the gentle pursuit of inner joy & fulfillment 🌼

Reflecting on my current mindset and chapter: living in alignment, abundance, and pursuing inner joy, purpose & fulfillment. In this state, you embrace self love, and completely trust and follow your intuition. Most importantly, you flow with nature. Moving at a balanced, natural pace: Seasons. Flowing & resting. Allowing, not forcing.

What season of life are you in?

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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.

[ahtsaa]

'You might be a different kind of flower' is such a sweet thing to say!

[teckaa]

I love that! I also say: I'm happy with a calm life. We live in this hustle world. It's almost like not ok to say I don't want to hustle. We have to be honest about what we truly want.

[usernamekrn]

I came from poverty and abuse. I had to feel like I was somebody in order to accept myself. As Ram Dass said in order to become nobody you have to be somebody. Society programs everyone to be x, y, or z. My ego needed to get a master's degree, a career, a house, a car, get married, become a parent, and check off a bunch of hobbies such as travel.

When I finally got all of I was grateful but I got bored. It wasn't the stuff that makes me happy. It's living in the moment that makes me happy. It's the journey and the struggle that makes me feel human.

I'm learning to meditate and just be.

Thanks for your videos.

[nishababezz]

I love this. I recently quit my job as a dental hygientist. I felt like I worked so hard for the career just to leave it. I actually feel so much peace but you feel gulity for not feeling productive. if im being honest I love the career because I love titles. I needed this message today.I realize its okay to just be.
Truly what I would love to do is become a baker. I'm just going to go for it.

[c.k.]

Dear Aileen, thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video it is so timely with were i find myself in life right now. It felt like i was receiving guidance, love and support from a big sister. Everything you said really resonated with me, and although deep down i have been feeling like i shouldn't compare myself to my past self, hearing you say it and go into detail was the reassurance that i needed. There were so many point which you made that really opened my eyes, such as not letting past traumas be your motivation for doing things, but to let your natural self who you are and what makes you happy and excited guide you. This video means so much to me and helps me feel like i can be set free from the 'supposed to be's' and just accept were i am and the seasons and journey as a beautiful transition to a new me a happy me in the now. Thank you 🤍💛💚

[jillianr.]

“I was motivated by trauma.” Wow mic drop and big realization for me in that trauma and feeling unworthy was what often fuels the way I treat my body. Big healing ❤️‍🩹 Thank YOU!

[TruthWillprevail]

I needed this today thank you. 😢 I know all things are possible with Jesus. That is why I keep faith. Lord hear my prayers. I’m so discouraged as a single mother trying to make it on my own both of my sons are special needs I’m constantly struggling to buy groceries, struggling to pay bills but with you by my side Lord I cannot fail. So as I continue to struggle to provide for my children, Jesus I know you will give me strength.

[Mysteriouslyhidden]

I agree.. Definitely step back, self care & embrace, change.. 💚💚

[annenjagi]

Makes the two of us. "I love a slow gentle life" too❤❤❤

[Harrysimspowerhub]

Admitting that you're not all perfect takes ego free mindset saying that's a huge thing

[federica_la_ferrera]

This video and your channel is so precious and inspiring. It really did help me a lot. I'm 30 and I am unlearling all of the conditioning from my parents and society. I'm still struggling a lot, but in finally living life at my own conditions. I can say I am an artist without feeling ashamed.
I can rest and have afternoon naps without feeling guilty.

I'm struggling financially, but I will never compromise my values ever again.

[beeee]

You appear at the right time. It helps. Thank you girl. ❤

[cristieuhlemann]

I believe you can still do big things at a slow peaceful pace of life!
I love this perspective! I am so hard on myself most of the time in my mind. I’m constantly telling myself keep going, push harder, faster and battling my want to slow down in my mind.I really needed to hear this! Thank you!

[lenima]

Here with you since 2014ish and the funny thing is that you are the same being, the same girl and you always were the same way in retrospection analyses, it was about your singing and now about business, what really changed is your vocabulary, and age and the richness of experiences, you the same persona in the outside view, but wiser, it actually is just normal ageing and also the security of your home and relationship. All your seasons were beautiful and inspiring, and your energy is so calming and inspiring and has always been the same, maybe you see more, and embrace more of yourself by now, and there is still more. I am also a libra, super creative and also exactly the same analytical and a perfectionist in the best way as you are. Thank you, Aileen, for sharing all of you, I love you 💖🤗🔥💃🌺enjoy these times sweetheart🍀🤞🤞

[laxmichhantyal]

Dear Ailen thankyou so much making this kinds of videos i follow your each and every videos your videos are my go to channel whenever i feel low, overwhelmed, stress, your videos are my motivation everything your videos gives me different level of motivation satisfaction i learn alit from you thankyou so much

[darklavender]

Hi Aileen, this is the video I need. I'm transitioning into a new 'season' in my life. I just turned 40. I quit my job and started working on my own. But, it's easy to get into the hustle culture. Now I'm into a gentler pace of life, following my 'flow' and energy.

At first, I could not understand this phase. I felt so guilty for not pushing for MORE - more money, more businesses, more success. It feels like a weird place to be in. Until I found your video. You beautifully capture the essence of the gentle pursuit of inner joy and fulfillment.

Enjoy your new home. Live a beautiful life! Thank you! Lots of love..

[LivingwithMinal]

I am an Asian kid too and always lived in the pressure of proving yourself. I grew up being anxious and its still there. But I’m glad that I found your videos and its helping me a lot

[hailz]

Slow and gentle era here. As an artistic creativite, integraing softness through inner peace and joy to simply exist and dance through the seasons is beautiful ❤️ lots of gratitude from Aotearoa!

[baskooa]

We can get caught up in comparing ourselves to others, but the most important journey is our own. Imagine you're on a hike. You might see other people on different trails, taking different routes. But your goal isn't to race them, it's to enjoy your own hike, appreciate the scenery, and maybe even reach a personal summit.
So keep exploring, keep learning, and keep being you! That's the most fulfilling way to experience this journey of life.🌱🌼
GOOD LUCK!

[sophiaisabelle]

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