Why Is It Said That In Old Age, One Should Not Go Visiting Around? Reasons You Must Know.

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In this video, we explore the reasons why it's often advised that people in their later years avoid frequent social visits. As we age, our perspectives and lifestyles change, often leading to a preference for solitude over sociability. This shift is not contradictory but rather a natural progression of life experiences.

We'll discuss the following key points:

1. **Disturbance:** Visiting others' homes can be intrusive. Each family has its dynamics, and your presence might not be as welcome as you think, causing unintended disruptions.

2. **Causing Trouble:** Frequent visits can lead to unnecessary disputes and misunderstandings. What might seem like innocent conversation can quickly become a source of conflict, especially in close-knit communities.

3. **Psychological Imbalance:** Differences in economic conditions can create discomfort and jealousy. Visiting friends or family with significantly different financial statuses can lead to feelings of inadequacy and comparison.

In old age, many find peace in solitude and prefer to maintain a certain distance in social interactions. This isn't a lack of interest in relationships but rather a way to preserve tranquility and mental well-being. Instead of home visits, meeting in neutral, public places can reduce the stress and inconvenience of hosting.

**Key Takeaways:**

- **Embrace Solitude:** Learn to enjoy your own company and find fulfillment in individual activities.
- **Limit Home Visits:** Reduce the physical and mental strain by opting for social interactions outside the home.
- **Adapt to Changes:** Understand that changing your social habits with age is a natural and healthy progression.

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[AncestralFuel]

“A quiet and modest life brings more joy than a pursuit of success bound with constant unrest.” - Einstein

[owenogilvie]

Before watching this I thought that something is wrong with me. Now I understand why, being alone makes me happy, because I follow no rules or have any schedule I just do things base on my mood. I hate to visit other people house, even my own kids, because I hate being restricted. I dislike small talks, or when people complain I am a critical thinker, and can’t engage in superficial conversation. I stop seeing the world from a prospective of good and evil, as a result it almost impossible to have meaningful and deep conversation with most people. Sometimes I feel like I am outside of the world looking in, and unable to makes sense of what is happening. I am very happy with my life, but most people think I am strange. My advise do whatever makes you comfortable and be happy with your life.

[gevarakagevaraka]

I'm 69, I stay with my daughter's family for 6 months and another 6 months with my son's family. I did visit friends, ex students and travel, once in a while but I've truly changed. Now, I just want to stay in my comfort zone. Go out once a week to buy my essentials, have a hair cut/wash, pedicure. I enjoy my present life. I'm hoping I can leave this world as happy as I am now 😅😂😊

[edgardovillacorte]

Never depend on relationships for fulfillment in life. They will come and go or may turn sour even within a family.
Depend instead on living with yourself and liking it.

[enigma]

I’ve cooked too many meals for people who canceled right before I was expecting them. And when they did show it was nice but, they never invited me over . I felt like they only came because they had nowhere else to go. I would rather not entertain such people anymore.

[justinamusyoka]

I'm 61, widowed and love my own company sometimes with grand kids.Reading, internet, gardening and feeding my pets is enough for a day.

[jbro]

I can't decide if I have lost interest in life or if I am just experiencing true contentment. I seem to be happy doing nothing in particular.

[SHARONSTONE]

One's health challenges and changes. Finances. Distance to travel. One learns to become one's best friend.

[kaynethersole]

Some of these comments are comforting to me.
At 87 I have gone from a very friendly helpful lady to a loner, even with my family. I have wondered about it but it seems I am not alone in my actions.

[nancyg.ahmadzai]

Thankfully I'm moving to Mexico for my retirement life, it's very different there, we always get together with friends and family even in old age, we have places for senior citizens where they go eat, dance, meet others, and have fun. Same thing with families, we visit all the time for lunches on weekends, for barbecuing, all kinds of celebrations, your neighbor keeps eyes on you, if you get sick they will visit you and bring food. This happens because of the Mexican culture, it's always about socializing until you die. When you get sick, you will always have someone by your side and it's a good feeling. Viva Mexico!❤❤❤❤❤❤!❤❤

[kittykat]

I’m 68, married and retired. You can’t believe the immense joy I feel being stress-free at home with my two dogs and two cats compared to intermittently being around humans in any environment and feeling uncomfortable with their presence.

[HansRichter-lhgt]

Love yourself, apply your wisdom, enjoy life, love, and laughter .Accept what you can't change, enjoy the moment, cherish memories...people change, times change. Things will never be the same.Enjoy every moment. Do what you have to do to pass on with love and peace in your heart.

[TinaRossetti-tyzy]

Goodness, me, 10:23 i must be getting wise. It was only two days ago when i said to a friend i dont like visiting people anymore, neither do i like being visited, i prefer to meet up outside the home, a cafe, restaurant or go for a nature walk... neither do i entertain neighbours, i did so in the past and loved it until one neighbour changed the dynamics, and i started to see them all differently... im glad i watched this video, it shows me that im not only getting old, but im also getting wise.

[GrantMcLeod-ur]

When I was young, my father told me: "You go through life alone". I did not understand. But now that I am old, I understand. People are all different, and want to live their own lives. Familiarity does breed contempt. Better to be alone, in harmony with the Way. Peace and contentment.

[YTBEN]

I'm 53 and I've already started distancing from others. I now have very few friends that I can count with my fingers.

[MarkGraham-rdtd]

After my parents passed away.I never new That, I would be alone. My daughter doesn't want anything to with me. I have learned to get involved with the church. Plus the senior center. As you get older you don't really care.I have enough things to do. I do gardening and 🥫 . Plus growing fruit and vegetables. One more thing, I dehydrated foods too. And make my own bread and other stuff. I thank God for guidance and his blessing, each day. And pray for peace and love . Pass it on Mark 😊

[edgardovillacorte]

One's welcome by friends wears out quickly. Get a dog or cat. It's forever loving and will never tire seeing you everyday.😊

[robertmeshew]

I like people. I like to meet at a restaurant, and when tired or bored I can just leave. When I have guest, I cannot just go to bed. I like the freedom of leaving by myself, when the conversation goes a direction I do not like! I enjoy myself first, and others second! I like my privacy, and like leaving when I want to!

[vidyaclasses]

For some months I have been asking myself what has gone wrong, as I don't feel like visiting my friends and relatives. I want to live in solitude. After watching this video it seems I have got answer.

[michaelangelo]

I am 78 and question everything. Minimizing contact with friends is the best advice for maintaining long lasting friendships. Over exposure is a detriment. Mom used to say, ”familiarity breeds contempt” and there is truth to it.