You Are Enough

Why you are enough. MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE 🎅!

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#motivation #codependency #loneliness

[Tilly]

As someone who just spent Christmas alone after separating from a toxic family and then toxic friends, thank you for this. It was lonely, but better than being with bullies.

[keshakellogg]

Something impactful my therapist asked me: "Why do you keep going to a well that will always be dry?" That brought resolution. ❤️

[VanGoee]

"we feel a need to be liked by those that aren't good for us"
i should note that somewhere

[gwwayner]

I remember the last line of the movie 'Stand By Me'; 'You never have friends again like you had when you were 12'. It seems the older one gets the less trustworthy and relatable people are. Maybe we all just get too much baggage as the years go by. I now enjoy other people in small doses, and I keep in mind what a pain-in-the-ass other people can be when I start to feel lonely. Solitude does have many rewards.

[rodgerii]

Edit: Well I thought that nobody was going to read this.

As a person that lives alone I can't express how gratificating is when you are by your own and you handle yourself. When you cloathes are thorn and you sew them, when you feel hungry and make your own food, when your place is messy and you organize in your time.
Living alone is harsh because it is learning time; learning our limits and ourselves. Thanks for the video.

Edit: So many are reading and relating, thank you all and merry xmas.

[orpheus]

Whatever you're looking for is within yourself, not outside. Hope you realize that. Also, face loneliness. Fear of being alone can bring you suffering, so better face it and get rid of it.

[elijahp.]

This video couldn't have come at a better time.

[whompingwillow]

Please a take a moment to realise you made someone's day multiple times from miles and miles away without knowing them or even seeing them...what a time to be alive right?😁
Thanks for being there for me when no one was

[heatherlouise]

"By embracing our emptiness, you eradicate this need to be filled." So true and so easily overlooked. Thank you for reminding me!

[braddles]

stop and read this for a second.
if you don’t fit in, if you’re lonely, if you’re different.
you aren’t in the worst spot. you’re in the best spot, being different and acknowledging you don’t fit in is simply knowing that you are a bright star in a dead galaxy. keep shining. you’re special.

[henrikandreason]

You speak so many truths. I have find that a solitary state of being is more often then not a blessing. It does help that my friends are solid gold and very supportive, all of them. And of course it helps that we have all known each other for 25-30 years, but still: I dont feel that i need a romantic relationship to be happy for example. But i do cut loose, and have cut of toxic friends in the past. As soon as I detect I soon often start to examine the behaviour of the individual in question very closely, and at the first sight of detecting that this is a presistent behaviour I let them go directly. But it took a few bad turns and crashes to learn this of course, but thats the mening of life to grow and adapt and become better at the same time. In my book you win, or you learn. Both are victories.

[gyunge]

I feel freer than ever after ditching my narcissistic family. For my life time I thought I had to please them to belong in the family. That was a big mistake and a waste. If it is not mutually respectful I will end it right away.

[idaloup]

That's why I don't speak to my family anymore and I feel better. Don't be afraid to stay alone because anyway you are not. Your own presence is enough. Why hearing something we don't want to ? Are we masochistic ? No ! Why letting people belittle us ? Are we masochistic ? No ! It's time to stand aside from the herd of cattle. Just staying connected to our presence in a consistent alignment.

[gracesanity]

I became unwell from interactions with toxic emotional vampires. I am beginning to ground in my self through focused self care, structure, routine. I am manifesting miracles in my life all since embracing solitaryness. My health is restoring, and my soul shouts " welcome home my precious one" I use the time to journal, grow by watching inspiring utube, my darling cat, a clean home, cook and bake. Art. A peace is emerging and l am more resilient, emotionally stronger. My self respect is coming back. Dependent on externals will weaken you. Be the hero you are seeking. You will never be lonely again. Love and light fellow foot soldiers. Ireland

[Penname]

This video was the perfect Christmas gift for anyone in the world. ♥️🎄❄️

[innerlocus]

I use to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone. – Robin Williams –Happy Holidays Everyone–

[siddu]

*so chilling that the opening quote is from Robin Williams*




*may he rest in peace*

[sliceofbreadyrago]

There is a time for socializing.
There is a time for solitude.
Become confident in both and nothing will sway you.

[randomcenturion]

You have no idea how much I needed this video today, dude.


Merry Christmas.

[anitacarter]

” when you pray, you speak to the universe… When you meditate, you listen for the answer.” 😁✌🏻