How To Regain Trust In A Relationship FAST (With ONLY Internal Shifts)

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When diving into my client stories, one truth stands out about all healthy relationships, especially healthy romantic relationships: internal shifts matter most. These shifts, often disregarded, hold the key to success, especially when it comes to learning how to regain trust. Disregard these key shifts, and your partner will NEVER believe your changes are GENUINE!

Ironically, nobody gives you true healthy relationship advice. No one tells you what healthy relationship building actually looks like. No one even tells you how to regain trust in a relationship when trust has been broken. Internal shifts are THE secret behind lasting change.

In this video, I'll show you EXACTLY how to regain trust in a relationship fast. What's surprising is that it can be done with only internal shifts too!

So, welcome to Internal Shifts once again! The journey to reconciliation and healthy romantic relationships blossoms!

Don't forget to check out the Internal Shifts series playlist!

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*Why This Video Is CRUCIAL*

00:00 - Why You Should Watch This Video

01:35 - #1: Perfect Process vs. Perfect Product

11:50 - #2: Blind Victim

25:58 - #3: Developing Your Antithetic Filter

48:26 - #4: Common Pitfalls w/ Antithetic Filter

56:46 - #5: So Will The Antithetic Filter Solve All My Problems?

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[GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey guys, hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts!

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[marleezawadzki]

My husband has been watching your videos for about a year and it has dramatically helped and even possibly saved our marriage. I just wanted to say thank you so much he is still watching your videos and still improving. I watch your videos sometimes and I’ve learned a lot as well. And for anyone else, I just want to say Paul Friedman of the marriage foundation is very very good as well.

[ahmedshah]

Every passing day I realize the community is so important. I just had my first very major pure process win on something that would’ve completely bulldozed my heart like two months ago. But instead I’m thriving and I felt happy about it but I realized I don’t have anyone to share it with . Yes I could tell my friends but they wouldn’t understand just how important it is or realize all the nuances. Plus the community would show u every day of people getting process wins much bigger than urs that would motivate u like hell . I’m just commenting here as a sort of celebration to myself. Hooray to me . Just getting started

[GYMETRIUS]

I just saw this. Unfortunately, my wife and I were fighting 5hrs ago (when this was posted) but we’ve made up after a good conversation. Today I was reminded that I am still very tethered and that I often do little things to make her like me, instead of chilling tf out because I should have have done those things days sooner or when she wasn’t upset with me.

Today I have also learned that sitting there and quietly listening to my wife express her frustrations makes her feel like the message is falling upon deaf ears. It’s better to listen AND express yourself (as long as it’s in a sympathetic way) instead of completely shutting up because you worry you won’t add any value.

[bryangilbertson]

The stoic response was my go to in the past when my partner would bring up concerns. Thanks for showing me how damaging that is.

Raising your lowest standard is a great takeaway!

[imagegotbeats]

Another banger about to watch now. I rather take the long road to reconciliation and focus on the my changes and process there’s no rush towards success! 💯 Keep the fire contact coming bro 👍🏾

[indrautama]

After all this long, i had just realize 1 of the most important thing about youtube delution...Million subs doesn't mean it worth to be subscribed...if i were to unsubs all youtuber, .Jeff's will eternally be my only one reason to stay in youtube.

[leroymthulisindlovu]

Man! I love what you are doing with these videos. I started watching your channel last year and the one thing I kept wishing was for more in depth videos on the internal shifts. It's like you say, the scripts and all are easy to do, but you end up doing the right actions with the wrong emotions and that fucks things up even worse. These videos were perfectly timed for me because i realise just how long i have been clenching my cheeks to keep my shit in. lol.

This video really hit me with the notion of raising my lowest tides because throughout life and even in my marriage that has been the biggest killer. I was always having internal conversations like "At least I am doing this or that."

"At least" really needs to be higher even for myself as an individual!

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Everyone focus on the daily routine and process. We will all succeed!

[annyyarellano]

Geoffrey always speaks the truth about us women. I enjoy watching his videos as it makes me full of hope on finding guys with the same mindset as him.

[DangerOUSXD]

Hey Geoff! Another great episode on internal changes. It's crazy I started writing in my little journal in therapy/changes and relationships since last November and it's practically full!
It once was a place of growing connections and rekindling rifts, now a place of self growth and shifting dower interpretations and thriving. Taking charge of my life once more and washing
old sabotageful mindsets. It's been a difficult journey, of self growth and acceptance. I'm so glad to be doing it tho. I can't express how much you've changed my life!
I haven't signed up cause I'm not in a commited relationship, I'm still really close to one in particular. But even so, outside of understanding relationships and your partner, working with them,
their's so much value in what you teach. About being a better person and honestly self growth. My journal has 2 pages left and I'm almost somber about it ha! But I already know in my
heart, that the next one will be just as important, and I'll write in that one with just as much enthusiasm. What you teach is so important for partnerships and it's also so much more.
Relationship or not, theirs so much to learn about betterment and even self healing. It's so much more! Helpful in all avenues of life and I've already noticed those changes.
Thankyou Geoff!

[Croonina]

The story about the luggage got me. I had a very close minded vision and allways went for my perspective and my feelings. Anything else was questioning my pride. But my strong reactions have allways been my weakness and learing the F.A.E and antithetic mind changed my life.

[xdbackwoods]

Thank you for your videos and your amazing knowledge! I hope to improve myself using your content and help. You do great work.

[richardcarlucci]

Staying quiet and not brining up the relationship has been so difficult to overcome. Need to be more quiet and focused on me

[gladlordkyle]

You never fail to amaze me with your videos my guy!! More lessons to take in!! I love it!🔥🔥

[narciacammon]

Thanks, I can see how you’re really putting jewels out there, I for one, am grateful for it. You’re right in that I’m sure a lot of us haven’t done the proper work to understand and identify the big 14, because we are not antithetic enough.

Time to get to work! Thanks for these !

[rnt]

Thank you for this. My wife asked for a separation 6 months ago and we’ve stayed in the house together. She wants to divorce (we’ve been married 23 years. We treat each other with respect and kindness but it’s a struggle. As I walk this path and do the work, I’ve told her I will work with her and support her through the process of divorce even though I don’t want that. I’m really struggling with the idea that I’m laying the groundwork for something I 100% do not want

[luigigabriello]

So ready for this 🙏 ready to study and apply it.

[ahmedshah]

Raise your lowest standards not your dreams, brilliant . This kind of mentality really brings in the type of anxiety that is actually good for you because it pushes u in the direction you want to go . I have done this unknowingly in the past in respect to working out . As soon as I shifted from I want a body like that to I need to ATLEAST be this lean and look this big I have stayed consistent ever since. Once that anxiety kicks in ur off your ass and on to work . And guys I would like to say there was a client interview of a dude who literally had relations with his step daughter and is in JAIL and he’s still on a path towards reconciliation and putting the work in . So seriously what kind of fucking excuse do we have not to .

[Slverspike]

Thanks for the video man. I stopped hunting and started farming a month ago. It’s amazing everytime I feel like there is no hope I keep up the perfect process and I get major breakthroughs.

I’m 6 months in. I watch one of your videos that says sometimes it takes 6-9 months just for your wife to begin to give you another shot and start believing you.

I stopped trying to win her back and instead and focused on winning myself back.

I’ve noticed her family are instensly watching me and giving me lots of positive affirmations lately. I’ve been very quiet towards my wife and just really focusing on my actions showing up and when we do talk or interact (mostly around our daughter) I make sure it’s positive.