Proposed Twice, Got Rejected Twice. Now My Ex’s Family Is Calling Me Heartless For Kicking Her Out.

I, 41Male have been dating my ex gf, 39Female for nearly Six years. Our relationship was a good one. Four years ago I informed her family and friends I was going to propose to her while we were on a family vacation and received their blessing and well-wishes. The night I proposed, I tried to make the night as memorable and "perfect" as possible.

Proposed Twice, Got Rejected Twice. Now My Ex’s Family Is Calling Me Heartless For Kicking Her Out.

0:00 - Intro
0:06 - Story 1
2:20 - Relevant Comments
3:11 - Story 2
7:08 - Update
11:29 - Relevant Comments
12:51 - Update
15:28 - Story 3
19:12 - Relevant Comments
20:56 - Update
23:42 - Relevant Comments
24:13 - Outro

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[theresidentteacher]

Oh HELL NAW! As soon as he said "Been together 6 years" it was a WRAP. Even a Woman wouldn't wait for that long

[mannydcbianco]

Story 1: She was just keeping OP as a placeholder in hopes that someone better comes along. She probably has someone in mind already, someone she feels a connection to and is waiting for him to make a move. OP is merely the backup plan, the safe bet, the consolation price that will provide comfort and security and money in case her true love never comes around. He was right to dump her, he deserves to be someone's first choice. He deserves to be with someone who loves him as much as he loves her. His ex clearly didn't.

[dmartig]

She keeps rejecting his proposal and asks "What's wrong?" when he acts upset after?

[Mrwillie]

I don’t blame op for not be a backup plan for his girlfriend and his ex family just want op to take back the ex because they don’t want to deal with her story 1

[mztweety]

"Harold, if you ever make my daughter feel uncomfortable again they're going to be picking your teeth out of your stool"😂
Now that's how you dad.

[devhxh]

33-39 6 years in relationship ? Still not ready... She thinks she is in 20's or something. You cant string along someone at this age who is has every intention to marry... She is wasting your time, she doesn't need a husband but a sponsor !!

[Garanon]

That first ‘no’ was the sign to cut your losses and leave. She was callous in how she rejected that first proposal.
She’s got a right to her opinion on whether she thinks OP is capable of commitment, but OP is an adult who should’ve stood up for himself and validated his own feelings.

At least the garbage was taken out eventually

[eldenlion]

Yeah i dont think he's the one not ready for a commitment

[SJMoody]

Story 3: The sister makes no sense, she’s mad because OPs wedding is overshadowing her pregnancy but she got pregnant 2-3 months before the original wedding date. Then when they did move the wedding it wasn’t good enough.

OP said they floated the winter wedding and the sister was receptive to the idea but December is bad because she’s 8 months, January she would be having the baby or just had it, February she’d have a baby maybe a month old and probably used that as an excuse to not go. Seems like she just wanted a reason fuck things up for OP.

She probably wanted her to move it back to summer so she would have time to look good in pictures, not 8 months pregnant or recently gave birth.

[LeonardEarnshaw]

Facing challenges in relationships is part of the journey, but there’s always a way forward. My marriage encountered significant issues, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to overcome them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are attainable if you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate. Keep your hope—solutions are out there.

[DrownedInExile]

It's a pity first OP didn't flip her script. When she started dropping hints about marriage, "I don't think you're ready for the commitment just yet". See how fast she hit the roof.

[Vipershadow]

S1: I mean if I propose to you twice and you say no which yea you don’t have to say yes but if you say no I’ll see no reason for you to live with me any further.🤷🏾 I’m nobody’s wait n see back up plan Especially since she pretty much goaded him into another proposal by “dropping hints” as op put it she doesn’t want to be married to bro and he started to realize that and that was the moment the game was over And anyone supporting her nonsense to h*ll with em.

[nofrackingzone]

The Harold character isn’t in love with OP. He’s in love with her dad and see OP as a rival for her father’s attention. Want to bet the father and Harold have they getting it on?

[Whykickamoocow]

Yep. F Harold. Anyone said that shit to my Miss's would be spitting out their teeth

[Mrwillie]

Harold comes off creepy and op needs to stay away from Harold story 2

[georgeprchal]

"Fool me once, shame on me; fool me six or more times, shame on me."

[miss_mish]

What is with people expecting them to plan their wedding around them? Just get married and stop pandering to others. If they can't make it then they can't make it. An 8 month pregnant woman isn't useless. Stop demeaning women and treating them like they are incapable just because they are pregnant. If she was on bed rest or experiencing problems that's a different story but it's not the norm.
She was a child who just wanted to not share attention. She needs to grow up.

[james]

I dont see how you could be surprised if someone leaves you after you reject marriage not just once... But twice.

You're basically indicating to that person in their eyes that you don't want to be with them in that sense so why should they continue to waste time pursuing? I can understand having commitment issues... But maybe people should think about thay before getting into long term relationships in the first place and wasting other people's time when they themselves aren't ready to seriously date and persue anything further.

[TheMercian]

The fact this happened twice is bad enough, he should have kicked her to the curb after the first rejection.

[jjmencap]

Well done she deserves be alone forever