I tried being a dad for 30 days

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Hi there 👋 If you're new to my videos my name is Matt D'Avella. I'm a documentary filmmaker, entrepreneur and YouTuber. I've made a couple documentaries for Netflix. I also teach courses on everything from filmmaking to habit change. If you like to nerd out about self-development as much as I do, you can subscribe for weekly videos.

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[mattdavella]

Okay so apparently there isn't a 30 day return policy...

[HannahMcNeely]

You have no idea how satisfying it is for parents to hear from new parents how freaking hard it actually is. But also the absolute best thing ever.

[wheezywaiter]

Congrats. If your experience is like mine, your entire mindset will change much more than you realize, even now, as your kid grows and grows. So much of the parenting I've seen in the media makes so much more sense to me. I thought I understood the struggles of a parent, but I see now that it was all silly theory that I couldn't possibly understand. And you'll understand more and more as the years go on.

It's a great journey, but don't feel guilty if you sometimes think it's not a great journey. Being a parent is the best thing I've ever done.

[alallya]

“It’s so easy to be bad parent, to not care, to not research, to not worry..” Best quote. We know Franky will be one of the luckiest boy to have you both as his parents! Happy for you Matt and Nat 🎉

[mrjamestiu]

Fellow Dad here. It's true that it's gonna be one of the hardest part of your life, but it certainly will be the most fulfilling. Congrats to you guys!

[MrsALYarr]

He is absolutely precious. I got teary watching this - my own boys started their first year of high school/last year of middle school this week. I think the most true thing I ever heard about parenting is, “The days are long but the years are short.” There were definitely days when I counted the hours until bedtime…but now those days seem so far away, yet somehow only just yesterday. Time is a weird thing when you become a parent. Sending warm thoughts your way - hang in there!

[tawsifakkas]

As a creator who's been inspired by Matt over the years and as a (kind of new) dad - this is the one video that I have been waiting to see in forever. It's like every single point hit home - and weirdly, it has been even more exciting in seeing you take up the role with such demeanour. Thanks Matt - I hope we keep getting more videos from this side of you!

[tikirat]

Watched this video when it first came out, right when we found out we were pregnant. Rewatching it now at 4am with our 5 day old sleeping on my chest while my wife grabs a few hours sleep, and it hits so close to home. We’ve been lucky with phenomenal midwife-led care during our hospital care, but also looking forward to taking him home and learning how to parent in our own space. Great video.

[JasmyneTheodora]

I'm a mom to a baby girl under a year old and it absolutely does get (so) much easier. I actually look forward to her waking up in the morning now because she's so awesome to be around. There are hard parts still for sure but it's now so enjoyable. So congratulations, Matt! Been watching you for a long time now. Happy to see your family expand!

[MadamaButterfly]

It's strange how natural it is for me to see you as a dad. I've known you for I don't remember how long, I just have the feeling that in a certain way I have access to your life and now I follow you in this important part of your life and everything seems so natural to me.
I'm 100% sure you and Natalie will be great parents. The way you always put a lot of effort, dedication and attention in what you do will be reflected in the way you take care of your son.
❤

[mompeaches]

Congratulations!! As a mom to twin boys (born 28 years ago)...it's all worth it! That first year with my twins was the HARDEST OF MY LIFE. I now laugh thinking back at how much I cried, how scared I felt and the fact that I questioned every single thing multiple times when it came to my sons. I think it all turned out pretty well as my sons are now both adults and work as educators. I can tell you that I survived the multiple questions and anxieties I had as a parent and you will too.. Oh yeah, their dad sometimes helped too. LOL!

[zoegardiner]

Casually opened up YouTube to learn how to speak Spanish to then be pleasantly surprised by my For You Page that one of my favourite youtubers had a baby! Congratulations!!!! ...And good luck!

[SpawnPoiint]

Congrats Matt, and welcome to the best job in the world! I've been a father for 9.5 years, and I'd like to tell you it gets easier but every single milestone is both challenging and fulfilling. It's hard work but so worth it. Also it does go as fast as everyone tells you.

[mxmus]

Congrats to both of you. Welcome to the world, Frankie.

[alexandervarelaf]

Congrats Matt and Natalie. You guys will be fantastic parents.

[luharvey]

Our eldest turned 25 today and it’s amazing how what you’re saying still resonates! I so appreciate your vulnerability here! You guys are great parents. What a gift little Frankie is.

[GailNott]

That first minute gives me so much satisfaction. My daughter is 4 and I'm almost 48 years old. I'd like to think I'm as energetic as my 20--year-old self, or even my 30-year-old self. It's true that as a parent the days are long, and the years are short. Congratulations!

[Spliner_the_ninja]

Congratulations! 37 years old dad here with two wonderful kids of 5 and 3 years old! Have fun on this journey. yes it’s hard and intense sometimes but it’s rewarding and so much fun. For the parents, open communication at all times and be sensitive to each others needs. It is very important for the family’s health. Specially in the beginning.

[Jason_Polkovitz]

Welcome to fatherhood, Matt. I’d say that your experience sounds about like what we went through - including the lack of weight gain thing - which was so stressful. Frankie is adorable. This brought back so many fond memories (my 17 year old son is lounging on the couch behind me). Congratulations, again, to you and Nat.

[Days-ntcx]

Being the super good parents is the most difficult thing in the world and at the same time it is more fun and enjoyable. It is the part of life and I am really excited to become a parent in the future ☺️