Is this true about how to “co-parent” in a healthy manner? 👀

[billiismith]

My momma said... "STOP IT!!! ALLOW THAT CHILD TO MAKE IS OOOWN FEELINGS FOR HIS FATHER" i never spoke ill of him again💯💯💯💯💯

[claymorekwaramba]

She has such a beautiful spirit about her. She talks in such an assertive manner w/o belittling or bashing anyone . ❤

[pamelawilliams]

Takes a high level of maturity in order to have the respect, gratitude, and civility she’s talking about.

[shines]

💯 Loved this ... "We tried, we created something, we just did not work ..."

[aurora]

Thank you...exactly. Teach your kids to respect your mother AND father. It goes both ways.

[heyyou-yp]

She's so pretty 😍
People, stop making babies for any other reason than to have 2 loving parents raising them. The era of using children as your weapon IS OVER! A child shouldn't have a job before it's born!! Love ONLY for love.

[moniblk]

I agree with the sister because those are the same rules my ex-husband and I followed. It should always be about the children. Find the blessing of your union ( which is the child) and be thankful for that. It doesn’t take much to be cordial for the sake of your child. 🙏🏾

[ms.virgo]

Sis is always on point! I gotta get tickets 🎟 for their show in the DMV!!

[Mrnmayse]

Nothing is automatic, somethings you got to work at it.

[pisteuojustbelieve]

She is 💯💯💯💯💯 correct its sad that just because we ended we can't be good and respectful to one another. I decided to be that person and I have a great relationship with sons dad even though we are no longer together and he really really did me dirty but at the end of the day I forgave him so I can have peace aswell as our son.. we need to be the change we want to see...

[cynsloan-johnson]

I love this. My bd daddy said he would only be in his kids' lives if i came back to him after he cheated non stop, was disrespectful, stealing money from me, was abusive to me and the kids, couldnt keep a job or money. The man started drinking and doing drugs when the youngest was born after making new friends... still i Never held any of that shit he did against him....Lmfao nigga was true to his word. It's going on 5 years of him not seeing or doing shit for them. I begged that man for years to be around and told him i dont want or need his money, shit i was tryna pay him to be there. The courts couldn't get him to stick to visitation.... then i filed cild support, thinking he would at least pay. Nope. But now that my husband wants to adopt them, he pops up saying he want his kids...

[johnnymayes]

This is so true. I'm going through this with my son's mother.

[kimbates]

This is so true. As a wife, mother and step mother I have seen the side where my first husband (rip) and his ex wife Co parented so good that when he passed I had her on the front bench with me and our 3 sons.

But Lord this 2nd marriage and these baby mommas my new husband has is driving me crazy. I see my husband trying to be a father to kids and the bitterness that the kids so called mommas show is down right disgusting. They were happy as long as they thought he was alone and looking at their so called happy lives. As soon as we got married the drama began. It's always the bitter baby mommas that get the good baby daddies and the horrible baby daddies get the good baby mommas. I just wish they would look at the bigger picture and stop being so salty, bothered, bitter and jaded hoodboogers.

[nekialovelight]

It sounds good but when one of us thinks like this and the other doesn't, it's just time to move forward without them.

[fancybutterfly]

I don't have kids but I have always thought this!!! It's crazy how immature people become after the relationship ended. Because know is it real love when yall were together and after the break up? Is it real love for the kids ! ❤

[neliakh]

💯💯💯💯💯
Sadly narcissist won’t understand that!! 💔

[LaurenTaylor-vc]

Yes the child is the one who ends up suffering.. and that is the ultimate issue

[roachito]

Serious question: how do you do that with a person who after lying cheating and stealing during the marriage, fabricates charges of abuse on the child, sexual abuse on partner, and attempts to ruin your career to gain custody and support ? How am I supposed to respect and trust that?

I never bad mouth her to my son but coparenting with that is impossible to me.

[katrinastevenson]

Yes oh my goodness so true 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰👍🏽👍🏽🔥🔥💐💐

[sparopsych]

Yep. All true. .... I keep telling folks this - all of it. The respect doesn't have to be lost whether or not children are involved. The intimate relationship ended. Both people just didn't work - together. It doesn't mean they can't be friends after breaking up. It removes all the expectations. .... Think Usher's song Good Good. ... Works for co-parenting too.