How to Find Your Calling as an INFJ: 5 Questions To Ask

INFJs are an amazing group of people with a great deal of potential. Inside each one of us is often a deep desire to pursue our passions in such a way that it helps the world. However, some of us get stuck in a rut along the way. In this video, I give a few ideas for INFJs on how to find their passion or calling.

[kamilkarnale]

We loose motivation very fast! A slight failure make us depressive! So annoying!

[biskite]

the use of "we" gives an infj like myself comfort that someone understands. :>

[asdfghjkl]

I’ve always said “I just want to be happy” whenever someone asks what I want for my future....
I think what I truly want is to feel safe enough to be myself. Because that, is true happiness

[-jamie-]

"failure to launch syndrom" - extremely true.

[marceladiaz]

Situational depression, that's exactly what happens when I am in a place or job that doesn't fit me and nobody understands why, I feel like I am drowning yet from the outside people think everything is fine and question my attitude. Understanding the situational depression concept is a great motivator to get off the sick merry-go-round I was stuck in. Thanks!!!!

[crunchycar]

The 5 questions:
1. What is your unfair advantage?
2. What did you love to do when you were young?
3. How can you help people / help the world?
4. Is there any information you have right now you wish you had when you were young?
5. What's a complex topic that you could make simple?

Bonus: how do you eventually become irreplaceable?

[michellewei]

EXACTLY... "situational depression". That's me living in a small, gossipy town... working a job for eight years that I hated every day... but there were no other jobs in town. I walked out that back door and moved away from that town. I'm ok now.. kinda... 500 miles and a border away from there!

[AlgarielMaldonado]

I dont aim for happiness, the emotion is too fleeting and not a good barometer for success.
Aim for fulfillment and a purposeful life. As an infj, i rather die doing something of purpose that contributes to the greater good, then live without purpose.

[nurlanhartley]

I am 17 years old. Is it wierd I love watching these videos? I feel like i differ from the age group

[cazbee]

Great advice - get your stuff out there! Is anyone else TOO - polite, self-deprecating, modest, awkward with compliments, unchallenging of other's BS, etc? Practice NOT being these things. Develop and share your voice. You know the world needs you 💚

[Neimykanani]

"Usually really good at something like art." Me watching this video as I'm drawing on my tablet 😆

[cecilywechter]

You are the first mind coach to make these deep dives so accurately, into the experience of an INFJ. Thank you for thinking so clearly and sharing what you have learned in your life.

[cascades]

also infjs are so adventurous that they like to experience what other people feel about almost everything..good are bad they just want to experience it.. lol talking about myself..

[thehilaryglow]

I've always said that the dream job would be doing the things we loved the most when we were kids. Because as kids we didn't think about getting rich of even just paying mortgage/debt or being able to afford something. We simply followed our heart.

[leana]

This couldn’t be more spot on. Freedom is absolutely the key. I finally discovered my “thing” in my late 20s (watercolor painting) and created an entire business around it. Thanks for using your gift to make us feel seen and understand ourselves even better, Clay! It’s helpful and comforting.

[etherealdaisy]

I’m definitely lost in life. I had a lot of bad circumstances that led me to be this way. But I do have unfair advantages like being going at speaking English despite being a first generation immigrant, and I always get complemented on my face. I don’t enjoy cleaning but I’m quite good at it because I was forced to do chores in my adolescence and teenage-hood. I wish I could go back 20 years and tell me younger self that my mother is a narcissist and that there’s nothing I can do to help her.

[aaronpark]

I’m 17 and ready to conquer the world in the name of my INFJ gang

[smilealways]

1. My Unfair advantage ?
° I remember my friends say im good at decoration ideas. (Event organiser)
°Good at understanding ppl and giving them advice.( Councelling)

2. What I love to do?
° I love traveling and I love talking about the place and describe the feeling the scene.
° I always loved coffee and I wanted to become a barista.
° I love cooking
° Obviously photography
° Gardening
° Making new friends I love talking to different mindset of ppl their deepist thoughts.

3. How can I help ppl?
° That's at top for infjs helping others.
° I believe that now days ppl want to be heard ppl want to loved and recognised. So I would love to be that kind of a person who can embrace ppl in need.

4. Any information I have now I wish I had when I was young?
° YES! YouTube I wish had these kinda vids that could tell me I'm not alone and I'm normal. I really feel Jealous for this generation kids growing youths that they have so so so many information filled in internet and so many free skills to learn. I really wish I had this back than so I could figure out what I actually wanted to do with my life.
° The skill of awareness I would like to give this to my younger self.
° And yes obviously boundaries I really wish I knew that word back then so I could get less hurt.

5. One of the complicated work I can make it easy?
° I remember teaching my fellow frnd science and mathematics formula like he couldn't remember which formula applies where,
For example- He love cars so I named the formulas according to each car and the value the car holds in his mind.

[TowardsWellnessandResilience]

As an infj.... my mind does tick different and I am now ok with not being the norm.
I now celebrate and protect my identity.
I have decided that to me, being INFJ is the biggest blessing God gave me... coz He made me a genuinely GOOD person that loves & cares for humanity in the midst of a dark, selfish, narc-filled, miserable world. I carry loads of true love, deep empathy, warm light, calm and peace wherever I go...and I LOVE it. I love me. ❤❤❤❤
Fellow INFJ's you are the rain in this dry & thirsty world. We ARE a blessing.

[tessabrowning]

I always end your videos feeling like I just listened to an encouraging pep talk with a counselor who understands me (INFJ) on the most accurate level lol thank you!