Why Don't Women Reply On Tinder / Hinge?

It's so frustrating when you're swiping on an online dating app, and you finally get a match, you send her a message, and she doesn't reply.

I'm going to share with you the 6 reasons women don't reply to your messages - And what you can do to drastically improve your response rate.

If you are getting fewer than 50% of women replying to your first message, then you need to watch this video!

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[Owenwilsonsnose]

It’s simple - ‘Hey. How are you/how’s your week going?’ If you can’t get a response from being normal, they aren’t interested.

[leeacorn]

Sadly I have become rude on dating sites too. Women just throw you away and don't care. I'm no different now. Never was like it I just don't waste my time with women who are not 100%. If I stay single I stay single! Can't be chasing people with zero manners whatever their excuses are.

[CapitalK]

Here’s a tip to you guys from a woman. Remember to ask us questions. We’re not interviewing you. I’ve had 2 initial conversations w this guy who doesn’t seem to know how to ask me a question. What a turn off. I will not be replying to him again.

[heyyy]

Women message me on dating apps sometimes like “damn you’re so handsome” and they still ghost.

[XFS]

What irritates me the most is that the women are the ones requesting to match with me, and then they have the audacity to ignore my opener. Really, WTF are they wanting to match with me for if they don’t want to reply? I could understand more if I’m the one sending *them* the match request, but them sending me the first like, they should have more consideration.

[walteramos]

I got my first match on tinder we talked for a long while when I went back on tinder she immediately unmatched with me 🥺

[chantakchantal]

If I read " No drama" I instantly swipe left, he's gone. For me it means he's not communicative and dismissive. Who on earth wants drama? Drama is caused by a lot of things one being bad communication.

[ghostridersinthesky]

When you have an abundance of options why not go for the top one out of the bunch? when men have so little options we have to be desperate and take what we can get. it’s not like that with women. it’s more similar to shopping and they could select the perfect produce with the perfect features to it

[Itisgettingdicey]

I had a woman interested and she saw a picture I took in the mirror she thought my ring on my right hand was a wedding band. I tried to explain subtly that it's in front of a mirror, but she'd already labeled me as a cheating husband.

[chucklefox]

As a woman who started using Hinge a few months ago, I agree with most things in the video, but definitely not the point that women are only glancing at the profile photos & prompts, and just matching.
Maybe it’s not the majority (I have no idea), but for me, there are a few things I’ll check on the profile before matching, bc why match with someone only to not talk to them, or have majorly incompatible areas from the get-go?

For example, I’d look at
- distance, yes
- if they smoke even “sometimes/socially” (dealbreaker)
- whether or not they want kids (if it’s a no, then I get that I can’t change someone)

And definitely it’s a quick no to the “wanky” photos hahaha. But to each their own!

[sofiagamez]

Don't worry boys as a woman I also have the same situation with women. So... The same goes with men I matched with too.

[Coolcatguy]

When you get heaps of matches & numbers, but 90% of the time they just stop texting 😑 even if they made the first move its so annoying. Like why did you even bother girl.

[jamest]

Dunno why tf they match first / like your pics first then not reply hahaha

[GameLifeGains]

I’ve noticed on hinge any matches I have gotten, none wanted to message me off app. It’s crazy girls don’t take them seriously, because girls easily pass up an actual good match (me, not a perv) because they don’t want to talk off app. Mind you I didn’t instantly be like hey let’s talk off this app I wanted to have initial convo and and if interest was there then I would. And they all act like they are going to get trafficked if they talk to people off the app after matching. I don’t think I’m tripping seeing that as a red flag I find it funny but that was all I needed to actually delete it. Just wanted to try them out and man it’s absolutely a waste of time as a guy

[NKWTI]

The funny thing is, if you say "Fuck it, I'm going to confront the chick on it and say something like 'Oh great, another person matching for no reason.' or 'Why do people act like this?'" women will automatically turn it around on you like you're in the wrong or have some kind of mental problem. Oh, I'm sorry, you're right! Humans TOTALLY think that long periods of silence indicate someone is really really interested in you! Crazy me!

Women don't seem to understand that if they want to date someone, it's not a good idea to give the vibe that you are completely uninterested, and yet you chose to match, and then choose to respond back to me holding you accountable as ME being in the wrong. It's just fucking amazing. God forbid men do this to women on apps though, then the sisterhood comes out, complain about men together and support one another. Women can NEVER accept responsibility for themselves; they are the most self-absorbed group of people in the dating world.

[rubz]

Its honestly like tiptoeing over a fucking minefield when talking vs waiting in an er queue for a reply its just torment. Thats why i just use canned openers.

[seanengelstad]

A fish photo is a red flag? I don’t have one but Jesus.

[danlivni]

Tinder, Hinge and Bumble are terrible for guys.
The main problem with these sites are, the ratio is very bad for guys.

There are so many more single guys on these sites than women.
Also the women are getting so many responses that it makes it very hard for a guy to get a response back.

That's why I got off these three sites and would never pay for them again.

[aussiebatler]

At least 2 hours I am from any matches, frustrating as all hell, this happens just about every time. Very elderly population where I life on the south coast NSW, single woman down here there are a few but they’re in very high demand and most of them are not my type, more educated people in the cities also.

[lydiamcneill]

It is funny though how you're like, oh, taking an interest in women actually works so well. No shit, treating someone like a human works. Ffs. Haha