3 Ways to Turn a Guy On Emotionally

[christineribone]

#4. make each other a priority, not just a convenience.

[saras.]

1. Withhold physical intimacy until you have built an emotional bond/feel like friends.
2. Ask the other person for advice.
3. Do something novel that neither of you have done before.

[miajones]

After 20 years as friends, my man and I finally shifted to a very loving supportive relationship/ partnership. Our bond is and continues to get stronger and deeper. This is the most honest, free communication I've ever had at 70 years old, in a relationship. We both agree this bond is so much of all we could ever have hoped for. Even when we have a disagreement, we talk through it
We're willing to fight for each other .

[gisellewebber]

I’m just starting out dating I’m single. I have a learning disability. I have social anxiety. I find hard to meet men. I’m very positive person. My confidence is getting better. I believe for once in my 41 years of life I’m beautiful

[creatureofstyle]

I did the first 2. He and I were actually friends for 4 years before we dated. I knew the 3rd one was important but couldn't get him to do it. It stressed me out because all he wanted to do was watch movies and hang around his house and I felt like he needed to see me out in the wild interacting with other people besides him lol

Well, long story short I did the 1st two too well and it turns out he has avoidant attachment style so when he started to catch feelings really fast and then I was asking him to go out and do things that made him feel like I was trying to control him so he ran away from our relationship 🤦‍♀️

Point being, if you want to keep them make sure they're not avoidant before you use this great advice 😂

[tamarawolverton]

Wow this advice is stellar!! How is there so much negativity? 1 you did not feel like close friends before intimacy, 2 dont date guys that are not at a high enough level to ask and offer authentic advice, and 3 novel will feel amazing no matter what if 1 and 2 exist.

[cocohitchman]

Building emotional intimacy takes time but men or women rush sexual intimacy too soon, within the1st few dates they get bored, simply ghost or lack patience getting to know someone .

This is something in western culture that’s one big problem when dating 4 a serious relationship 😅

[wendybridges]

A lot of people now meet from dating sites, thro my experience, most guys won't wait long for intimacy when there's someone else willing at the click of a button or swipe of a page. We live in a society where a lot of people want instant gratification, so building a solid relationship is hard 😪

[cindyspence]

Hers is a genius man. Thank you. So so right❤

[jojose]

I got it! I’m just missing the guy part lol

[grateful]

3 ways: 1) Pull up in a truck 2) Take him to a BBQ ribs spot 3) Sit and watch his favorite sport with him without yapping the entire way through😂
-From a female (don’t get mad at me 😂)

[MeloneeRouse]

You are indeed right about these without a doubt.

[elenarotestan]

I totally believe in the #1 hold intimacy as much as you can!

[samiraarian]

Why people can't just be normal and like each other!!what the hell is wrong with simplicity!!!!😒

[LeslieSimpson-yu]

I love this message thank u also itvworks both ways ❤🎉😊

[kdani]

Why is it always on the woman to “withhold intimacy”? Why can’t men learn to build an emotional bond first?

[bhagavatilad]

Oh I forgot you mean we have to go together to try something new?

[rosehiver]

I remember when I was a student, we had to change the classroom for a new class and some students took a little break. So I took 2 minutes to go to the restroom. When I came back, the professor asked me if I had called the others to come. I said "No, I went to pee." He giggled a bit stupidly. From this moment, every time in his class he was staring at me insistently. Even my friend next to me noticed it. It was disgusting.

[maleenajewelry]

You will turn him on emotionally if the stars say so😂

[DeliaNErik]

I agree ☝️ 💯 that’s exactly what I Did with my husband nothing for a whole year
Until I knew he was all in love with me and I had a connection with him the works if they stay around the means they really appreciate u respecting u until the end if all they want is sleep with you they will probably walk a way or sleep with someone else