how to know when it’s time for a change

Have you been feeling a need for change? Is it time for a life pivot? Let's chat about how to know when it's time for a change, and how to deal with the fear & uncertainty of change. We're always changing and evolving. The question is, are you going to listen to the subtle clues and flow with that change, or are you going to be stubborn until the universe gets louder and forces change upon you?

I'd love to film more sit down chats like this. Let me know: What big questions are on your mind? What life topics would you like to explore & ponder with me? 😌

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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

Lavendaire is a resource for personal growth & lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a beautiful and meaningful life.

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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.

[lavendaire]

I'd love to film more sit down chats like this. Let me know: What big questions are on your mind? What life topics would you like to explore & ponder with me? 😌

[BellaVita]

I'd love to see a video about taking risks/making changes when financial hardship is a factor. For example, I KNOW my job is not fulfilling me, that it's draining my energy, but I stay because it's paying my bills and has good health insurance so I'm scared to make a change. A video discussing that would be awesome!

[lidarubanava]

It's really refreshing not hearing you advocate for overnight change or instant fixes.

[angela.thepapersentimentshop]

I needed this video. I have been at the same job for over 8 years and I am so burnt out and need to find something new. This video was just the push I needed. Thanks.

[preciousandeternal]

💫… and there are still people that truly value slow paced videos with inspiring sequences of nature beautifully arranged stationary and home interiors and shared wisdom✨✨✨thank You🙏🏻💫

[d_generalist]

was feeling so low🥺and you uploaded this❤ you're my online therapist fr🧿

[danarasmussen]

I love how relaxed and authentic this video is. I feel like I’m your friend and you’re just telling me what’s on your mind, and it just happens that it’s also something that I’ve been thinking about lately. 💛💛

[hadleyoling]

I haven't watched your videos for a long time coz I was busy preparing for th board exam, pursuing my career, moving to a new apartment, etc. I must say, the feeling I have while watching your videos feels HOME. ❤

[halda]

I remember when first I found this channel, I'm totally lost and depressed. I learn to love myself from this channel. I learned to control my emotion and all also from this channel. Aileen, u made such a big impact in my life. I always come back to your channel whenever I'm feeling lost in life. As a first born daughter, you're the big sister i wish i have in my life. Love you Aileen ❤

[mellooobruhhh]

Thank you for this video Aileen <3 I am about to graduate in 2 months and have to leave my dorm soon. My dorm room have been my comfort zone for 4 years. I'm a very big introvert person so I enjoy living alone and I really love how peaceful my dorm life is. It is scary to know that the change is coming and my enjoyable college student life will be ended soon. I always remind myself that growth always requires change. I know that my current routine here and the environment around make me feel like I’m living my best and happiest life but I just can’t be a college student forever. This change is scary because I don't know what I will face after this and also scared that where life will take me maybe not where I will be as happy as where I am right now. However, I try to trust the universe and believe that the way I feel unsafe about the life after college will make me learn, grow, become braver and stronger version of me. In which, I can take myself to the success and happiness I supposed to have. The best is yet to come :)

[shirsmi]

Deep dives…. That is for me. Lavendaire I love this YouTube channel. I look for material to listen to while I walk around my home. I leave my journal out on the bar and make notes as I walk by.

I resonate strongly with everything you said in this video. I skip by the little short videos… I want to embrace change and I need calm, smooth, educational, heartfelt energy to motivate me. And you provide that. Chopped up, loud, busy info videos feel like an advertisement. I so appreciate your content.

And I have been so afraid of making changes and trying new things because I am older. More than 70+ times around the Sun. I have found that change is a constant. Get used to it. Choose what I want to change and move forward in the direction of my best future.

2023 I had breast cancer and a double mastectomy but I’m not ready to stop breathing. This is my next chapter. Who knows if it will be a long or short one. Who cares. Because I have TODAY…. and today is going to be fantastic.

Love your contributions to bettering our lives. Thank you Lavendaire. 🎉❤🙏🌟

[rani-yspe]

I am claiming that it is the right time to change. thank you for this. been feeling low these days about where should I bring my current creative career. something within is pushing me to explore new areas. glad that your video popped out. realized a lot. thank you so much. sending you love and light!

[saerae]

Wow that's exactly where I am, i have a peaceful life and I started thinking about change and it makes quite uncomfortable because I have to leave my stuff. But I trust in the Lord and I ask keep to keep me faithful in him!

[Hellotherequeen]

You know how there are some people who have such a positive energy that hanging out with them even for a short while leaves you feeling lighter. Your virtual presence is like that!❤ keeping doing the good work and spreading smiles.

[priyanshishree]

The way you explain things and your voice, , it is just soothing 💌🎶

[emilyisoutside]

I am so inspired by both the wisdom here and the honesty about where you're at and how you're giving yourself the space to evolve and follow your curiosities. So much respect to you for listening to your inner guidance and showing us the way as you do.

[zeinabsaleh]

I just wanna say and i think i should say this earlier.. your videos and the way you talk and explain different things about life, business and self-care topics have affected me so much and helped me become more aware and able to think differently. The first time i searched for a video about how to heal from trauma i found your channel and since then it was and still my favourite channel. Thank you so much.❤

[jerlinthangam]

I am going through a change right now and it feels scary. Thanks for this video ❤ And you always deliver the message that the universe wants to convey 😊

[casiragui]

Thanks for this video. This was a reminder of my theme year 2024. I really like the videos about routines to improve, journal, and reflect on life in general.

[vanessalandrock]

listening to this I have just realized how scared I am of following my intuition and not knowing the bigger picture. especially when my intuition tells me the opposite of what my need for control tells me. it‘s so helpful to hear you experience these fears too but changing anyway. I am so so so so so happy you uploaded this videos 😊 the best is: I now have something to come back to whenever fear took over again