is supposed to be the head of the home. Why on earth pastors keep putting the responsibility on the wives, especially when he is abusive, is beyond me.

[nikMAyo]

My heart cries happy tears. Praise God for men such as yourself speaking up, taking a stand for God's laws and goodness.

[StevenIsles]

I failed to be the man she needed. After losing my best friend, after God removed her, I chose to fully pursue Him. Forget the world and what it thinks; forget my own selfish pursuits, forget boyish tendencies. Lay it all down at the throne of the King and let Him transform you into a godly man.

[LynnCouto-tibk]

Thank you. I have so many thoughts. I’m in tears because of what I’ve experienced personally. Wish my ex husband saw this. He wanted me to follow in every way but he didn’t lead spiritually. He didn’t love me like Christ loves His church. He was on a pedestal above looking down, pointing a finger. There was emotional abuse that I understand the severity of now. How can a strong gaslighter think he’s such a godly man? There was zero stability from day one.
Jesus is my husband and I’m completely dependent on Him alone now. Perfect peace

[waytruthlife]

God created women to be responders - to their husbands. If we are treated as the Lord commands husbands, we will naturally respond with not only respect but with love and desire for our man.

[jennmartin]

As a woman I thank you for what you are trying to teach more men need these kind of principles taught to them. Man needs to be the head and spiritually close with God we want to revere our husbands and be our husbands’s helper. It is the man’s duty to do his best to follow the lord and keep his house in order so we as the wife are able to do our duty as a wife.

[SilverDadKnows]

Christian marriage problems often stem from men not leading with love, integrity, and responsibility as they should.

[PaulJohn]

A lot of women (even Christian) emotionally abusing men everyday and if you had your way it would never stop and they would possibly be gaslighted if they try to even bring up the issue.

[KJViking]

Not going to lie brother this hit me right between the eyes. Amen

[jpatpat]

Men don't realise that the way God made us, if the man protects and provides for and loves his wife she'll AUTOMATICALLY love, respect and nurture her husband. Most women today are neglected, overworked doing her job and working outside, unloved and unprotected; then the men wonder why she won't respect him. I lived with a weak selfish man for 46 years (I'm now a widow of 75), and he ruined our lives and my health. I tried to submit and he became like Hitler! I realised it doesn't work unless the msn does his part: because I was unloved and unprotected I started resenting him. He never caressed me or even touched me unless he wanted sex, which made me feel worse than a prostitute as at least they get paid! Women NEED to be loved and appreciated; if the husband is protective and loving and providing, she will be loving and supportive.

[miownleyhope]

Godly women everywhere are praising God for your message. Spiritual hugs galore❤

[kevinhullinger]

It takes two if a wife refuses to be a wife I will not blame myself. I will pray for my wife