Why He Chose HER Instead Of YOU | Why He Gave The Love YOU Deserved... To ANOTHER Woman

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In this video, I share learnings from a recent client session about why he chose her instead of you – from a client who experienced just that. There really is nothing harder than seeing the man you thought should be yours with his new girlfriend, but many of the narratives we torture ourselves with in this situation are in fact, false. I work all the time with clients who are suffering this pain, but this was a particularly poignant example where I knew there would be benefit in sharing the story.

This video will help you understand the painful lesson why he gave the love you deserved to another woman and why he chose her instead of you. This video will serve as your guide in understanding the reasons or factors men consider when they pick their partner and how to resolve many of the sucky mindsets that come in the aftermath. In this video, you will know the truth behind his choosing her instead of you.

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𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐬 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭:

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𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐄!
I’m Mark Rosenfeld – Australia’s dating and relationship coach for women. This channel is all about helping you find, attract and keep the man you want through the values of personal growth, authenticity and high self-esteem. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on core confidence that makes you a better human, rather than games or tactics to ‘play’, start now by subscribing (link below) and getting your FREE download (link above)

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𝐕𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:
“Why did he choose her instead of me?” This has to be one of the hardest questions I get from clients, as well as being one of the most heartbreaking and frustrating. You try to look for answers, but most of the time, you don’t get them. In the meantime, various mindsets about what he chose her torture you. Men will usually NOT tell you the reasons why they picked another girl instead of you – you’ll have to derive them. That’s why I made this video to help you realize the truth behind these sucks, but long-term empowering, situations.
In this video, you will know how a high value woman can empower herself by identifying the factors that matter to men when they select their companion, so she will understand how and why he didn’t choose her – and why that is not a reflection on her value. Having such awareness can help her easily achieve future happiness and success in her dating and relationship life with someone who does 100% choose her.

This dating and relationships advice video is my comprehensive guide on Why He Gave The Love YOU Deserved... To ANOTHER Woman | Why He Chose HER Instead Of YOU. In it, I explain why he gave his love to another woman as well as the painful narratives that come with this. Why he chose her instead of you, and how to put it all into a coherent story that doesn’t make you feel better again. You will also know the aspects that influence men when they pick their partner. It is essential to know these factors, so you can assess how you are in the relationship and if need be, make some adjustments to realign things towards lasting happiness and success with your (better) future man.

Enjoy the video! This is Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from Make Him Yours

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[Markrosenfeld]

It's heartbreaking to see the one you loved in the arms of another - but my experience has been the meaning we take from this event doubles the heartbreak. Hopefully, this video helps you with. Comment below if you've experienced this and come out strong the other side!

[mvyang]

I’m thankful that he cheated. Gave me the opportunity to make improvements in my life and I met my husband.

[VapingBee]

"It HAD to happen exactly the way it did." Yep! Perfect! The universe has better in store for you.

[amyl]

My boyfriend of 8 years left me for my bestfriend of 13 years. I got replaced. She moved in and i moved out. The things he said to me when we broke up will always haunt me. Ill never love the same, ill never trust again. I dont ever want to go through this ever again. Why would i put myself through that. He totally settled for me until he met her and fell in love. He never loved me. I wont ever depend on anyone. People just change. No one is the same from a year ago. We had a great relationship until one day he just woke up and was done. I did everything i was "suposed" to do. Never again. Having someone you would have given your own life for look you in the eye and tell you how miserable they are because of your existance hurts alot. I cant let his choices, words or decisions control my life. But i was left with emotional scars idk how tf im supposed to heal from. Overthinking anxiety, separation anxiety, abandonment issues, depression, suicidal tendencies, sometimes i feel crazy. Im now starting completely over and living a whole different life ive never experienced before. Trying to move on, to heal, accept and forgive, love myself, learn and thrive, be someone im proud of. I hope future me is happy and healthy.

[milinysha]

It's really painful because he started to pull away, he never told me if there was something wrong, I got confused and gave him some space. He disappeared and then he is in a new relationship. Your video helped me realize that I'm giving his decisions too much power over me and that's not healthy. Thank you so much.

[Nieszpieg]

I'm so done being "just fun", I want to be treated right, not the fling and for fun

[lavayuki]

I believe that everything happens for a reason, so breakups usually happen for the best. They probably weren't the one for you, and it's better sooner or later.

[bystandersarah]

I wouldn’t ever want to be with someone who picked someone else over me. I would never be able to forget they did that to me. No matter how hard they may try to fix it. But the problem I have now is that because of what they did, I also don’t trust anyone else. I no longer believe that a man will be trustworthy with me. I think they will probably be disloyal in the future even if they don’t know they will. I don’t believe in love anymore.

[ameliabeadles]

What hurts is knowing she has something better with him and him telling me that he got in this wonderful relationship with her thanks to me, and the advise and learnings i gave him 😅

[laurendulihanty]

The thing that sticks with me the most is him saying "it doesn't matter if you tried or were working on yourself, you're too late" like I wasn't the one trying, fighting for the relationship and working on myself to bend to his needs the whole time while he didn't grow or try.
He jumped straight into another relationship a month after our 3 year relationship and he loves her. "She understands him".

[niyaadior]

The Boyfriend I was with left me for his ex💯I was hurt at first but now I don't care because everybody says she's a cheater and I'm gonna laugh when she breaks his heart

[slaws]

Now I just feel it’s a dealbreaker if he chooses someone over me, and this happened to be recently. Initially disappointed? Definitely, but bounced back quickly. They recently broke up because the relationship was toxic. I spotted that from a mile away. He wants to go out again. NOT HAPPENING. Bye.

[fabscanales]

This is when we need time away to heal or we will bleed on other people who didn’t cut us ! Value yself ladies 💕

[lovetodaylisa]

"What other people think of me is none of my business"

[nooshi]

Guys often leave women who are high value for low value ones because they don’t want to put in the effort a high value woman requires.

[rachelbarkaoui]

Why aren’t there more men out there like you Mark ♥️

[briray]

He broke up with me all of a sudden saying “i lost feelings and idk why.” Then i found out 2 weeks later he had a new girl and told me “she’s just helping me figure my feelings out” WHAT? 😂 you don’t use another girl to “help figure feelings out” you use your friends, family, or a therapist. not another girl right out of a relationship lmao. ridiculous lie. I’ve been feeling the hurt of this breakup more than anything i’ve ever felt and he’s doing just fine not talking to me and being with another girl after our 3 year relationship. :(

[mariamimi]

Reminder :
Be completely yourself, be who God created you to be and the people that will love you are the one for you.
The guy who broke up with you/chose someone else over you was never the one, not because there’s something wrong with you but he was never the one .
There are many good men on this planet, does that mean they’re ALL your soulmate and the one ? No.
You can be the whole package but at the wrong address.

[deborahb]

I liked that you remind us that we were half of that past relationship. Somewhere down the line if he has not resolved what he contributed to the failure he'll drag that baggage into his new relationship. All we can do is own upto our own mistakes so that we don't repeat them & wish the other person well.

[RoseDawsonworld]

I think it all comes down to knowing your own value and never care what others think of you. this has helped me to never question any past break ups, cherish the good times and appreciate the lessons and learning curve. Thank you Mark for having the courage to put up this great video