💍 MY TOP 10 RULES TO FOLLOW WHEN DATING! A SURE GUARANTEE TO FINDING YOUR SOUL MATE FOREVER!!💍

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[kishataylor]

You waited until your wedding night ?? Seriously???

[jennyk]

Rules:
1. Know yourself. Be positive minded. Love yourself and confidence. Don't depend your happiness on someone else. Find yourself! People wants to be around happy people. People with good manners.
2. Eat at home first before dinner. So you can concentrate on your company. Don't compromise your plate of food that you will poo in few hours
3. Have your own money 💰.
4. Set time. Don't be too available.
5. Pay your bills.
6. Date as many as you can with no physical touch.
7. Don't be the first to call.
8. Be hard-core and polite.
9. Don't call him at all. Don't give him too much access.
10. You can wait. Avoid sexual encounter.
11. Protect yourself. Don't compromise.
12. Don't sleep with your husband to be.
13. Don't exclude friends

[samanthavandusen]

My first husband I made all these mistakes. I finally left after 19 years. The man I'm with now, he was my friend first. I'm much happier 💯🥂🥰

[roki]

I love that. "God said I wont give you a daughter I will give you hundreds of daughters" So happy you feel that way. You are genuine.

[thothobuthelezi]

Liking these rules:
Eat before date
Have yr own money
2hrs maxi en go back home
Don't be the first to call
Do not sleep w him, cross yr legs
Don't ignore red flags
Protect yourself don't go to his house

[damilolaogundare]

I love the cartoon walk at the beginning of your videos… gives me happy vibes💯

[emmapetit]

I really enjoyed this episode!!!
I’m 18 years old and I’m just starting to date. Dating is not easy when you want to wait for marriage😅
We’re lucky to have you Fumi❤️

[kabamijemimah]

WISDOM FOR FREE..."Don't exclude FRIENDS while dating"..that hit hard

[eldeepromax]

This is pure gold! No wonder my ENTIRE dating life has been terrible (all 20 years of it!) Well, never too late to unlearn and get it right. Bless you Fumi 💕

[lionesslamb]

👌🏾. And don't be afraid to lose him!

[Dr.GenXNaturalista]

U BETTER Preach Sis! I followed these rules when I met my husband and it worked! I got married at age 37 and am 53 now. I always followed the 90 day rule before I met my husband, but rule #1 made the biggest difference for me. I became so comfortable in my own skin and fell in love with me . I REALLY got to know my Self with all of my greatness and all of my flaws, the tide turned. I felt fulfilled within myself when I met my husband and that alone helped me to follow all of these rules…well….except for #2! (But I’m a picky eater so I guess it made it look like I wasn’t hungry. If I don’t like it, I’m not eating it! 😂🤣😂)

[mleys]

A week ago I joined a dating site. Today I had a chat interaction and the guy hadn't even revealed his name yet and het was already asking to exchange phone numbers. I said no and that I didn't feel safe in giving my phonenumber to a stranger. Then two exchanges later he asked where I lived exactly. That were 2 red flags in less then 10 minutes. And I responded the following : "I don't feel at ease with your requests. I wonder how many women give their phonenumber and address to a random stranger they are chatting with for the first time. I wish you the best of luck in your search." I blocked his profile and removed the chat from the datingsite. I was relieved that I didn't ignore my gut instinct. Thanks for these tips. I will listen to them a few times.

[cherylhoyte]

My parents taught me this from a child.
You are correct, self respect is the SUBJECT MATTER. No compromising!

[animelorrd]

I have been following the rule of having your own money on a date since a while. I went on a date with my boyfriend and he ordered food, drinks and ice cream. He paid for everything and also wanted to get ice cream and snacks for his kid brother as take-home. He wanted to pay with his card as he paid our food with cash, the card reader at the restaurant had issues and I offered to pay with the money I had with me. I took enough money with me that could get our foods before going on that date. It saved him the embarrassment of returning what he wanted to get for his kid brother. He transferred my money to me when he got home.

[GABBRE]

The first rule is, make sure it's a man who loves God more than he love himself, put Him first and live by His principles found in the Bible. Once the man truly and sincerely loves God, everything else follows.
Auntie Fumi is already married and not all men have the same qualities.
And it's ok to call first, nothing is wrong with that.

[danielas]

WHERE WAS THIS 7 YEARS "Eat before you go..." THAT IS GOLD!!!!

[hashima-isisgordon]

Yes please Fumi, I think you should do the 10 rules for single moms, thank you so much Fumi, you taught me ALOT 💜💜💜

[crescentiajoseph]

Talking about red flags. They are always there and God has bless all of us women with intuition. Some of us choose to turn a blind eye. When this tall dark and handsome guy asked me out on a date, I was so so excited. I chose Central Park in NYC, a quiet place, conducive for conversation. We were just strolling through the park when this kid, maybe 5 years old kicked a soccer ball towards my date. As if the kid who was there alone with his mom was looking for a play mate. Can you imagine, this guy just totally ignored the little boy who was waiting in anticipation of the ball being kicked back to him. I was shocked! Something like that should be a reflex action. Which human would not kick a ball back to a kid? That was my red flag. I run out of there with lightning speed.

[dr-k]

500K is coming closer as the days go by. Keep moving forward with Grace; Beauty; and Wisdom Fumi!

[DonnaInTheBlack]

Fumi, these are rules to live by. #2 My parents always had us eat before leaving the house. I am a picky eater and I have discovered that to avoid being Hangry, I need to eat first. #3 When you order, plan on paying the bill and travel with enough money to pay for both meals. #4 I have a daylight rule for first few dates, meaning I will be leaving before the sun sets. Plan for another engagement after so you stick to allotted time. #8 No cookies- A man with self control will respect you. Self control goes beyond the bedroom and will spill into other aspects of his life. #9 In the words of the late Maya Angelou, " When people show you who they are, believe them". #10- The only thing I would amend on this, because I do believe where someone lives tells you a lot about them, show up with a couple of friends for a short visit. The people that know you best will see things that you may miss. When you first meet someone you are dating their representative. It takes time for them to show up. In the presence of your friends, who they are tends to surface more quickly.