5 things that can make a narcissist angry | The Narcissists' Code Ep 1041

5 things that could set a narcissist off and make them rage out on your or treat you differently. As you all might know, it typically doesn't take a lot to set off a narcissist or toxic person. A lot of them have short fuses, so I put together this video of things to be able to give you a heads up on a few of them.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[helenjohnson-tyus]

5 things that makes a narcissists in high vibrations...being happy...and you not needing them...

[darkethereal]

They also get angry when you stick up for yourself. They can’t believe you have the audacity and the nerve to have some type of self respect.

[NoTimeFakeOnes]

They are so childish, that its sickening. 🤢

[Yvonne]

They rage when you don't drop what you're doing or change plans that you already have to accommodate them

[monaatkins]

They don’t like you being close to your kids either!

[nicolebeard]

Before this video even premieres, I can give a few reasons! Holding them accountable, disagreeing with them, being around friends and family, boundaries, and breaking up with them.

[whoaskedyou.]

Omg my narcissist ex would leave and stay out all night when he wanted to and would be very upset when I went out. It was crazy he hated me having friends I don't miss that mess and holding him accountable always turned into him antagonizing me

[remarkable]

I called him buddy once and it enraged him and he didn't talk to me for a week. But for some reason I still had to be in his presence 🤨🙄. Never met anyone like this in my life.

[MattPicsET]

Things that made my Narcissist angry:
1. Breathing
2. Healthy boundaries
3. Existing
4. Reaching my goals
5. Being happy

[michellehendrickson]

That get mad over everything..especially holding them accountable and asking questions BOUNDARIES FORGET IT !! JUST AS LONG AS YOUR TAKING THEIR SHIT EVERTHING IS FINE!!!

[shenitamarr]

Man, I’ve been dealing with this from someone. He gets pissed because he can’t control me. But denies that he’s controlling. He says he has “concerns”. And wants to talk about my behavior all the time. This is exhausting.

[IsabellaPiesch]

I can tell you - if you provoke them in any way. If you say NO, set boundaries, critizise them.. I know because I had that a lot of times... But be careful - don´t underestimate their aggressivity. It can get life-treating (I underestimated that). Narcissistic rage is horrible (you are like in horror movie). They throw things around, scream around, beat you up (the whole program).

[SunnydazeAmore]

The TEMPER TANTRUMS! And breaking shit during those episodes especially the stuff they know 100% will get a reaction from the other person.
& some of the time the reasoning behind their tantrums is just something they made up to get “truth” when, in fact, there’s nothing to find out.
List goes on but but you were spot on w those 5 things

[laurapavone]

Taking accountability for my anger has been pivotal. It's such a part of my character that I took during my upbringing.
My mum always accused me to be born, she told me that she tried to abort me, but the attempt failed, so it was my fault the failure of our relationship.
She even told me that I didn't like her since the beginning as when I was a new born I'd cry when held😂😂😂😂😂😂
Narcissists are completely nuts, but I went to a psychologist for 8 years, and lately I found out how meditation and exercises for chronic post traumatic stress disorder are beneficial in today's life.
Accepting that I couldn't help my mum and the little girl I was, it has been the toughest thing to overcome. This is when spirituality kicks in 😅🙏

[notthecontentiouswoman-wom]

The guy I had a relationship with would get angry when I'd say that I prayed about something. "Why you always have to pray about something?!"

[waywardstitch]

Things that set off narc family members...
1) taking a shower
2) combing my hair
4) washing my clothes
3) ironing my clothes
4) reading a book
5) laughing, (or even just smiling)

Edited to add: all of these are things that are self-focused. Many narcs get enraged when you're not focused on them. Being focused on yourself makes the narc feel invisible, which is literally like death to a narc. So picking a fight with you feels like fighting for their lives.

[mysticme]

When they lose their control over you.
Thank you for your videos ❤

[deec]

I thought he was joking around when he would say 'you're lovely and I'm an average Joe' .. I was so lovely that he felt the need to attack my self esteem with mind games ... another one for the block list 🤨

[capricornedition]

If you are introverted and have social anxiety, whew! Get ready to get yelled at called all kind of names . I have been in relationships with outgoing men, but my son's father was the first outgoing narcissistic man I was with. He made my head I have been single for years now, enjoying my own space. There is definitely a difference between the two when it comes to being extroverted, outgoing, charismatic.

[trcbdnb]

When u tell them the truth n ask them for accountability n also when they can't control u. They will do blame shifting n brutally abuse u, use very bad words which u have never listened in ur whole life. Such leechers.