NOT FIXABLE

some people don't grow up

[peterberg]

NOT
FIXABLE.

Thats the important part.

[dal]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA that is amazing how he said: Not fixable and cut it

[Klaevin]

every time he brings out the consciousness graph, you know somebody's getting roasted

[georgeharvey]

This so bizarre how you explain my ex wife. She got a boyfriend after 28 years of marriage. We were headed for a divorce. I started seeing other women and she went batshit crazy. I could not understand it. I was completely perplexed with her reaction. NOW I understand!!!

[Objectified]

"Not Fixable" -- if more men could really get their heads and feelings around this at a young age it'd save a lot of heartache.

[Krethus]

I really like it when he points out "lower levels of consciousness".

[alexanderruchkov]

For those interested in diagram he is using it's "Ken Wilber's AQA Integral Theory Map".

[cardenasr.]

My treacherous garden equipment ex was very defensive whenever she saw me speaking to, or just near someone or even when some other girl would look at me, she would nag me to no end about it. Then I found out, upon breaking up with her that she had several side guys during our "relationship"

[lolwtnick]

more thorough than Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

[ResisterCIO]

This happened to me with really OLD OLD, like before smartphone OLD. Chick was super into me, rode me like a Company Car, then the 3rd time we were together, revealed she had a Fiance but that I could be her side guy until she actually married him.

I told her no way, that she lied and we were done. I don't do that and also I'm not having some heartbroken dude come after me. Her response was... and I shit you not: "How DARE you Judge Me". Think of "How Dare You" by the Swedish Green Chick to get the tone. Imagine that!!! These gals are for the streets.

[SoulCaviar]

Hoe math is actually a perfect name for this channel

[EdBarton]

Most women remain children as they have been treated such there entire lifes. When they grow old and lose their looks reality will hit them like a bus.

[iFixJunk]

This reminds me of when I broke up with a girlfriend after nearly six years. It had been pretty serious.

But I found out she was pursuing someone else. (I'm not even sure he was interested.)

Kicked her out, which was hell. The cops came, the whole nine yards...

It took me a LONG time and a LOT of thought to draw this same conclusion on my own. There was nothing I could have done differently. She was who she was. This is how it was going to go. She was gone and had no feelings of sorrow that our relationship had gotten to a point where she was [bored with me] or [looking for something more exciting] or [make up any excuse and insert it here].

The fact is that she was gone because that's who she was and I couldn't change that and I couldn't fix her and I couldn't MAKE her love and respect me...

...and then it hit me: maybe she never did.

*EDIT*: If you're genuine in your feelings for someone and you get bored, you'll talk to them and say, "Hey, let's get the spark back. Let's do something exciting together!"

...you won't CHEAT.

[HitSaturn]

This just happened to me! I got with a really cute girl and 5 days into talking with each other she out of the blue flipped and got all depressed on me and said that I'm too kind for her, that she isn't any good, that she doesn't know who I'm talking to behind her back, and that we can't talk anymore because she has a boyfriend. And I was just laughing in disbelief, she called me an A-hole for laughing and I just wished her the best with life and left.

[genericascanbe]

"Lower levels of consiousness" Im dead 😂

[MattFisher-ukjf]

"only for the good guy score" aka her only concern is with pretending to do the right thing for her own self image. Perfectly explained!

[putinhail]

These people's names should become public so we don't have to engage with them. What's become of the world we live in.

[RFdaniel]

This is WAY more prevalent than he is suggesting. I’m a guy who has been with a handful of women in the past who have had boyfriends or husbands. I can tell you basically ALL of the women acted like this. They all got super jealous at any mention of me even being interested in other girls, and would try to discourage me from seeing or talking to other girls. One woman in particular was married and had two kids; I mentioned I went on a date the night prior and she started crying and stopped talking to me for like a week.

[Apostate_ofmind]

for those who might still think its fixable:
that is something that gets fixed at 3-4 years of age.
If shes not 4, she isnt getting fixed. That ship has sailed, that train has left the station. Go fish on other shores.

[backyardhooper]

I had a chick like this. She would eventually break up with her BF and wanted me to be her new guy. I laughed my a$$ off. Months later she ended up marrying her guy she broke up with. Still would come see me from time to time. Cruel world.