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7 Ways Men Fall In Love – How To Make Him Love You

If you could look inside a guy’s thoughts, would you do it?

Now of course, you’d want a filter on all the gross stuff, AND the weird stuff…

But – if you could listen in on his thinking – right at that moment when he’s falling in love – wouldn’t you want to know what goes on in there?

Well, it’s a simple process, really. What makes it seem complicated is that he doesn’t fall in love on the same schedule as you.

Men actually fall in love FASTER than women do.

It’s been shown in countless studies that men fall in love harder and faster than women.

“Studies show heterosexual men tend to fall in love, or believe they have fallen in love, much faster than their female partners…”

There is a lot of theorizing why this may be – from the need for a man to claim his “territory” and lock down his mate, to the fact that men can determine a suitable mate based on visual and sexual cues alone. There are a lot of reasons it’s more beneficial to the guy to fall first.

“Men are biologically programmed to choose a healthy woman to bear children, while women choose men based on whether or not they’ll be good fathers.” – Helen Fisher – Rutgers University

The reality is that men are more vulnerable when it comes to love and the strong emotions of love – at least at the start.

Now that you know this delicious little secret, how can you use this to capture a man’s heart faster and easier?

How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 1: Blast Him With The Best…

One of the primary reasons a man will fall in love is that he’s blown away with the complete package of YOU.

This includes things like:

Looks – NO, you don’t need to be a supermodel. But you do need to present yourself like one! Dress well, stay fit, and take care of your appearance…

Personality – ABWOY! (Always be working on yourself…) Strive to be a better, more likable version of YOU…

Voice – A high nasal voice is something that can be rehearsed into a silky, sultry tone…

Loyal – Show him you’re capable of sticking through the tough times…
Affectionate – Touching, loving, nurturing… ’nuff said.

Fun – Just read any of my articles and you’ll know FUN is the prime factor in him falling for you…

Men tend to tally up your best traits and see how they add up. (It won’t just be your boobs or your shimmery hair, sorry…)

If he sees that you’ve got a pretty complete package, you’re in!

And the best part about the “complete package” is that it’s based on his perception – not always on “reality.” Whatever that is.

Which means you can get the unfair advantage when it comes to attracting the man you want.

I’ll share more on how to do that in a bit…

For now, let’s move on to:

How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 2: She’s Not A Drama Major…

Let’s face it, some people get caught up in the drama of their lives, and never let it go.

In fact, for many people, drama becomes a reason to live. They just don’t feel alive if they don’t have a lot of emotional turmoil to get caught up in.

I’m sure you’ve met a few of these people in your life, yeah?

Well, I can assure you that men – on the whole – detest drama! And a quality man will actually run for the hills if he smells that you’re one of those women that loves to stir up the gossip and make a big deal out of nothing.

Men find their happiness in PEACE. A lot of men don’t even realize this these days. But if you can give that peace to him, he’ll feel like he’s home – in the arms of love.

How To Get A Man To Love You – Tip 3: Smile For Him…

One of the biggest factors in a man’s decision to ask a woman to marry him is how much he believes he can make her happy.

To put it another way, men leave women that they can’t make happy.

That’s really huge – and you should let that sink in.

It’s the primary reason the women who “nag” their partners tend to drive these men into apathy and eventual disconnection in the relationship. It’s also the reason that chronically unhappy women tend to only attract unhappy men.

Take a minute to tell him he makes you happy – and tell him this in words, and you’ll score extra points.

By the way, if he’s not making YOU happy – then you should...

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Carlos Cavallo
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[Victorious_Camilla]

You're talking about a pretty normal man. But there are jerks and narcissists out there who can mimic true love but of course what they offer isn't real at all. I got trapped in an eventual marriage that was emotionally abusive. What a mess I got myself into. I say date, date, date for as long as you can to know what you're getting yourself into. Life is beautiful but abuse is miserable. So be very careful who you give your heart to.

[sunshine]

Excellent advice for those that are willing to hear it:). Emotional comparability is super important

[hurryupnow]

This is awesome.youshould have mode views. Your videos are very well thought out, you’re basically saying be yourself but have patience and also have some fun at times !

[nofybn]

No, they don't fall harder. You are wrong. It's not harder, women fall harder and far more deeply because it is actually REAL for women. It is NOT real for them, it is only lust and they can move on much quicker. It takes guys 2-3 years to get over a relationship and it takes women 5-6 years. Yes, it takes women longer because it is actually REAL. It isn't about physical attraction like it is for guys. Remember that bs excuse that guys are visual. No, women are ALWAYS more vulnerable. Women should NOT change themselves! Not for a guy when it won't last. So she should not change her voice. You can't permanently change your voice. No woman LIKES drama, it is the guys actions and she can't help it!! She deserves respect and is frustrated that he doesn't respect her. She realizes her worth and has to say something. No woman stir's up gossip and makes something out of nothing. IT IS NEVER NOTHING. It is he is not doing his part and doesn't respect her. That is not nothing, it IS A BIG DEAL. Women nag because he DOESN'T DO IT! IF he wanted to make her happy and respect her, he would do it!! Simple guys!! Guys DON'T SMILE. That is just dumb, I can have real love for a guy even if I don't love my life.

[successfulsugar]

I made all this he didn't fall in love.

[vik]

How about on the PHONE...I DON'T SEE HIM I HEAR HIM LOL

[myloveislam]

I don't want to make anyone love me. Not anymore