how i cope

breakups are hard but life keeps on going

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[NubiaPina]

Girl I’m going through it too, I know it’ll get better. Sending healing your way ❤️‍🩹

[ThomasinaJefferson-kexs]

Needed this, sis. In the middle of trying to leave an abusive 8 year relationship and I’m tryin to find hope in anything.

[katetaleska]

"I'm the only one who can give myself closure". 7 months later I needed that. Thanks.

[coreynguyen]

I got out of a 2 year relationship last year, I loved her more than this whole world. I honestly thought I’d never be able to date because of how much she meant to me. I also wanted to one day to be able to settle down with her but she had other plans and never truly loved me which made it super hard to realize all that. When I started college I was in a super depressed state but lucky I had people I met to help and honestly be there. It’s safe to say a year later I’m still working on myself and finally opening my doorway to start dating and finding someone who I can love and honestly have a good relationship with. Without those friends push me to go out and see what the world has to offer. I do believe now that it does get better when you move on from them and you always find a way to keep busy! I hope you find your solace ❤

[Ekaitzaa]

Its also important ti remember that grieving and being sad is part of the process to healing. Make sur eto allow yourself the time to let it all out and take care of yourself. Keep a water bottle amd a little snack near where you yend to lounge to make sure you always have something for the times its too hard to even get up :) Wishing you the best and I hope you start to feel better soon.

[Niniriina]

I feel this so much, Im only 1 month post breakup but live is so different now! There is definitely always a new door cracked open ❤ I wish all of you going through this a lot of strenght, you can do it, life hasnt shown you its best side yet! Dont miss out on it❤

[starfire]

As someone who recently got broken up with and coming out of a 4 year relationship, it’s hard and messy having all these feelings and trying to eventually move on slowly but surely since it sadly takes time and that’s okay. I wish you all the strength for you to get through this rough patch, and also just a friendly reminder to be kind to yourself in situations like this and how it’s also okay to feel like doing nothing every now and then especially in a situation like this. Lastly, just remember that this one experience, although awful, will make you a stronger person in the end :) You got this!

[choucobra]

I recently ended a 6 year relationship and had to move out. I'm so incredibly thankful for my family. Take it one day at a time and don't be afraid to sit in your feelings. Experience it, understand it, and release it. My heart is with you ❤

[elspink]

Feeling bad is ok. Try to enjoy that also. This is a good opportunity to find something for yourself, find a new sport, learn a new language, watch movies, do something new to keep your mind busy. A big door is about to open. ❤

[CarsCatAliens]

Life lesson.... When something terrible or devastating happens there is an important lesson to gain.. It may not always present itself immediately, and may take time to figure out, but you will realize what it was you gained from losing/loss/tragedy..

[lovemusiclol]

I’m going through the same thing, my mother always told me the same thing. So im trying to clean up after myself more and more. It’s nice to know I’m not alone at feeling like this

[Faustus-]

I'm sorry about that and i understand I've been single way too long even self closure helps you move on and closure truly helps even if it's from yourself as you said please take care of yourself please eat hydrate and do whatever brings you comfort and feel what feelings you need to! I truly wish you the best in your future and what comes forward may it be as caring and amazing as you are! ⚘️ at some point that cracked open door you'll be able to kick it open! You got this! Even as a stranger through your video adventures you offer a lot to us, support is offered and again wish you the best!

[JazzzMonsterr]

Your like a crab whos molting right now. Youre soft, youre squishy, youre vulnerabilities are showing. But when crabs finish their molts something amazing happens. Theyre bigger, stronger, and they have their armor back. They can even regrow lost limbs. So dont worry, trust the growth process. 🦀

[lyssums]

Hugs to you. I'm still healing, myself.

[jnp]

Girl, I understand.
We broke up a week before his flight. So we had to share space, and I had to go to work and just suffer.
I pretended everything was fine as you should at work, and I'm just waiting for a 3 day weekend to let it all out.

[viiiRA_]

A reason why you don't date co-workers. Because then you also have to see them when you're trying to keep busy at work. 😅
You'll be alright someday. Keep those Maslow's Needs met!

[iyunolabailey]

So sorry 😢, I wish for you more love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[Melch]

Going through this too so rooting for you! Gonna clean my room today 😅

[TrumpISAgentORANGE]

He didn't seem ready anyway. His massive loss.

[davidallison]

thanks for the motivation! gonna turn my phone off and clean up my apartment