How to Lead a Woman Into Attraction and Capture Her Attention | Don't Miss Out!

If you want to ask a woman out, you must do so without hesitation. If you want to kiss a woman, you must do so without apology. Far too many men are scared of offending women and hurting their feelings. In reality, a woman is more likely to be offended by a nice guy who’s weak as opposed to a so-called “bad guy” who makes his intentions clear right from the start.

Nice guys are paralyzed by anxiety, constantly asking themselves if it’s okay to make a move? If it’s okay to touch a woman? If it’s okay to invite a woman back to their apartment? Maybe the woman will feel better if I let her make the decisions?

After all, men and women are supposed to be equal, aren’t they? These are just some of the ways nice guys self-sabotage and prevent themselves from taking the lead in relationships.

Leading a woman and being dominant is not, however, the same as being aggressive. You don’t lead a woman by strong-arming her into following you. You don’t use force or threats to gain compliance; in fact, doing so would only undermine your value.

Research conducted by Pennsylvania State University noted that men who are playful, humorous, and fun to be around are considered more attractive and alluring.The theory as to why these playful qualities are so endearing is that playful men are seen as more grounded, stable, and resilient when facing life’s challenges and setbacks. Playful men are also perceived to be less aggressive and less likely to hurt a woman and her future offspring.

Furthermore, these qualities are seen as a marker of social intelligence and indicate that a man can form faster social bonds with others thus increasing his ability to acquire more resources and protection from society. From an evolutionary perspective, this ties in with the theory that playful men are viewed as mentally strong and resilient. You should never confuse the qualities of dominance and assertiveness with aggression and anti-social behavior—two traits common to insecure men.

Even if a woman refuses to follow your lead, it’s important not to get upset or derailed by her resistance. Being a leader doesn’t mean being headstrong and stubborn. If you tell a woman you want to eat steak and she says no, simply ask her what she feels like eating instead. If she comes up with a better alternative that you’re happy to go along with, there’s no reason not to be flexible.

Nevertheless, if she can’t come up with a better alternative simply tell her you’re going to eat steak and she’s welcome to join you. In leadership, the person who has the strongest and clearest image of what they want prevails. You must never get upset or angry if a woman doesn’t want to listen to you or follow your lead, you know what you want and that’s all that counts. An attractive man does what he wants, whether a woman is willing to follow him or not.


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Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell

[harrasingh]

In essence love yourself, realise your worth and know yourself well - this way you will only show people who you really are than to end up acting to be someone else to get a certain result.

[ZeRo-twkw]

Straight facts, don’t treat them like a celebrity or someone so valuable.

[ricardoprieto]

Enjoying your content, I got the physical copy of atomic attraction and trying to buy the Kindle version but it seems like it has been taken down from Amazon. Will it be available soon?

[stevelee]

Your video's turned me into a player

[billymadison]

Long story short they all want a Chad and Jesse

[ADAMGODKING]

Everything else in this world has to stop when 'Develop Attraction' uploads a new video !

[DanTrustsTheFathersPlan]

Lewis's Eyes and shirt obviously matches the color *PILLS* he's been swallowing for years. Outstanding video man👊💥

[lendlalfred]

You don't need a date to get intimate with a woman. You can get physical upon meeting her by developing instant attraction. Read her body language, if she is receptive, she wouldn't mind getting physical. If unsure, touch places like her lower back to see how she will responds. If she doesn't pull away, then you can make more advances, such as hugging and kissing. Women like men to take charge and go after they want. At the end of day, all she can say is no and the word no wouldn't kill you.

[honeyglazedgammon]

They had a vegetarian pizza, it was obviously he was beta from the start. You should always be looking to bed modern western women by the third date absolute max or get rid, don't let her think you're a beta male provider when she's already had one night stands.

[chocolatechip]

That was the exact mistake I made a couple months back! This video gave me an even bigger motivation and insight to just go for it!

[Messenger]

Some guys don't just want hookups. We just want a faithful girlfriend

[toothpaste_tm]

Nice guys can turn very passive aggresive if they get into a relationship with a girl, since they are too "nice" to argue with her upfront, they hide their anger and create negative tension in the relationship/family.

[BaldwinAmorado-ubtm]

Yep don't apologize doing to women, women attracted to not apologizing men

[usercantbeblank]

This channel has taught me a lot about understanding women and I’m very thankful for your content man. Wish I was in a position to donate something to you as a token of appreciation.

[albertmichelson]

It is hard to be a man, but it is worth

[LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Keep it up bro love the content, slay cheeks!

[BigStou]

So women decide if you are worth it as a person over a fucking pizza. Thanks I guess I'll be alone.

[josezerpa]

Women don’t want to make any decisions. You as a man need to set up the frame from the start: picking up the place (ideally a place you’ve been to before), you need to know The menu and be ready to order food and The wine for both. That way she will feel relaxed and talk about herself while you deal with everything else else.
Believe me, you will stand out from the vast majority of men just by doing this simple things and she will be impressed of you self confidence and ability to lead.
Again your vídeo is spot on, Chris!

[michaelramirez]

I love your work, Chris.Thanks for sharing your knowledge

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Lots of love from BANGLADESH 🇧🇩, be safe