Help! I'm In Love With A Married Man

“Help! I'm In Love with A Married Man”

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This video is for you if:

1) you have found yourself in a relationship dynamic where you are effectively a third wheel,
2) maybe you are dating a married man,
3) maybe you're dating a guy who's in a long-term relationship with someone else,
4) and maybe you want him to leave and be with you,
5) maybe he's even telling you that he's gonna do that but objectively that was not happening.

What do you do?

In this video, Clayton and Jack dive into some tips on what’s the best course of action when you’re faced in this situation – you’re in love with a married man.

This can be really difficult situation to find yourself in.

If you're interested to pursue something longer term with them that I think you should cut contact and not be in a dynamic that them to basically keep you in their life, have a certain level of connection maybe sexual connection, but they're not really saying “yes” to you.

By you cutting in contact you are withdrawing yourself from the dynamic you can say, “Look I'm open to you. I would love to be with you and if you ever decide that you want to leave your marriage and pursue this like I'm open to that, but I don't want to contribute to this dynamic.

You've got something that you need to figure out over there and to let that do what it needs to do.” And there's a risk that in doing that you may find out that they were never intending to leave their wife or that they don't want to but at least we're in the truth then you know however hard that is.

And something that speaks a little bit to the character as well of the way that you enter a relationship, the character of this guy that's important to track.

KEY POINT: So being able to have the courage and the sobriety to back away from the situation and cut things off will allow you to not enter something that's gonna be a lopsided relationship as it is where there's already a deteriorating foundation something that's an infection getting built right into the relationship itself.

We want to invite you to this webinar that we've got prepared that it's showing nightly right now, that you can click on the link below this video.

It's a FREE webinar where we dive into the Discarded archetype, we dive into another archetype and these are the ways in which women unconsciously position themselves with men that sabotage relationships and once you become aware of that you can have choice around stepping outside of it. We also talked about reclaiming your vulnerability as well.

And if you're at this place where you're watching these videos and you're ready to take your own self-awareness and the results that you're getting your love life to the next level, we really invite you on this webinar to check it out. It’s 60 to 90 minutes. It’s some of the most potent material we've ever done.

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Clayton

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[SimplyQuintessa]

I literally have tears in my eyes because y’all are telling my story but with understanding and compassion and truth. Thank you for not vilifying us. I never intended on falling in love with a married man and the emotional connection (at least for me) is strong. I have torn myself away from him but I cannot shake the love I still have and the wanting I have for him. It’s hard but y’all have given me a compassionate insight. I just don’t want to love him anymore and I really want to let the fantasy go. I’m only hurting me.

[blackirishrose]

If he's married prepare yourself for heartache.... believe me it's not worth it.

[LuisGonzalez-sblx]

The heart is always gonna want what ain’t supposed to have.

[bikerchick]

It's extremely rare that the guy is going to leave his wife, most times he will not-he wants his cake and eat it too. Best decision to make in this situation, is find a decent man who is single, and if a guy is willing to cheat on his wife, he will cheat on you!!

[MsGlamourcat]

These are no-win situations. Avoid these sorts of dynamics at all costs. If someone is married, they've made a commitment to someone else, if that marriage is not working out then it needs to be worked on or it needs to end. The advice you've given is absolutely perfect. Any gaps or shortcomings in a relationship is a chance for people look at themselves and see where they need to improve, rather than expecting their partner to change. When you start to make improvements to yourself and clean-up your act, you'll notice that your partner starts to make changes too.

The major pitfall of affairs is that the third-wheel person doesn't have to deal with your dirty socks accumulating in a pile on the floor, the laundry, the daily tedium, etc - they are not getting a chance to see all of your flaws and misgivings and vice-versa and if you were to actually live together, budget, pay bills, house-clean, manage your social lives, etc, this relationship too would end up as boring and lack luster as your current relationship / marriage. The grass is not greener on the other side, it's greener where you nourish it.

[antonionlynnenriquez]

If he is married, he is NOT your soulmate. He is NOT yours! No matter what he says, do NOT lose your soul for a doomed relationship! It is NOT love!! Run! Do not cross a boundary you will regret. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you!

[nadlat]

Thank you for not being judgmental, blaming the other woman and calling them names, this video deserves alot of credit. Thank you.

[iknowwhatsup]

Be a real choice not the escape. Let men do the work, break up and pursue & choose you! If he can't do that, he not good enough. There's so many choices out there. I get it, I find myself attracted to an unavailable person.. It's sound advise to back away and let them figure out their stuff. I never expected to feel this way. It sucks!

[patty]

My friend had an affair with a married man; she put herself in a very sad situation. There is no winning here. I feel sorry for these women or men who had fallen for married individuals.

[traceyowenhughes]

I AM in LOVE with a married man. I DO NOT WANT HIM to leave his SPOUSE or SITUATION. I AM A firm believer in KARMA and RETRIBUTION. How you get EM is how you lose them. No STRUGGLES HERE. I HAVE distanced MYSELF. Moved forward FOCUSED solely on my ASPIRATIONS and GOALS. I TOTALLY RESPECT his protecting his UNION. Wish them the BEST. No interruptions or hiccups from me.

[zelmahenry]

Been there done that for seven years dont do it you'll only get hurt

[joysinner]

God doesn't send you someone else's

[vidhyaasb]

I’m surprised all the comments are on how the other woman should leave the married man but what about the wife shouldn’t she leave him too ? He cheated on her he could cheat again ? What does it say about self esteem n character of wives who choose to stay with men who cheat on them ?

[busisiwemabaso]

If u are in love with married man u waisting ur time energy n ur future...

[lifesymphony]

Be prepared to get cheated by him. If he can cheat his wife for you, he can cheat you for another woman. All the best for blind love.

[lindaob]

if he cheating with you he will cheat on you

[donellemiller]

Been there, done that! He chased me, but i fell in love. But, I also kept on living my life and putting distance between us. Only lasted a few months, I wanted more but not at the expense of being the odd woman out. Several years later, he's still married to her. Story said and done. And I'm ok.

[beccaw]

I needed to hear this! I just cut him out! And I did the right thing 🙏🏻 Thanks ♥️ so if it is the right thing to choose me he will do it apart from me 👍🏼 I will never be a sidechick.

[kimking]

Sometimes it's not that simple. Never thought I'd ever end up dealing with a married man, until I became a struggling single mother. He stepped in and completely provided for my son's and myself. I've tried to leave the situation several times because it just didn't feel right but he'd always pull me back in because he knew he had the finances to provide for two homes. And especially when he's your best friend as well, it's almost impossible to break away from. fast forward 16yrs later, I'm getting older and being his outlet isn't working for me anymore. I've grown and matured in so many ways and I'm in the process of finally walking away and trying to heal and get over him. but it's very difficult.

[anewloveofficial]

The easiest way to solve this, is to stay away to those who are already committed.
Don't just date with someone you don't even know what is his/her background.
Know the person very well first, and check if he/she is with some one or not. Before you try to a touch to them.