Difference between a Gentleman and a Simp

How to be a chivalrous gentleman without being a simp.

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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:34 Story time
2:25 Where it went wrong
5:17 Gent v Simp
6:19 Conclusion

[mjackstewart]

“A gentleman never suffers fools.”

Brother, that needs to be embroidered on a pillow!

[michaelduke]

I really like your response to her. Direct, to he point, but keeping it classy.

[sarahgodwin-xdwr]

I am a lady and a Southern lady, and i love to watch your videos. I love and appreciate gentleman, and i will not settle for anything less. I understand and appreciate polite and genteel behavior from a gentleman. Yes, i think that you did the right thing by canceling the rude woman's messages to you which were inappropriate !! Please continue showing and advising men on how to be a gentleman.

[gjd]

You were considerate and gentlemanly and the woman did not recognize it. You did the right thing

[vincentjarrard]

I came across your channel a month or so ago. I really appreciate your content and insight. I’m a 65 year old man that will celebrate 41 happy years of marriage on the 14th of May. I tune in to keep myself sharp, current and on purpose. Thanks again.

P.S. My wife likes your channel as well.

[JasonMehrkens]

Perfect response to her 'transactional behavior'. Well said, sir!

[jonathan.legend]

I woulda cancelled as soon as she said ‘I’ll mark you in my calendar once I’ve received the reservation confirmation.’ Like we had all this good convo back and forth and all of sudden you don’t trust me that I’m making reservations to dinner tf? Like my times not important too?

But yea she just kept digging her own grave. You handled it perfectly

[michaelpowers]

Good for you. She sounded like a professional. Desperation is the worst cologne.

[bobnadeau]

Right on. Good for you. From an older and traditional gentleman.

[los]

Usually when I see verbiage like “Simp” in a YouTube title, my eyes roll but my goodness you have such a wonderful thoughtful perspective. Good show! Keep it up. This kind of mature kindness definitely needs to be taught to this next generation!

[SKBottom]

Young gentleman, you handled it perfectly. Well done.

[CodenameVk]

"A gentleman never suffers fools." 😂 I love it!

You don't want to get caught up with a woman that treats men that way.

[onceagainvideos]

"I would like to 'take you out' for dinner."
or
'treat you to'
or even
'buy you'
are all acceptable invitations that should ensure clear communication.
Thank you for your work in educating us all in the way of a gentleman.

[spaghettiking]

To me, this is very simple to define: a simp acts out of desparation; the gentleman acts out of respect. You show respect to the woman as a sign of manners, not because you are panicking that this is the only person. If you treat anyone with kindness and respect, you'll look back on your actions positively in the future, even if the other person didn't reciprocate. Someone becomes a simp because they don't value themself and let themself be taken advantage of.

[markuspolag]

Your story and response became a self-fullfilling prophecy for me this week - my decision: do not get sucked into her frame. I felt free to quote you on the "Good luck out there!"

[broederbond]

Very well done, GentZ. Your savoir-faire is quite impressive for a man in his mid20s.

[scottyg]

Omg. I’m not allowed to use that describe what I think of that woman. That said, your crisp way of canceling was so stellar ! I’ve learned over the years that one sure-fire way to put me off instantly is to insult my integrity. Your story with that person speaks to this exactly.

[pdterre]

In my bachelor times I got a similar experience more than once. You just had to straighten up and go forward. Met my wife at a ballroom dancing venue. It is a good place to meet without pressure as you can chat while dancing . In my country this was very common until recently.

[swordsman]

I would have turned down that entitled woman just like you did. Im much older than you, but i must say that you're very mature for your age. Despite my age and experience, i do enjoy watching your videos. Great job!

[cheburashka]

Well done sir. I think a lot of younger women suffer through low class guys who do make them pay, etc, and it could maybe lead to that behavior, but she definitely needed a reality check that not all guys are the same. Glad to see your channel inspiring young men to improve and treat women with class.