5 Choices that can Change your Life (by Caroline Myss)

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Choices that can Change your Life | Caroline Myss | TEDxFindhornSalon:

Hey all!
I am a mother of three adorable children, one of them is a special needs child. Although people say I have tough life, I'm actually a very happy person, and live my life with a lot of joy. I found the keys to the happiness and I decided to share them in this YouTube channel. This channel of mine is all about little tips and tricks for a joyful happy life. How to stay sane in this crazyness, how to be a calm, easy going person, and how to be truely happy. I also give little tips about relationships and kids education. These tips are based on my own life experience, and they make my relationships with my loved ones so much easier and nicer.
If you have any question about something that bugs you in life (for example : "how not to be jelous?" Or "how to make my kid do his homework? ") please write me! And I'd be glad to answer your question in my videos.
(If you don't want me to show who this question comes from, please mention it.)

Looking foreward to hear from you! :-)

What if I told you that there are simple choices that can change your life radically for the best.
Caroline Myss is an incredible woman that is a five-time New York Times bestselling author and internationally renowned speaker in the fields of human consciousness, health, energy medicine, and the science of medical intuition.
There is a very interesting 25 minutes TED talk of Caroline - Choices that can Change your Life. I strongly recommend to watch it. The link to this talk is in the description of my video. But to those who have no time, I’ll summarise the main ideas of Caroline’s talk in this video of mine.
The power of the choices you make have infinite consequences. from the littlest choice to something that is great big huge. and there's the paradox – we have no idea what is a little choice or a big choice. Buying a house or getting married are not necessarily big choices. The most powerful choices of our life are the ones that have the most powerful impact on our biology, on our inner , on our soul, on our sense of who we are, on our well-being, on our whole life map. And these choices are as following:
1. Choose to live life of integrity. Don’t betray yourself, and don’t betray others. Be honest. Don’t lie in a way that will put you or someone else in uncomfortable, bad place.
2. Make a decision not to pass on your suffering, but to pass on your wisdom. Healing is not about forgetting those things that made you suffer, it's about looking at what has happened to us and saying: this will never defeat me. I will not live in this. I have to somehow turn this into my source of wisdom.
3. Take risks in your life. In the end of the life road, people don’t regret things they did. People do regret things they didn’t do. We make our decisions based on the
fear of failing, of being humiliated. Don’t be afraid of these. The most wonderful things happen when we take risks.
4. Choose to extricate these three words from your head: entitled, blame and deserve. These words are lethal. They are toxic for you. You have no idea how much better you would feel if you never use those three words again. Not in your speech and not in your thoughts.
You're not entitled to anything.
Don’t blame others and nothing, and don’t blame yourself. When you blame others you also live in the destructive feeling that others blame you.
Stop feeling like you deserve things. It makes you unsatisfied. If you feel like you didn’t get what you deserve – it eats you from inside. If you do get “what you deserve since you “deserved it”, you don’t really appreciate it, and don’t feel joy about it.
Stop looking at the world through your eyes.
5. Choose to get up every day and bless your day. Every day in your life is unique and will never come again. That choice alone should take out of your heart every bitter taste there is. It should shape the life around you with such grace and such beauty. it would make you only want to see the present with great gratitude.