Bring A Younger Colombian Woman To Europe/USA?!?!

Should you bring a younger Colombian woman you meet in Colombia back to your home country to live with you? Watch this video to learn about the risks and considerations which may derail your relationship before you make that decision!

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[nealmccoy]

I met a girl in Bogota and she was very feminine and amazing. We had good times together. I wasn't in love but I enjoyed her company.

She crossed border with a a coyote in Feb 2022. They put her in a detention center. She called crying every day pleading for me to pay the 3k bond to get her out.

I did that and regret it heavily. She came to live with me and almost instantly her personality did a full 180 once she arrived. She became and entitled feminist overnight. I kicked her out after 3 months. Don't do it !

[samkilbourn]

NO NO NO ESPECIALLY AT 74. I personally have dated quite a few Colombians in the United States and let me tell you they are very similar to american girls. Once you bring them here they will change.

[eddycarpenter]

I lived in Medellin for 6 months back in 2013. I was 23 at the time and met a girl down there on Badoo and was just having fun hooking up with her, nothing serious. I eventually went back to the States but we stayed friends on social media. She started dating another American guy who was in Colombia traveling as well. But he moves her back to the States with him. I'm assuming he assisted with the visa processing and she was living with him. She eventually broke up with that dude and is now with another guy. Lol watched it all play out. Sad story for the guy who made the initial investment of bringing her over there. But thats the game.

[thizzle]

Short answer- HELL NAW!! That is all ...😊

[dinodinosaur]

🙏🏽 Yanassi if you have visited Colombia you would have no interest in living in Spain 🤑Saiyan has not even mentioned the economic aspect of choosing Spain over Colombia ... GET OVER TO COLOMBIA YANASSI ... Great advice as always Saiyan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[samfitzOH]

I would agree with Chan on you both relocating. That could break the relationship. Either you live in her country for awhile or she move into your home. Maybe after 3 to 5 years then maybe move to Spain after you both have lived together.

[carlosanchez]

En Colombia sabemos que muchos de nuestros compatriotas (no todos) cuando se establecen en USA o Europa cambian su mentalidad, unos porque se dejan arrastrar por la cultura de esos paises, y otros porque el dinero saca a flote lo que tenian guardado en su corazón. Son pocos los que mantienen su cultura en otros paises. Lo importante e buscar una mujer que sea ideónea para tu carácter.

[ricepaddyreasons]

Good call! Not a good idea! Yes, there are exceptions, but that is how MW think about hooking the "perfect man". Cogitate and Analyze!
Thanks again, AG!

[chrisnamaste]

This is excellent advice; you can go ahead with the relationship but plan for it to fail.

[TheAmericanVagabond]

I see this working in the Philippines with cats in their 70’s with 18 yr olds, but nit in Columbia or any place in Latin America.

[YoungOthello]

Hey bro I appreciate you not selling a dream. Keep up the good work!

[Stanging]

man and woman were made for a purpose to each other... That SHOULD never change. Today's woman mostly onlu care about their looks and material things. Woman like that need to understand thier role as a wife and the man's role as a husband. If not.. DONT GET MARRIED.

[shawnnevalainen]

Seems like a cogent analysis of the situation :)

[yanassi]

You gave excellent responses, much of it i’ve considered. Choosing a woman has never been a simple nor short meeting relationship. I’ve always chosen well in the past, good women, attractive, good personalities …but in time, the flaws begin to show up. Mostly i’ve seen in my history, “you’re a great guy”, “i love you, now change”, then we break up, years later i get “would you like to get together again” (from a simple prom date in my high school days, to my ex-wife wanting to get back together). It’s a fickle nature of a sort. I want to avoid a 30’s woman because, too much of her life is yet to happen. My preference is 50’s to 40’s, thinking such things as, she already had a child who is or nearly independent, she’s somewhat established as a woman, she has an idea what she’s looking for and what she’ll avoid, she’s looking for a man who actively enjoys his maturity as opposed to one who’s hanging on to his youth or getting notches on his belt. Another attribute i also looking at, is a woman who’s looking to leave colombia with an eye to europe, not necessarily for work but to travel. My new york women were generally independent (sometimes too independent as you’ve sometimes described them), intelligent, strong and they didn’t possess simpler needs (a nice, responsible, loyal, respectful, financially stable man who’s active, and decent looking) that the colombian women seems to seek. My choosing “who” would take time, courtship time, learning who she is, before a deeper relationship would begin. 74 doesn’t offer a lot of time, but learning is necessary as i’m too old/mature/intelligent to act foolishly. I expect the woman to take a “real and honest” look at me also. I think i’ve written quite a bit here, so thanks for your insightful considerations and words of caution. Life without wisdom is a waste, as is wisdom without life.

[danspencer]

This doesn't happen often... I disagree with Mr. Chan on the age gap. My wife's father is 20 years older than her mother. Age was not an issue for her. I was leary, but she said "no problem". It's been the best relationship I have ever had. Aside from that, I agree that living in Colombia is better in a number of ways. Maybe there are factors not mentioned that make Spain the destination, but I think it would be a lot easier to plan to settle with a Colombiana in Colombia. I once fell in love with a girl from Spain. It took a while to learn what a Leftist feminist she was. I don't think the influences in Spain are likely to be good for the relationship.

[rickyticky]

Well i dont hear any of those stories from the first generation latino immigrants in the usa. Most of those women are still with their men. All my aunts and uncles are still with the same person when they immigrated America 30-40 years ago. Same with the immigrant community who are couples and married. So i do have to disagree with this. You can always offer the girls to bring their parents brothers etc etc and fix there papers. There are those bad apples out there but its not common. I might be wrong since alot has changed since we are in a different generation. Some of these dudes already have kids before bringing them.