Why Men Unconsciously Reject The Right Woman And How To Avoid Being Blindsided

Have you ever been absolutely confused by a man who ended your relationship when you thought everything was going great?

He might have even said, you're too good for him and that you're an amazing catch and yet he still threw you back into the water.

There's a reason why this happens and it requires going beyond the surface explanation like he's a bad guy for doing this because there just might be an unconscious reason that isn't so obvious.

In today's video, we will explore the DEEPER understanding of the unconscious reasons why men end a good relationship and how to avoid this in the future.

Let's talk about... Why Men Unconsciously Reject The Right Woman And How To Avoid Being Blindsided

[GinAmber]

No I reject men, not because I’m afraid of intimacy but because Jonathan is my mentor and I clearly know what I want 😀 clarity is power !

[diouranke]

"Everybody wants love
But everybody's afraid of love"

Bobby Womack

[RJ-ltlk]

I am super sensitive to yelling and especially if someone is angry. I never feel anxious when I listen to you and you raise your voice. I so appreciate your ability to recognize when you become passionate and yell, and take a breath and quiet down. It feels safe to listen to you and your constructive criticism. Thank you for being self aware. I aspire to be as self aware and find a partner who is too!

[Diabeteslovewithdee]

Jonathon, I agree with you 100%! This is one of your best video. We all need to work on healing our childhood wounds and adult trauma.

[naffs]

I have never been accepted by a man. I have rejected by men all my life. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[gabbydagostino]

What a fantastic video ... 100% can relate ... my previous partner was like this. Not sure if he will ever get past his wounds. We remain good friends. Thanks Johnathan for your advice ❤️

[drdivyaaarora]

Absolutely True - have experienced it in real life!!

[anitamarkus]

Once again confirming what I feel to be the correct way to deal with my man!! Never had any feminine energy that I was aware of. Always just behaving the way I feel. Thanks again for validating that I am on the right track. It's really hard to process what I take as rejection, when it's really pass hurt in his life! Going to support him for as long as its takes, why? Because he is a good man that deserves a good woman!

[marykarle]

Well, seems I pretty much fit what you describe Jonathan..all except just having lost my spouse in 12-20..still healing
as you are from the loss of your dear son..may you finally find peace..I know that sooner or later, I will..it DOES take
time..just have to be patient🌹🌹🌹

[jac]

I liked everything about this video. Understanding and practicing intimacy is leaning into your power and creating a foundation of trust that can't be broken by fear or anything else. Rejection does sting but it can only kill if we let it. The rejector or should I say the injector is the one who will truly never live a full life. So choose life, I know I do. Jonathon, nice haircut, you looked very dashing this morning. Thanks for just being you.

[marachellmara]

Thanks Johnathan. Your vidoes have been timely and helpful to me especially this one keep up with the good work, With love from nigeria❤❤

[ladyofspa]

Excellent excellent I loved it. Great tools to add to a complete understanding. Everyone is stuck on High value men and femininity. I will listen to you again. Cant tell you how often this issue is coming up, and no one really discusses readiness only make sure hes established and shes respectful... urgh.
Thanks for this.

[andreamartin]

People, men and women alike, seem devote-aphobes. The majority seem afraid of being hurt of left or they are looking for "the perfect person" and, therefore, are only comfortable with superficial relationships. The dating sites are RAMPANT with these people. People, You have to be an island unto yourself. I don't expect anything from anyone and they usually deliver. So I trust myself, I live for myself, I do for myself. If ever someone comes into my life that is so incredible that he is worthy of joining in my life-great! But I am not WAITING for that to happen and I no longer waste my time SEARCHING for this person. I live for me!

[confusedspoons]

Hey Jonathon, could you please do a video about people who say "You're too good for me"? And women/men with low self esteem?
I dont really know how to deal with people who say this. I am pretty grounded and have done a lot of self work.

[costelloandlizzievolk]

Thank you. Totally needed to hear this today. ❤️💖

[rachelledellinger]

Hello Johnathen! Thanks so much for your video. I am a fan of feminine energy but I agree that it can not change everything. I also do not believe that a women taking over and trying to change everything will help anything. It has to be that mans decision to heal but a woman in her masculine energy will push a man away at some point, it will not help him heal, I know that from experience. Thanks so much!

[bobbihoffman]

Jonathon, sometimes we just need a little kick in the ass! Thanks!

[dougstofelonline]

I’ll speak from a guy’s perspective, because I’m a guy:). For me, it’s not so much a fear of intimacy as I love women and have the ability to and enjoy having deep intimate connections with women within the structure of a committed relationship. However, I am reluctant to consider marriage...for example....and if the relationship headed in that direction this could cause me to pull away. It has to do with my perception of the nature of women in general, especially in the current culture, with respect to their being able to truly commit to a relationship and then stick with it through thick and thin. The vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. I see it happen over and over. My perception is that women’s feelings can change on a dime and when this happens, the relationship is over...where as men (in my view) are better at hanging on and working through things. Marriage seems too risky of a prospect. So, this...instead of a fear of intimacy is what might cause me to pull back in a relationship. So, I guess it’s more of a fear of where intimacy might lead. I know this is a fear a lot of men have in today’s culture. Perhaps a good topic for a video:)

[Iamanncohen]

Good morning Jonathon 🦁it's my birthday today 54 💃💞🎂🎈🎊🤗🎁🌞 going to spend the day with my daughter and celebrate her 25th which was February 29th🎊🎈🎂🎁 She was my best birthday present ever!!!I'm so happy and grateful to alive and well. I'm going to be singing and dancing all day long. ❤💕💜🎶🎈🎸🎊

[ThFab]

What if this guy with those childhood and marriage wounds tells you that they met the person God made for them and they're 100% certain and extremely happy...

this is like within a month's time. Can a man that has been described as a commitment phobe over and over so quickly be that open to love again? This would he his 3rd marriage.

I was so shocked and confused...I congratulated and wished him well then unfriended him. Not mad, just disappointed.