Why Women Chase Toxic Men | Martha Higareda

You can follow Lewis at:

[marusya]

The sign of childhood trauma is when you are trying to please difficult person. You are not interested in kind and calm person. You are trying to persuade an arsehole that you are good.

[RhondaR]

Unhealed women attract unhealed men. Vise versa🔥💯

[keniacarvajal]

Martha is So insightful, intelligent, and well spoken! Truly you two deserve one another, congratulations ! Que viva el amor sano y verdadero !!❤

[Danko]

When you're feeling these crazy amounts of chemistry and attraction to the other person,
easier said than done, it's nearly impossible to run away from that, because we're curious and want to know what if this is true love and finally get my happy ending? It's an innate feeling to want to know, what's next? I know in my case it resulted in many disappointments, heartbreak, pain and sorrow but the pull to that particular person is very powerful, specially if you've trauma and haven't ever been love.

[HolisticMenopauseWellness]

Well said and articulated. It’s something so many of us do.

[anything]

I didn‘t expect in the beginning her answer to be so wise ❤ thanks

[deeannaroot]

Beautifully said!!🙏❤
Finally learning that at half a century. 😂
Thank you for the reminder!!

[Mmyythandle]

I’ve realized my entire 40 years of existence is a trauma response and I don’t know who I am anymore. The more I learn about it the more broken and hopeless I feel and like it’s too late to get better.

[jmang]

Beautifully said, wish I heard this in high school. ♥️♥️♥️🌹

[ViridianaRozokwietna]

This is spot on; it happened to me; whole 9 years in imaginary relationship with a real person, horribly painful.

[adrianaadnan]

Birds of the same feathers fly together..

[nikiabutler]

This is truth and I got this questioned answered when I asked myself a series of questions that because I was starting to heal I curious about my life’s behaviors I was curious to know why I craved one thing but I always went in the opposite direction of what I actually wanted and I will say although there’s more to that question that he asked her she did hit on one the most and major issues

[artemismargarette]

Tama siya. 👍 Kagaya rin po ng podcast program ni Ms. Toni Gonzaga, 'yong Toni Talks show dito sa Pilipinas. Sabi po niya, kapag daw ang pakiramdam ng babae ay "butterflies in the stomach" sa lalaki, hindi raw po 'yon ang para sa iyo. Normal lang na kiligin, pero kapag daw tunay na umiibig ang tao, dapat ang maramdaman niya ay comf'tability and peacefulness inside. 😊
Wala, share ko lang naman po..heheh..

[omaconstruction]

It's also what they grew up seeing in movies. The bad boys are more fun, exciting, leaving on the edge we all have a little devil inside of us and no one wants to live within the safe defined lines created by theor parents.

[Tee-Jay-y]

So we should never pursue a relationship with someone we have great chemistry with?

[callmeqi]

It has to do with most women has a tendency to “save” a man😅

[yeewahevachui]

But wouldnt it be good if u can grow out of the trauma together 🎉

[RebekahaH-]

Hola Marta,
So when is meeting a man not childhood trauma? I mean, how will I know it’s okay to move ahead with a man?