Celibate For 7 Years & Now Men Hate Me | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

ALEXIS has been celibate for seven years. Discussing her reasons with Love Don't Judge, she explained: "I decided to become celibate due to spiritual development, tired of the dating apps and just decided to focus solely on my spiritual growth." Alexis proudly shares her celibacy journey online, but it doesn't always receive a positive reception. "I have received a lot of backlash, mainly from males. A lot of hate comments." Discussing whether Alexis envisions breaking her celibacy in the future, she explained: "I actually plan on being celibate until I find the right person. However, if I don't find the right person, the rest of my life." Today, Alexis will be meeting with her dad, Alexis Senior, to discuss what he really thinks of his daughter's unconventional life choice. He asked Alexis: "By being celibate, are you afraid that it'll keep guys away from you?"

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Senior producer: Yasmin Walker
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[soulkineticswithkikikonque]

That man commenting "don't let me catch her" literally threatened to assualt her, and these same men wonder why she doesn't wanna sleep with them lol. terrible human beings that need to be on a list.

[nataschafocke]

I have been celibate for close to 16 years it was never a difficult decision I am 57 and very happy and full of iLife

[ShanikaMac]

Best decision you could ever make for self care. It absolutely weeds out the ones who only want a good time. It also allows you time to love more on yourself. I did it before I got married and said the next man I slept with would be my husband. My husband respected my celibacy and now we’ve been married for four years. The one who is willing to wait for you is out there.❤

[linettedavis]

I've decided to be celibate again. Let's just say I have had a spiritual awakening and I am focusing on myself. I applaud her and I think she's doing the best thing. I won't be with anyone unless I'm married to him.

[hardworkingdiva]

I’m glad people are speaking more openly about their choices to become celibate just like I appreciated when people embraced their sexuality. It’s about feeling free to know that you have personal agency over your body. I can say my celibacy journey of 10 years was AMAZING. I did not plan for it but enjoyed every moment of it. 2 new degrees earned, complete career flip with a successful business, helped start 2 nonprofits, traveled, had so much fun with friends and family. It was amazing! I decided to start back dating and met my now husband out the gate. He’s perfect for me. I credit taking time to date, therapy, and learning how to truly love myself for being able to find the perfect partner for me. I encourage everyone to do what’s best for them and remember that you aren’t alone or weird. It’s okay to have full agency over your body.

[BentleyandJaxon]

I love this. Don’t see anything wrong with it. Her body. Her decision.

[Baddietrinigal]

Only thing weird to me about this is the sit down with her dad 😂 I could NEVER 🤦🏾‍♀️

[nikkids]

So what I hear this young woman saying, is that there are too many men who have a distinct problem with a woman choosing to love herself and uphold her moral values. I don’t think the problem is her being a virgin, as much as it is that people think there is something ‘abnormal’ about her being one. What i see, is a woman with a clearly defined sense of self, who is not defined by this mutable aspect of self - meaning, she’s psychologically flexible. I say, anyone should embrace themselves wholeheartedly. Sexuality is only a small part of who we are. Is it important, yes, but there is no one definition and therefore we should just move on and let this young lady thrive. Sincerely, a therapist.

[Adelle]

Girl, the man that wants to marry you will appreciate your decision.. And i have been celibate 6 years now and it was the best decision.. 🌹Yes, it has its challenges, but ultimately it helps you see people (men) for who they are.. 🍹

[BlackQuest]

I support celibacy I’m 35 I practice celibacy and not looking at what would trigger me to sexual acts. But as a man I wish I practiced I would have discipline myself more and more because the man I could have became. Instead of the man I have to become to provide myself and wife.

[AngelaWalker-ujuf]

First off at her age her conversations with her father are very inappropriate! And why would her celibacy tell him for a loop😮 they have a strange family relationship! Did her dad says.. I thought she would be seeking in our partners like me 🧐 dad dad did you respect for your daughter to be a whore 🤷🙅 that's just a strange conversation to be having with your father as a grown woman! Am I wrong?

[Eugene-X.Periman]

I'm 34 y.o. From the ages of 13-19 I was involuntary celibate, then found out about antisex community and embraced my celibacy. I think sex is a hard drug that messes with people's mental health and I value my mental health the most.

[ttvnelson]

I just got too watch tha whole video, and I’m sorry too hear about your condition 💋u will find tha right one ✅

[alijahbeck]

She just needs to date someone who's Asexual. The celibacy wouldn't be a deal breaker frfr

[KhemistryIBMOR]

I don't see the problem.

It's her choice. She's single, not married. There are millions of other broads out there for the thirsty masses.

[jeanqueen]

I have been celibate for four years straight because I was accused of being with an ex by my boyfriend at the time and as a result he beat the shit out of me knock my front tooth and that was a good reason for me to stay out of a relationship and than I dated again and now I am celibate again this topic shouldn't give this woman negative attention people become celibate for a reason so please understand besides there are STD"s and AIDS so why take the risk!

[depthgod]

Only women can come out with shit like this and it go viral. No man would ever come out online and be like OH hey everyone I'm celibate like WTF

[brittanyw.]

The Bible says the world loves its own!! You will be hated for following the true way of walking with God. Keep going and continue to wait on God ❤🎉

[Wearenotfriendsxo]

I would think men would love this since they complain about women being “easy” i don’t get it they’re always complaining

[kaitlinmontgomery]

I love her decision. But I do think it's odd to tell the whole world this. No need to broadcast your private life.