Relationship TOTD (30 Sec): Anger is supposed to be a signal, not a weapon!

Relationship TOTD (30 Sec): Anger is supposed to be a signal, not a weapon!
😡😡😠You're mad. You're livid!😡😡😠
👉Often, the people closest to us who know us intimately and who we care the most about... can make us so mad!!
👉It's almost like we get the most mad at them because we care the most about them in our lives.
👉Well, sometimes we use and interpret anger in the wrong way!
👉Anger is supposed to be a sign or signal to you that you need to stop and check out what is going on... and ask yourself... Is something wrong here? Do I need to set a limit somewhere?
🚫🚫🚫👉Anger is not meant to be utilized as a way to stay separate from your spouse, to exert some sort of control over your spouse (giving them more time to make change that you hope will happen), and it's not supposed to be used as a weapon to hurt your spouse. 🚫🚫🚫
👉If you're using it that way, you're missing out on an opportunity to address some real issues in your marriage in a healthy way.
👉Learn to utilize anger to help your relationship grow!!
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