How To Attract A Woman Who Is NOT Interested | Alex Costa

Topic of discussion: Have you ever tried to attract a woman who just didn't seem interested?

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[mikkotrades]

0:59 Be extra confident, take control and know what you're doing
2:28 Dress well, take care of yourself
3:19 smell nice, apply fragrance
6:08 Don't come strong, be smart with your chit chat
8:50 Compliment her but don't overdo it
10:16 Show her you're interested, keep an eye contact
11:14 Be a good listener. Initiate deep conversations and pay attention
12:43 Body language. Fix your posture, don't slouch, don't cross hands, try to be approachable

[PhoenixG]

Tip 1 - Work on improving yourself, don’t focus on girls with low interest. Kings don’t chase. Stay strong my friends.

[muhammadmuradmahar]

1: Be Extra Confident
2: Dress Well
3: Smell Good
4: Let's Meet ( take her out )
5: Compliment Her
6: Eye Contact
7: Do not Look at other girls while talking to that Girl
8: Be a Good Listener
9: Have interesting conversation
10: Body Language ( Posture )

[jkfd]

First step to dealing with a lady that has zero interest in you: turn around and walk away. Zero interest means zero effort on your end. Do not waste your time. Look for reciprocation and if it never arrives, that's your cue to exit.

[FFlores_]

I know I bunch of guys can relate to this one, it's only the FIRST interaction with a female that scares us, after that it's no problem, that's how it is for me at least

[amirkouchnezhad]

00:59 Be extra confident
02:30 Dress well
03:17 Memorable fragrance (ads)
06:11 "Lets meet" (take it easy)
08:50 Compliment her
10:14 Eye contact
11:13 Be a good listener
12:45 Body language

[luizz]

I don't know why but I can understand better when I'm a listening to another brazilian guy speaking in english than when I'm listening to another person who has english as their first language. A huge hug from a brazilian fan.

[patrickbaja]

As Notorious BIG said, ask her “what your interests are, who you be with, things to make you smile, what numbers to dial”. Biggie had game.

[pranavrautfitness]

men dont chase women who arent interested in them, Men have a purpose, mission and a life to enjoy, A woman should be compliment to your life not the focus

[mrnigga]

Alex has such a good soul. He automatically assumes we have good looking friends. Or friends. 😂

[pf]

Alex, thanks! Underneath what you are saying is also that, if you haven't "worked on yourself" you are approaching the woman as though she will make you "ok, " and no one can create self-esteem and self-acceptance but yourself. If you have no self-discipline in your career, spirituality, and health, you SHOULD NOT "get a 10." Raise your own level of achievement as well as your game to a 10 then you will not only be able to approach, but you can actually maintain a high-quality relationship. Too many guys are focused only on creating attraction, but when they "get the girl" they have no idea how to actually maintain a relationship. So, it's not JUST attraction game, it's also learning the communication skills, and building your own skills and attributes as a human, to be a "10" as a partner.

[KakaoPfoteMsp]

2:28 yes, this exactly

guys if you wanna meet up with someone, don't dress extra special to impress someone if you don't feel like yourself in those clothes. don't wear a suit if you think you look embarassing in it, if the girl thinks you're a loser because you're not wearing something ultra special, she ain't the one

[Alpysf]

I’m so early that even the summary guy hasn’t arrived!

[hihaters]

Why would I want anyone that doesn’t want me? 😂

[darkmatter]

How to attract a woman who is not interested: you don't. She already made it clear that she's not interested in you. Leave her alone and move on.

One thing I learned in life is to stop giving attention to someone who is clearly not interested in me. Always put your pride, dignity and self-respect first.

Work on improving yourself and be open-minded about it, and just be the best version of yourself you can be.

[jerewang]

You can tell these tips are very mature and backed with experience. Unfortunately/fortunately, I learned these tips the hard way through dates and going through life. I can relate with every point mentioned in this video. Awesome video man, keep it up! For me, I wish you could have came out with this video sooner.

[abhyudaykumar]

Love you Alex❤️!! It's really good to see you after so many days, since I was stuck in my academics, that's why😅. You did not lose the energy man, and the way you connect with us. It's always good to hear you. It's always like we are talking to our big bro who's talks are no bs. I am really glad to have you, truly appreciate your work! And no to mention the authenticity and positivity you're spreading😊. Have a great day and take care!

[KinesisXBL]

I once was unintentionally showing a woman a lot of attention because I found her very intriguing and attractive. She noticed and soon lost most positive interest regarding me. I got the hint and avoided interacting with her and she very clearly had a resurgence of interest in me when she learned more about who I am as a person. The rapid change in her opinion of me made me start to question my strategy when approaching, interacting, and even choosing when to and not to interact with them.

[gamermaddy]

And after seeing this video I just got it .
First imporve yourself and second go for a girl you want .
And main thing to notice don't change your personality just for a perticular girl who don't even noticed you . You should change your personality for yourself .first love yourself then only others will love you .

[ursa]

It feels like Alex is hammering those tips into us....❤️