The #Narcissists' Code 78: A #narcissist will destroy your self worth and how you view yourselves

A #narcissist will destroy your self worth and how you view yourselves. Don't tie your self worth to a narcissist. it won't end well and will have you constantly questioning your value.

Welcome to The #Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the #narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The abuse victims get validation and the #Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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[sallyg]

100% true. A narcissist wants their intimate partner to constantly prove their love. And it must be unconditional love even though the narcs love is very conditional. 😔

[strugglingmillennial]

Stay away from anyone who makes you question your self-worth. You don’t need validation from anyone. Put yourself first!

[Tiffaloni]

For the spouse the only condition is to shut up, not express your feelings and just take their abuse. If you do express your feelings it doesn’t matter because you’re invalidated or plain ignored

[jcnlaw]

Seasoned divorce lawyer here. Love your videos! They should be required viewing to obtain a marriage license!

[charlenelenatalbert]

My God this is exactly what he did to me and I’m going through hell trying to rebuild. Now I understand why when you remove yourself from that toxic relationship you go no contact completely🥺

[teresacotton]

A Narcissist tried to destroy my self esteem. I like to think that discarding him took his self esteem to an all time low.

[erinncole]

Thank you for all that you do! I have attracted narcissistic men my whole life and married one. After my divorce I started trying to figure out what in me allowed this person in my life? I learned that I didn’t have enough self love or self worth. I can proudly say that I repel narcissists now. 🙂

[goddessrulz]

This means the man that I’m currently dating is a narcissist….I’m out!

[nanaharuna]

They always bring up old issues you had before to manipulate you.

[jasminemccaslin]

I'm not easy to get to but I will say that the love bomb really tricked me that's what caused all the problems because he was a pro at mirroring me and he did this for about a year before he changed into a different character like a actor

[tanyagamble]

This was good and your on point because at the end I looked and felt horrible, I’m proud to say august 4 th will be a year and I look and feel human again .my ex was a maniac .

[StefB]

He used to tell me I’m grown & I should know what I did! I used to be frantic & upset trying to figure it out….All the while he was cheating.

[Kristinandreasphoto]

The further away from the narcissist the more clear it is. 🙌🏼

[knikkisunshine]

It’s been almost 25 years and I’m still learning how to love and accept myself again. These videos are helping validate the things I went through with my mom and my son’s father. I never knew what a narcissist was until about a year or so ago and I’m glad I know about it now. Thank you for your content 🙏🏾

[latreselatrese]

My narc constantly brings up my past like from years ago- he goes on and on. It brings me down when I know I'm older and wiser. My 40th birthday is tomorrow and he's bringing up stuff when I was 30. I get depressed listening to him after I just had a great productive positive inspirational day 🥺

[marcuslong]

Narcissists game is "you can't win". That is the game. Whether you want to play it, is your decision.

[carolcortez]

Yes! Parents do this to their children and teach them to hate themselves. It’s tragic that children don’t understand this and end up believing they’re unworthy of love and respect. 🥺

[aligolightly]

I married one. Two years dating/engaged/living together. I graduated with a BSE with a high gpa, earned an elite certification in my field, worked hard to get my body in shape, found an apartment and church we loved, and he tore down all my self respect once we were married and he didn’t have to show me the mask anymore. Because of these videos, I can see what he did before and after we got married. He did a bang up job of turning me into his mother and taking his resentment for her out on me so he could maintain his dysfunctional immature relationship with her. I am grateful to be free, and praying to stay free.

[fiercefeminine]

This speaks to me I even turned into him in order to survive the madness and I'm shaking it off now it is a war !

[lakiajohnson]

My opinion: don't add too much to your schedule so your family gets the time they need and deserve. Your following understands and your content is already consistent and valuable.