Your Girlfriend Can Have Male Friends

The harder you try to control someone, the faster they want to escape.

#shorts By Nick Notas, Co-Founder & Dating Coach At Reconnected

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[WPwillsavetheworld]

She can have male friends. She just can't have me at the same time.

[phazekiller]

I as a man don’t have female friends so I would expect the same from my woman

[LetsAvYa..]

If a woman (in a relationship) is friends with a guy and she is aware he likes her in any sexual way, then its very disrespectful to her man to carry on being friends with him.

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[G-spot]

If the girl you're dating has many male besties, don't commit and put her in the friendzone as well. Why need attention from other men outside the relationship?

[kengvue]

No. Don’t listen to this guy. If she has guy friends that she hangs out with, LEAVE!

[theeclecticcollective]

I subscribe to the Steve Harvey theory on platonic relationships, which is to say that 99.9% of a girl’s male “friends” are not really platonic, they’re just in a holding pattern until there’s an opening like the girl’s boyfriend “messes up” and she needs “a friend to talk to”...etc.

Any attractive female can simply go through her contact list in her phone and pick out a male friend at random and text him saying how she has always secretly liked him etc...and she will quickly see how “platonic” the relationship is in his eyes...

[kbromdengts]

Either me or them, no negotiation about it

[AlxRayn]

Na, Men, listen up, if your girl wants to hang out with other heterosexual men, that is not your girl and she never will be, and you should not pursue a serious relationship with her. Once you’re in a committed relationship that friendliness on both sides of the party needs to exit the building. It’s called mutual respect.

[NO_COMMANDER]

Honestly imagine having a gf that you 100% know loyal like that... it must be nice

[xuyahfish]

When in China I found out that men & women could be friends no problem. China isn't as hyper-sexualized like US, so it's ASSUMEED you're friends unless someone puts in A LOT of effort.
No sexual tension! Ppl just being ppl, it was a relief tbh.

[iHeartEyeLadies]

This guy doesn’t have the answers you’re looking for

[goldenmolelover]

absolutely expected this to be one of those andrew tate copycats. was pleasantly surprised to see that this guy is spitting absolute facts and is making sure that both him and his partner have good boundaries set.

[kendallgordon]

I’m pretty sure some of her male friends flirt with her or wanted her in the past. Yet she refuses to end the friendship and still considers them friends

[StephTheCoolKid]

nope, a guy who respect himself don't have to tolerate guys in her friendzone that are shoulders to cry on, those orbitors so called "brothers" will all come in an uber at the same time if she write them "im horny come over now" at 3am in front of their boyfriend as a Test.

[chefboy-r-lee]

Boy u teaching men to suffer not a good look if a woman is 100% into you they will never come to you with the guy friend crap trust me fellas u want a real woman not someone still stuck with that high school mindset smh

[renegadelaw]

She is not yours its just your turn, so don't care as caring would give her way too much respect then she deserves.

[skyking]

Sure is. However if she has male friends she ain't gonna be my girlfriend

[Slave-of-the-most-merciful]

Nah men and women really can’t be friends, your always gonna be attracted to the opposite gender. It’s like telling a fox not to eat a chicken, it’s just instinct

[shaunhunter]

Nope she’s gonna have to choose if she wants to be with me she is going to have to lose all the guys. If she wants guy friends she can have them she can’t have me also tho.

[LetsAvYa..]

If everyone here is being honest, your Mother or Father never used to go spend time alone with their male/female friends? If a taken women was seen with another man, it would have been deemed inappropriate by almost anyone…