When your child blames you for everything

When your child blames you for everything//Are you a mother struggling with the burden of being blamed for everything by your adult child? In this video, I offer valuable advice and strategies to help you navigate this challenging situation. Discover effective communication techniques, set healthy boundaries, and foster personal responsibility. We'll also discuss the importance of self-care and seeking support when dealing with the emotional toll. Join me as I provide practical insights and guidance for moms facing this common issue.

0:00 - Introduction

1:23 - adults who blame their parents for everything
1:45 - mothers are blamed for everything,and i was tired of being blamed
2:34 - daughters who blame their mothers for everything
3:54 - my daughter blames me for her anxiety

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adults who blame their parents for everything
mothers are blamed for everything,and i was tired of being blamed
daughters who blame their mothers for everything
my daughter blames me for her anxiety

[sallyharriscoach]

Please let me know how this video resonated with you!

[lmorter]

When I use "I" statements my adult child turns it around and says "It's always about you". 🤦 It's impossible to have any kind of conversation about my boundaries without being gaslighted.

[cancermoonchildf]

Yes. I am not allowed to be open with my daughters as a mom. When I do I am accused of all kinds of motives. I just don’t say anything anymore and then I am accused of not caring. I lose no matter what. I have no problems with my son. I would never say anything hurtful to my girls intentionally.

[Capricorn]

I considered my daughter my best friend and she has broken my heart so badly and I am cutting the ties!😊🦋

[LinNBen]

Thank you Sally!
I am binge watching your videos after realizing how highly narcissistic our son is; It’s heartbreaking to watch his kind demeanor over the past 14 years turn ice cold. It’s time to keep communication minimal concerning our grandchildren. We need to be careful so we do not lose our weekly visits🙏🙏

[denisealonge]

I am Sick of it he’s adult I don’t deserve to be treated abusive behavior towards me

[kindnesstoall]

Just happened to come across your video and how timely it it.
The blame game seems to be in high gear...

"They always want us to participate so they can turn around and blame us for how we react to their insults or whatever." Deep and received your message. Thank you!

[heatheranderson]

It’s almost Mothers Day and the depression is starting already 😢

[connieschwarz]

my daughter has blamed me for everything. she makes sure that i pay every day of my life.

[InfoMarketing-uncw]

As a single mom I worked 3x jobs to pay the bills. My daughters lacked nothing. I was a workaholic. Nothing I did for them matters. They will blame me for everything in their past. They accuse me of things they change and believe in their mind to suit them. I remarried 16yrs ago when all children was out of the house. Still they have no love for me. I am happily married . It feels if I was the worse mom of planet earth. I am sober, not fornicating, am a Christian and love my 2nd husband. But still get blocked and no love from my 2x daughters

[Fegga]

Yes, we are plenty not understanding the why.Did much reading and it turns out that we were overprotective, now they want their liberty.❤

[notsheepish]

My adult daughter calls me crying with problems going on with her boyfriend. Then he messages me too. I get put in the middle. Then she says I'm horrible for answering his text. She then brings up stuff from the past and how I've ruined her life. When I defend myself I get blocked.

[MeshieSandhu]

My son blames me for everything, if anything now goes wrong it’s because of me . I no longer no how to respond to him as am scared that I will say something that triggers into a major argument. So I don’t say anything anymore and stay quiet and just acknowledge everything he says just to avoid major blow up. I am desperate for some help and hope . He is literally got into a spiral of looking to start on something everyday. I hope Sally will be able to help me and hope thank case is not hopeless.
If there is any free live events i would appreciate.

[debapriyomitter]

Accurate analysis of a genuine paradox in parenting👍

[Denisebemmett]

My adult child fought me in my own house, curse me in every way you could imagine, mouth is terrible, send me long text basically telling me about how she feel about me. She has children, she broke the relationship with me and my grands. Basically she tried to dictate what i should do inorder to see her children. I love her and my grands. I will not be disrespected by my child. If that means no relationship with my grands so be it. I will always guard my peace first. Her mouth is total disrespectful, unlady like and filty for a parent of 8. God bless her and my grandchildren . I can not ride that roller coaster any more.😢🙏 to all dysfunctional families.

[kiela]

Thank you Sally, for offering your live event to us! I'm looking forward to it & the timing couldn't be better. ❤

[maryloudelossantos]

This is my first encounter with you. Great coverage in detail. It's so uplifting, encouraging & comforting. Listening to you gave me inner peace. Thank you. As a parent, I have my own share of a mother-son relationship that's causing unhappiness. A typical disagreement that turned tumultuous. I accept & admit that i am not a perfect mother. Not my fault 100%. I am glad I came across your video. The greatest relief on my part.

[myathehappy_]

Well my child can have fun on their own as soon as they're legal age they're out of my home Im selling and moving. Ive been nothing but awesome to them but oh Im just horrible in thier eyes and they make things up about me. I'm done with that garbage.

[jennyh.]

im blamed for everything .i have never told my children akot of thingsb im haves subjected myself to .im so alone and feel so guilty im blamed for everything and i have made very bad choices in my lifr .This isbthe first time i have ever written about this.

[pattybenefield]

When I was growing up, our family worked through whatever issues that came up. Yes, hurtful comments and all. I have two of my three kids that "want space". I've tried to work it out. I have told each of them, that I understand I hurt their feelings and hope they forgive me. I get nothing in return, not even, I received your text ...nothing. Finally, after my husband contacted them about it, they tell him that they want space. I mean, what ever happened to forgiveness and working things out. It doesn't feel like maturity at all. Seems like anyone can move on or heal right without talking it out. But, these days, they just freeze you out and don't even check on you. It's been over a year, and not even a word. It's very disappointing.