My Girlfriend Flirts With Other Guys!

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My girlfriend flirts with other guys. This was a requested video and I want to be very clear about this message in this video. Also, respect your relationships and if you do not see that you are being respected in your relationship then you must set boundaries for yourself and the relationship. When she flirts with other men then this is an obvious sign that things are not right. If she is a "friendly" person then it's up to you to decipher what is actually good and what is not.

In this video, I am not saying to not let her have guy friends. What I am saying is if she constantly is flirting with this guy friend and you do not feel good about this relationship then it's time that you consider what this friendship is all about and have that talk with your girlfriend. Especially if you know the other guy's intentions are not to just be friends. It comes down to the both of you and what you want as a couple. These are boundaries and friendships that need to be talked about early on in the relationship.

As I mention in this video if she constantly flirts with other men then she is doing this for attention which is not healthy and she has some internal work that needs to be placed in this relationship which will help her and ultimately hopefully help you have that thriving wonderful relationship. Flirting with other men shouldn't be tolerated unless you believe in an open relationship.

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I was flirting for weeks with a girl. When I learned she had a boyfriend, it was a huge turn off.
The 1st thing I thought was if she's doing that to him, she'll do the same to me. So I stayed away from her.

Ghrifter
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If she flirts with other men in front of you then she clearly doesnt value you.

prashanthb
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I was dating a woman for several weeks. We were moving pretty quickly to an exclusive relationship. We went to a club one night and she moved from our table and sat down at the bar. I asked her not to do that. She refused. I soon realized that she had placed herself within site of other men walking by, and was smiling and winking at them. I asked her to move back to the table. She said "no." I then walked out, got in my car and drove (20 miles!) home. Luckily, she didn't have the nerve to contact me again, and i was glad. Later on i found out that she had a history of such behavior. Her disrespect to me was a true display of her real character.

oceanhedonist
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I really needed this. My girlfriend (now ex), was posting pictures on Snapchat and was seeking attention from other guys. She would tell me that I should not worry about it. She tried to flip the tables on me by telling me that I was acting like I wasn’t jealous, which gave her the opportunity to flirt with other men. During my exam time (we were in a long distance relationship), we did not talk as frequently so she was flirting with other guys. She also claimed that I wasn’t treating her as a boyfriend, which was some bullshit. This video gave me confidence that leaving her was the best decision I ever made. So thank you 🙏🏾

billyocean
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This video is so true. I let my ex talk to her best male friend all the time. Eventually their relationship took away from our emotional connection. Guys don't let women do this to you!

onelife
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Shes not happy with you, simple as that..men should never put up with this disrespectful behavior...😣

jermainejones
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If my woman was flirting with other men, I would warn her by stating the problem, if she keeps doing it, we are done. Never fall for the "He is just a friend" crap. Friend? The mouse is a friend to the cheese.

victorjones
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If a woman flirts in front of you with someone else -- dump her!

Mr.Meme
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This right here is 100% facts.

When my ex stared seeking attention from others, I did the right thing and I broke up with her immediately (because if you stay then you just proved theres no consequence to cheating.) She was crying saying that she's sorry and that'll itll never happen again. I held my ground and blocked her (she was spam calling me)

I messed up my relationship by listening to her friend's terrible advice (more like guilt trip), that a real man wouldnt run from his problems and will stick around and help her through her problems.

I returned to my ex shortly after to "work things out" and for next year and a half I experienced the same behavior of seeking attention/flirting with other guys and her saying it's no big deal or we're just guy friends

ShadowKiller
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Flirting while already taken is a form of narcissistic supply. Run fast guys! She seeks constant validation from men and will cheat on you. She also does it to start drama, narcissistic woman live for drama.

narcsurvivalist
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There are two types of people in relationships..people like you, dedicated 100% to your relationship...and people who need options to feel good about themselves. These people constantly have one foot out the door and will challenge their partner because they know they will leave if they dont get their way.

marcsorensen
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I had this happen once and I left her ass at the bar! She never pulled that again! I don’t tolerate disrespect period!

brettkoch
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"Never be afraid to lose a woman, and I repeat, never be afraid to lose a woman! Furthermore, why (as a man) would you allow someone blatantly disrespect you? Your not taking an "L" If you decide to leave such a messed up situation. Do some "Soul searching". Nice vid, and blazer. I'm out...

coleygray
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I did this mistake, I was young back then. When this happens you leave, no black mailing or ultimatums just leave. She used to flirt and always undermined me when I complained.. but if I looked at a girl oh god hell use to break loose. My attitude was if you do it I can. But that is not healthy, so if it happens just go.

global
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When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

siulong
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My girlfriend posted a picture of her and a guy at KFC today. All because she needed more attention from me and I already got the idea. She said the guy is her church member. She then deleted it and said she doesn't want to do anything I don't like. Thanks for the video Apollonia. Its perfect timing. Love you .

ephraimteye
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Hey Apollonia, I’ve recently got out of a toxic relationship and your videos are exactly what I’ve been missing in my life. 🙏🏻

raymondalexanderwilson
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Unfortunately with proliferation of social media, flirting has become epidemic...and it always is "a friend" until it is not! I believe that any flirting and looking outside is at the cost of weakening your relationship...call it 'conservation of love theory'. What I liked about and learned from this video is that there should be low tolerance for this behavior. If your partner (man or woman) is in the habit of flirting and can't control the urge, it will bring so much heartache that is not worth the relationship. I have to say that in the wilderness of the internet, Apollonia's videos are amongst the very few that appeal as authentic, meaningful, very decent and informative.

Reader
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Thank you Apollonia. That topic makes me heated as it shows that she is a disrespectful woman. I can feel that you are heart touched by this topic also Apollonia.
By the way, you know that you are a cute workholic. What i love about your workholism is that i see you more often.
Allah bless you Apollonia.

mustaphadoaa
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A flirty girlfriend no matter what she brings to the table you just gotta let go no matter how much it hurts.

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