3 Signs You Have Strong Sexual Urges

Are you experiencing strong sexual urges, or sexual desires, but you feel ashamed about it? You are not alone. Hyper sexuality appears to affect about 3% to 10% of the general U.S. population. It's more common in men than women. In this video, we will touch on hyper sexuality.

Writer: Michelle Rivas
Editor: Morgan Swift
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Zuzia
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

Fong T. W. (2006). Understanding and managing compulsive sexual behaviors. Psychiatry (Edgmont (Pa. : Township)), 3(11), 51–58.

[kelvinfaza]

I don't need any sign, I AM THE SIGN!

[psychgomandarin]

0:03 intro
0:32 Compulsivity
2:05 Obsessive fetishes or paraphilia
3:32 Pronograhy addiction
4:48 outro

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Compulsivity 0:32
2). Obsessive fetishes or paraphilia 2:05
3). Pornograhy addiction 3:32

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[jimwilson]

If nothing else happened as a result of my first two sexual relationships twenty years ago, I learned two things: I hate sleeping alone, and I hate being in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate.

[Phoenix-HOBSG]

I was actually been struggling with sexual frustration for two weeks. Around 5 days ago, I stopped feeling intense sexual urges but I just have a feeling that I'm not done with them. During that period, I kept having sexual thoughts and kept experiencing images in my head of me having sex with certain women I know. These thoughts would often occur at random intervals or be set off with certain stimuli like smell or just random boredom. To be honest, sexual urges are a tough topic to talk about and we need more of these types of videos talking about it. Thanks a lot for that!

[jokeloy]

We need more “taboo” vids like these to answer our arkwardness about ourselves, wouldnt y’all agree guys? 😁

[witteveensensei]

Compulsivity unfortunately resonates with me. I'm not necessarily ashamed of it, but there are days when the sexual thoughts and fantasies are so strong I literally can't enjoy anything else until they subside or are satisfied.

[MASTERCRAFT]

Having strong sexual urges sometimes feels like watching others drown while suffocating from dehydration.

[SvendOfficial]

If you're struggling with porn addiction it is important to take it as a withdrawl type of deal. You can't cold out on it easily. Try once per week. Or only on weekends. Get apps to block the sites you know you use to get your porn. Document your failures, look at them and think how you can improve. It's a long process and failing is a part of the journey.

[volgg]

Thank you for making this video! This is just me but I feel like there's a huge stigma of talking about this specific topic and it's not talked about openly as much as a consequence. The more we talk about it and create a safe space to talk about this, the more I feel like I can deal with it in a healthy way.

[cowboybill.]

I love Amanda’s(the narrator) Voice, Very Nice and soothing.🌸🌹

[justalpha]

I don't even need this video to know that I have strong sexual urges/a strong libido. I've looked upon my tendencies, and while I have delved into certain things that weren't healthy, I've since stopped doing them, and do my best to let my urges out while I have the free time available. In my eyes, having a strong sexual drive isn't a bad thing whatsoever! It can actually be quite great, especially in a relationship. What matters most is what you DO with those urges and how you manage them. If you don't think things through, well, things won't go great. However if you self-reflect and manage these sexual urges in a way that fits without disrupting your life, then go right for it! :D

[anoopb]

Thanks for letting me confirm that I'm not sick

[Celeste-jhlj]

My husband has some pretty strong sexual urges but hes really good at controlling himself. I sometimes feel guilty i cant help out more bc i suffer from chronic UTIs and yeast infestions and cant do things with him as much as Id like. Ive recently discovered allergies to that im not sure might have some part in it but i want to try and get my issues worked out so I can do more with my husband. Hes really understanding and never makes me feel bad but i still feel guilty

[CreepyStories]

This was interesting to watch and learn. I know for myself my urges/libido is low to none, I have no problem controlling myself and focusing on things that matter to me. But I can say that I used to have it bad, few years ago, it impacted my life nagatively but I changed my mindset and fordced myself to focus on things that matter to me and that make me happy.

[earthboundisawsome]

I've definitely felt the pull during and shortly after relationships. It never really caused an issue in terms of being able to be attentive to my -at the time- partners since for me personally it didn't really affect motivation or performance. I have (however) definitely been on the line of overstimulating myself and kind of losing my senses to the addiction. It's not wrong. It's hard. Emotions play a very strong role too. It really helps to stop and have some time for oneself to think about topics like Validation, Personal Values, personal kinks that could be either physical or mental, and just general urge. It's a little hard to put into words, but taking the time to really ask yourself what you want and where the urges come from can do a lot for one's own perspective.

[fynmerkyYTLL]

love your videos so much they help me understand myself more and more

[MegaDarkpichu]

I used to be addicted to masturbation and adult videos for almost 3 years, but between constant prayer, encouragement from friends, and not wanting to feel tired and out of it afterwards, in addition to finding someone I truly love and care about I finally decided I'm going to quit. I'm 7 weeks addiction free as of today!

[liqiye]

Her voice is so soothing i can hear it allday

[dontran]

As a recovering Mental Health Patient, I struggled with managing my sexual urges. My "kinks" are having a huge Fetish towards people (preferably women) wearing Crop Tops with Jeans with Bellybuttons showing; seeing a girl showing her bellybutton in Crop Tops & tight Jeans turned me on a lot. But, that kink caused a lot of trouble for my life. When I interact with women, I can be quite a gentleman, just as long as she does NOT wear that "Triggered Outfit" of Crop Tops with Jeans. But if I encounter a woman showing her bellybutton in Crop Top with Jeans, I will have issues like feeling jittery (due to finding her attractive) & will have struggle maintaining eye contact with her during conversation due to the fact that I was so creepily fixated at her exposed navel in Crop Top with Jeans.

Of course, there were negative consequences such as if the girl who wears Crop Tops with Jeans I interacted take noticed of my behavior, she'll immediately cringe & terminate her friendship with me. Not surprising, those negative consequence did contribute to me developing further mental illness struggles like depression, anxiety, & massive guilt/shame on myself. It was never my intention to make that person who wears Crop Tops with jeans feel uncomfortable around me; never my intention...

My struggle with my sexual urges was I also kept it a secret because I am aware if people find out, they would hurt me thru social isolation or worse: bullying... But I am not good at keeping secrets. Eventually people I interacted find out about my "Dark Secret" & yes some did hurt me thru social isolation (i.e. Unfriend from Facebook/Instagram or not willing to hang out with me anymore) & bullying.

But there were few who know my "Dark Secret" but was compassionate enough to set up a healthy communication with me. Those people who did talk to me, we later established a healthy friendship from it. But those "good people" are few in numbers... However, appreciative of them to really talk to me & understand that I meant no harm with my "Dark Secret" & that I am trying my best to manage it. Those good people helped me too & not just that, we established good boundaries for each other. I wished I encountered more people like that in my life, who understands that I mean no harm from my Dark Secret "Urges"...