Introverts On Party Be Like

Introverts On Party Be Like is a short animation about an introvert doomer that is pulled out of his room by a friend to meet new people. Assured how cool it will be he believed. It turned out, however, that he is going to a party that is among people who are not looking for an extra third wheel. The topics discussed do not concern him and he has a problem getting into the conversation. Slowly he realizes that this group is made of people who all have some kind of a "past" with each other.
Wondering if he wants to be around them and if he did the right thing leaving his house tonight, he slowly begins to be more reluctant towards meeting new people.
Sitting in awkward silence, he dreams of going back to where he wanted to get out.

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[MillenniaThinker]

Can this type of friend group be healthy?



PS: Imagine you are sitting there.
What would you do?

[unhearted]

> Goes to party
> Eats their entire fridge
> Doesn’t even elaborate
> Leaves

[VoidEon]

This hits close to home. I love the attention to detail with Sebastian randomly looking around the room, with nothing to do but just observe as if he's not even there.

[barakaobama]

To be honest it doesn matter if you're introvert or extrovert, that whole situation was just objectively awkward lmao

[jjpugplayer]

As an extrovert there is no possible way to join that conversation without sounding intrusive

[ilyasfizawi]

"They kept talking about people I don't know and events I didn't participate in, and I wasn't able to slip in the conversation"

As an introvert this the biggest problem I face when I try to socialize or meet new people.

[spook]

You can always ask people how they met each other or became friends. People love to talk about themselves. Asking questions is the way to go.

[SpiderSOI]

That diagram he drew up in his head hit me so hard. Any time I'm introduced to a group like that it's one of the first things I do. It's almost cathartic at this point, seeing as I'm incapable of socializing well.

[NICEE]

The unrealistic part is sebastian having a friend that cares about him.

[ChannelChingCong]

At least Sebastian is a good listener. Seeing his inner mind connecting the dots on what relationship each of those people have was impressive

[whoatemyfries]

When he said “They were talking about people I don’t know and events I didn’t participate in, there’s was no right time for me to slip in the conversation” most relatable to me

[natelofimusic]

This goes way beyond parties and more to social awkwardness. Even though I'm extroverted, I still feel like an introvert when I'm around new people. Watching people talk about situations I don't care about to people I wouldn't even like if I met them. To the point where I ask myself "what's the point of being social"

[sotodelarge]

This is brilliant, it captures so well the essence and the mood of those kind of parties.
To me there is always that awkward moment at a party when people you do not know start arguing in a passive aggressive tone and it is utterly confusing. To make it even more awkward, I leave at 4 am because I am bored, hungry and uncomfortable. The fact that so many people relate to this kind of experience makes me feel less lonely. Thank you.

[buttertool]

Sebastian is actually a really good listener, well that and that he can put the dots together while in the middle of hearing a bunch of "friends" spill out everything, that's kinda impressive tbh

[TheChrushr]

love that the zoomer/chad cares for seb despite him being such a negative doomer... man, cant help but appreciate those extroverted friends you got sometimes ykno

[titan_o]

I had a date with a girl a few weeks ago. We didn’t really connect on a lot of things and the whole thing was a bit awkward. Eventually she took me back to her place and met her roommates.
They talked about stupid shit like sex and boyfriends/girlfriends and hating work and how high they all got last night.

Eventually I just left. I couldn’t care less about people who have nothing better to do than to sit on their ass and smoke weed all day and drink at 2pm.

I’d rather be alone than in bad company. And that should apply to everyone. Don’t force yourself to got to social events you know won’t benefit you at all just because a friend asked you to. Do things that you genuinely enjoy. Don’t look for outside influences to change you, be the change that you wish for.

[imreallyalone]

Having social anxiety (+being introvert i guess) really hits hard with this video. I would be in the same spot as Sebastian with the only difference of constantly questioning myself about "what am i doing here?", "are they judging me?", "should i leave", "would it be too awkward if i just stand and go to kitchen?", "what if i trip over when i stand?" and the list goes on....

[jamesnesran]

I've definitely been that guy before. It's so awkward. I think if you host a party it's kind of your job to make people, especially newcomers, feel comfortable. This didn't even seem like a party, just some get together he shouldn't have been to.

[Spencer_Thatcher]

I cringed a little bit when Zoomer left his bro alone with strangers at a party. That is introvert HELL

[alessandrobenvenuti]

I became a master at feeling the emotions of others when crap like this happens. It’s usually a good thing to “grab” the person that feels more awkward and start a conversation with it, instead of just staring at the walls and waiting for the clock to speed up.