There Is No Reason For Men To Date In Their 20s.

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Timestamps:
Should You Really Stay Single In Your 20s?: 0:00
My First Relationship: 0:26
A Hilarious Story: 2:12
What I Learned From My First Girlfriend: 2:59
Established Titles: 4:03
My Second Relationship: 5:15
What I Learned From My Second Girlfriend: 6:22
My Current Relationship: 7:00
Arguments Against Dating In Your 20s: 7:27
The Most Important Question To Consider: 9:28
How To Be Socially Attractive: 13:07
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topics: why dating is so hard for guys, how to get a girlfriend, why dating in 2022 sucks, stay single as long as you can

[Dsworddance]

I understand not wanting to marry in your 20s, but not date? Pursuing romantic relationships, learning about yourself and learning what makes a compatible partner for you is just as important for your personal development as learning skills + money. Theres nothing wrong with pursuing dating and self improvement as long as one side does not overtake or infringe on the other side

[spudman]

I didn't date when I was a teenager and now I barely know how to talk to people I'm trying to attract. I feel like skipping that in my twenties as well will be completely detrimental to my social skills.

[storytellers]

Don't do monk mode! The idea of not dating in your 20's to solely focus on your personal development is bs. Going through the awkward stages of dating is part of your personal development.

[stijnnoorman]

As someone that's also in his mid-twenties, I feel like it's best to focus most of your time on building yourself up. I think it's fine to spend a bit of time on dating, but it shouldn't be your main focus. If you find someone that's a great fit for you, then by all means, get in a relationship if that's what you want to do. But building yourself up is more important in this phase of your life. Fully neglecting your dating life also doesn't seem like a good option because your social skills will suffer. That's why I mainly focus on improving myself, but I also see dating as a way to do this. I see life as a game, and going on dates helps me to level up my (introverted) character. Thought-provoking video! It's also really well edited, keep it up! 👊

[TheNucaKola]

I’m turning 30 next year and as much as I’ve tried, learn from mistakes, and try again, I’ve never been in a relationship. I’m not a virgin anymore, but dating has been nearly impossible, and harder to make a positive impression with women than being in a job interview

[MDobri-syce]

I think, men dating in their 20's might still have value but focus should not be chasing potential partners but building up yourself. When you build up yourself, the rest is more likely, to just come to you.

[thejakelegion]

Good luck with your endeavors, Cole. I learned many of the same things you did in many of the same ways. I'm now 31, have a beautiful and supportive wife, 4 young sons and a surging career and control of my life. I wish it on everyone.

[bigjimslim]

For me, I feel each person has to find their own balance of personal development while single, and while dating. Some are more comfortable always dating or maintaining a relationship, and others are content with being single.

What’s most important is to not stagnate in either, such as staying in a relationship that should have ended years prior for a plethora of reasons, or finding yourself going a decade without ever trying to go on a date.

Being single and dating are both crucial aspects of life to improve in, not just one or the other. It’s up to the individual to find the balance that is most comfortable for them.

And for that demographic of people that seemingly never truly do find “the one”, I know it can be difficult, but all you can do at that point is keep putting yourself out there. Keep trying. And in the meantime, focus on ways you can love, understand, and improve yourself.

Great thought provoking video as always, keep up the great work.

[LinnSandra]

Dating is part of learning, and being in my 30s i’ve learned what’s not for me by dating in my 20s. Keep dating, it helps you find yourself and what you truly want

[dullknifefactory]

From 19 to 24
I was on drugs
I had a neglectful and abusive childhood. At 27, I just care about my sobriety and indulgence in my passions..
I will always despise those who throw relationships in my face, it was never in the cards for some people. You'd think in a generation that cries so much about mental health they wouldn't purposely upset those who just aren't like them.

[danieldomin]

I got serious about self development when I turned 15. Decided to shut off everything else in life and focus only on programming and health care. I'm currently 17yo and my net income is over 70k a year working as a software developer. Life is made of decisions and whatever you pick you're gonna see a lot of results from it.

[MrGreenixx]

As someone in their late 20s who missed the boat and never got to be in a relationship, I implore all you youngsters to socialize as much as possible and be open to experience all kinds of relationships, while also working on yourself.

[matthiasrambally]

He's not saying to not date he's saying it's not a necessity in your 20s I wish the commenters could understand that 😂

[jtorres]

You will fall in love, and you will learn from failed relationships. Everyone has their own views and values in their significant others, but as an older gentleman in my 40's, nothing is more important than learning about yourself and taking care of your needs 1st, always. You might achieve this by getting into relationship's or going monk, but everyone must create their own path. Just please understand that everyone's path will be different, and that there is no playbook, nor wins or losses. There is just living!

[AnandJ]

Great video! I didn't date in my 20s as I was so focused on building my ideal life. I put all of my focus on my fitness (lost 125 pounds) and eventually quit my 9-5 job and built a successful business.

[julioguzman]

After my last relationship ended (before covid), I needed to work on myself and see who I was. I stopped being so clingy and needed to set up boundaries with what's right and wrong in a relationship. Recently tried to get with a girl I work with and after 3 weeks of talking and hanging out with her she decided to avoid me. So I'm going to continue on myself

[TheDoomerGoGetter]

Saving this to watch later, but this is definitely something I need to hear, I watched a romance movie the other day, started beating myself up for being all alone at 24, really I need to focus on my YouTube channel, finances, career, gym, church, etc... More than a girl right now

[Wynell]

I feel like I don't just hear your words, but they go directly into my soul. Thank you for sharing such beautiful thoughts and useful experiences. Definitely one of my favorite channels.

[caelanmurie-gqsj]

Imagine thinking you can just jump into a relationship at 30 without knowing anything what you want in a partner.

[scherschingspastus]

I have the problem that i CANT get in a relationship