Fear of asking for help: deep psychological liberating direction!

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Asking for help is important, because someone can show us the light switch and a door opening where we can not see it yet ourselves.

Asking for help doesn’t mean we are giving up,
It actually means that you are willing to find the door opening where you can not see it yet.It is said that the cause of fear of asking for help is because
we have fear of being perceived as needy,
or because we don’t want to be ashamed,
or we don’t want to be rejected,
or we don’t want to come across as incompetent, but could it be their lies a deeper root cause of our fear of asking for help?

We rather keep walking around in a dark room, rather then to ask for help where the light switch is.
Rather living in darkness, then to be confronted with the eyes and judgements of others.

And it is true, in self development or self-actualisation, we eventually we have to do it ourselves, we have to walk though that door ourselves, but what do you think will help you the most, to keep wondering around in a dark room or asking for help where the light switch is to be found?
I want you to be able to find the light switch and the exit of your obstacles or darkness that you may be facing without further delay, so you can become the intended inspirational light the world really needs right now.

Enjoy the video!

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#liberation
#psychology
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#help
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this video is so highly underwatched. This deserves millions of views

JohnSmith
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I don't ask for help because I don't want to be a burden. I call it superhero syndrome. Any time you hit me up im available because it keeps me away from my problems.

kevlarson
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This is evergreen material, love this content

wigonews
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I am at 3:53 and it already seems great content coming ahead.

VipulNavadiya
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There is no peace without Justice ⚖️ not for my self but for the innocent

iofwdgv
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wonderful expertise! and thank you for the love to share this nourishing content!👏

christinaM.
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Your videos are so comprehensive and helpful. Thank you for this! ☺️✨

PlumpJuicery
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I was publicly humiliated by asking help for someone dearest in the hospital. I will NEVER ask HELP if it was for my personal gain. I'd rather die since I have been in a life and death situation 3 times. Too bad I survived.

roygbivrainbow
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In my 72 years of life, asking for help has been shown to me as wrong. So now, those who have no where's to go, can see what type of hardship has been around since the beginning of time. Bottom line! i've still to see the fees that government has promised us elders. If they were "all" telling the truth, then my comment would not be posted or not.

Roberto_Garcia_
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THIS IS AN AMAZING VIDEO! I wish it was in Spanish as well so that I could share it with my friends and family! Thnk you for all te effort adn time spend in doing this!!

annaolletacat
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This is new knowledge... Thanks so much sir

juliuskizito
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I’m a freshman in college and my school offers free tutoring I need help with trig but I’m terrified to ask for help. Back in 7th grade, I really struggled with math and one day my math teacher at the start of class said “I want to say good job to everyone on doing so well on the last test. Everyone passed and is doing well in this class. Except for one student and I’ll work with that one student and try to help them do better.” That one student he was talking about was me. He indirectly humiliated me in front of everyone. I hated him from that day on and completely gave up in his class. The next year I got put in a smaller math class which helped me do a lot better. Freshman year of high school and the beginning of my sophomore year I was terrified of asking for help and always figured things out on my own. Mid sophomore year I started to work through of my fear of asking for help but then COVID hit and I was online for 18 months and relied on google for help. Senior year I understood everything really well and didn’t need help. But now I’m in college and need help but am too scared to go to the tutors😭

stephanietucker
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What the fuck… this is genius level theory. This could be a roadmap for so many unsolved diseases like multiple sclerosis / Parkinson’s/etc….

sshaxy
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How do I ask for help without being indebted to them? Every time I receive help, it's a transaction, and they expect something in return. But I cannot pay it back. I have cfs, and that means my internal battery has been drained, even the charge port is broken, and I cannot give back the time n energy I need to receive. A third party got all my battery life, and I cannot get it back from them, so I need to take someone else's battery life, and I don't know how to do that without making them like me.

ColourMeRainbow
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In 72 years of life, help has not been free. It has cost in some form or fashion. If this US Government was telling the truth, all politicians would still be in their, "Oath of Office seat!" Being a politician, is not just about voting: It is about following up to one's movement or comment's! Bottom Line!

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