He Said He Needs Time To Think | Here's What You Need To Do!

Want to know what to do when a guy says he needs time to think? How to turn things around?

You’ve met someone that you really like, there is chemistry between you, but he’s asked you for some space because he needs time to think…

As scary as this might feel in the moment, it’s actually quite common. In the beginning, when a guy starts dating a girl, he will put her on a pedestal and try his hardest to attract her. You represent the challenge, so he’s going to text you, call you, and he will place you on a pedestal. After a bit of time however, he says he needs time to think.

You’re of course blind-sided by this, but I can explain what happened!

For many men, the transition between dating and actually settling into a relationship can be scary. Most importantly, the moment you no longer represent a challenge for him, he will take a step back to reconsider things. He was so proactive before so this sudden distance comes as quite a shock to you, especially when you were starting to feel like you could finally let your walls down and be yourself with him…

Truth be told, there is a power play in the beginning of a relationship, and it’s not about love; it’s about ego. If he needs time to think and you want him to WANT to be in a relationship with you, you have to ensure that every moment he spends with you is very fun and positive.

This means that you’ve got to steer clear of relationship talk, commitment talk, and using the word “couple.” If he is asking for time to think, it is of upmost importance that you take a step back. You’ve got to understand that he’s afraid of the commitment and you’re going to have to ease his mind. How? I’m glad you asked!

1. Prioritize fun and positivity
Every moment with you should be fun and every date should be special. Smile and enjoy the present moment. Show him who you are and be the exciting challenge. More often than not, you’re going too fast and you jump from the attraction phase into a relationship within the span of a few weeks. So if you’re able to reassure him that the time he spends with you always makes him feel good, he will become more committed to the relationship.

2. Always put a little space between you
This isn’t about using the no contact rule; it’s simply about making sure that he’s the one reaching out to you. Don’t be afraid that he’s going to run off and marry someone else if you don’t reach out to him. Trust me, he’s not going to forget about you. Quite the opposite will happen actually and you’ll see that he will make more of an effort to talk to you when he realizes you’re not waiting around for him to talk to you. Remember, you have to be the exciting challenge.

So, how was your life when you met him, and what has changed since then? I’m sure there are some things that have shifted as the relationship has taken up more space in your life, so go back to how it was before.

The goal is to make him realize that he doesn’t want to lose you by inspiring him to see how fun his life could be with you by his side.

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[peggyamissah]

He asked for 3days break to rethink about the whole relationship...no contact! I cried and cried, watched this video, read comments and similar videos and lost all hope. But guess what, exactly on the third day, he texted me and promised to call the night after work. He called, we talked and planned on what to do to make the relationship better and now, we are planning our dream wedding ☺️! I’m Ghanaian so I get to have two weddings 💃🏽! Don’t lose hope guys, pray and hope and if it’s meant to be, he will come back👌🏽

[juwitaita]

He said give me space and time .. i said sure .. and i come back to my life bussy at my work and hangout with friends

[tallulahwonders]

this is actually great advice for this situation, even if he’s been just as or MORE involved than you; it’s confusing when he pulls away but it is important to have your own identity, your own life and be the prize

[SowMe_AF]

You're right, coach! Sometimes relationships are just a matter of perfect timing. Only time can reveal the real potential of the latters; as time is the owner of everything around us, and also the owner of any "answer", yep!

[penelopek]

Yes my ex told me this... i told him i will give him all the time he needs... since i am leaving.. and now every day guys are running after me like crazy. When a guy tells you he needs time ?.. really ? Come om ladies .. tell him to f off! And throw yourself on a dating site.. and you will see how many guys want you.

[nicolecato]

Yes. He talked to me about a relationship with me but then he said he was hurt in the past doesn't want to break my heart and needs more time to think about me and us and if we will be right. I'm a Pisces and he's an Aries. He hasn't talked to me since in over a week. 😅

[agnesdereulle-recitsdevie]

He said he needs time to think, exactly. Yes I will have to take distance, to enjoy the present moment. But To be a challenge is often a personnal challenge. I agree with you, I think I often go to fast, I have to take my time to do good thinks, like for my YouTube channel for exemple that I am good preparing ;-) I wish you a good day coach Alex.

[silvermont]

Oh that pink shirt really suits your skin tone Alex 😜🇨🇦thanks for sharing though-

[georginabrigs]

I think you're right Alex. I think i scared him in getting into a relationship😩

[iisrahandianirahandiani]

Yea..am focus on my self ❤.. thanks Alex...

[mayflorencetayoynon]

Thank you Alex for enlightening me today!

[CASD]

3:38...in ten days it’s not possible😅🙌🏻💯

[chinarainradiology]

This is happening to me rn. I told him a few days before that the way our phone convos are it feels like he brushes me off. Although our convos in person are amazing and nothing wrong there I decided to bring it to his attention.. he said he didn’t realize and maybe that it’s because he didn’t know how to respond.. I said that it’s fine it doesn’t change the way I feel and that I had noticed..
A FEW NIGHTS LATER… he messaged me saying he thought a lot about what I had said and said that as we’ve gotten closer maybe there’s a disconnect, idk, I need some time to think… it’s been 2 days and I’m starting to worry.. also I’m supposed to be hanging out and meeting his parents Friday.. I’m starting to lose hope ( been seeing each other for 4 months)

[nedasharifi]

I love your channel Alex, what about if you’re always arguing with your fiancé. He’s tired of arguing and I’m arguing because I’m trying to fix the problem. He called and I said I will try to work on some stuff and he said” he needs time to think!”

[andreaburns]

I’m going through this but he is very deep and won’t share things with me I’m so scared of loosing him

[luzbaez]

Yes Alex I remember those remarks and wandering what have I done to make him feel that he needed time especially after dating and sharing for several months. It would have been easier if he felt the cold feet shortly in the relationship and not linger it. So my question is, what are the signs to consider that he wants space?

[rubicontreras]

I’m going through this too. I’m confused cuz he kept saying “I’m sorry for being distant”, making it most noticeable then kept saying “please be patient” but I was not pushing for a full relationship so I was confused. Finally on Tuesday he said I just need a break FOR THE TIME BEING and see what happens because he needs to stay focused. He haven’t talked since then he said he’s still into me and likes me and wants to talk to me but he needs time. We’ve only been talking for a few months. What should I really do here, will he come back?

[gawtumkeewol]

Yaa bro good job while helping people.

[almlaoztas]

Thank you Alex:) he was distance to me for a week. And i have seen him before 6 days ago he was still distance. And today i have seen he said i have been distance against you, maybe you realised. I said yes i have realised but its ok. And i asked to him is everything cool between us? He said yes. And he said he needed to do it because somethings were to fast for him. And i said its ok i understand him. But i feel still he needs his space. What do you think about it? Should i do the same thing what you have been said in your videos when he said that he needed a space. I was really understanding. And he is 5 years old younger than me and i have also 2 children. So i dont want to lose him, but at the same time i have more experience than him so i know i need to give him some space and focus myself. If youshare your thoughts with me. I would me so happy.and thanks im glad for all women.that we know you from.your videos:)

[hawadrammeh]

Thank you for the advice👍🏾 could you give me some tips on my relationship?