Resist the urge to reach out to your avoidant ex!

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[lgroves]

People interacting with this STYLE please listen to him. HE gives great advise and is SPOT ON.

[sif]

he is so cute how much he wants to help us discarded people, thank you Ryan

[citizenoz]

After 18 months of hurtful confusing emotional destruction trying to understand the behaviour I was getting from a DA... I found Coach Ryan. My life has turned around 180deg and improved off the scale since I started listening to his advice. Thank you!

[rmn_]

Again can't thank enough for your supportive videos. Would never start to feel detached without your continued help. Thank you & may God bless you.

[ahemadkunjada]

Really needed to hear it, perfect timing. Thank You So Much

[Brenda-tr]

Hopefully, my next relationship (if there is one), will be with an emotionally healthy person.

[Andrea_k]

I'm literally going through this right now. The guy that I was seeing acted like he loved & cared about me. He used to tell me I was his everything & that he loved me so much. Then one day I texted him to see how he was doing & he didn't respond until 7 hours later. He started treating me like an option. I texted him back telling him how I felt & he has now decided to ghost me completely. It's been a week & he has never talked to me again. I have been completely heart broken & confused. I wish he would just be man enough to say something instead of leaving me out in the cold like I am nothing. I want my heart to stop hurting. I know I deserve better that that. I just thought he was real. But I guess he wasn't. It just hurts so much!💔😭

[atiyehatiyeh]

Dear Ryan, I wanted to thank you for this particular video. It really helps me. I will continue to keep him blocked not only do not want to hear from him. Most importantly I've taken my power back I deserve much more

[verymuchgerman]

Avoidants are said to fear intimacy. Does anyone has experience with their avoidant suddenly refusing to kiss?

[Mate_Mateo]

I've been strugling to find the one. Been in 7 yrs relationship which had to end and had to let go. Healed after year and a bit, then avoidant came into my life, after being 3 years solo. Got job in IT I hace longing for, finally hited gym at constant basis ( basically i was happy and confident ) then avoidant came. Felt like everything is falling into its place, got even happier. After 3 months she discarded me and I started to feel like shit. I continued work and gym but I'm empty inside even after 3 months of breakup, didnt help that we live close and was seeing her constantly!! I contacted once and we had good talk for 3 hrs via text but we haven't discussed us or anything emotional. Today shes moving to another country and can't believe shes so cold.. I think it's just over, even if she makes move, which she will not, I'll not accept her... Hope the next one will be emotionally healthy.

[trevormckelvey]

I did not contact for 2 months with my avoident ex and found out 2 days ago that she apparently still has feelings for me even though she dumped me.

[TaurusMan]

My hang up is wondering if they're doing ok. That's my human side. Can anyone share some insights?

[arosakias]

Wendsday was kissing me and hung me.. we were together in the same job ! Sunday told me she found another job and dessapear forever 😢

[leelindley]

Ryan she blocked me on everything. 0 contact and ways to contact. Is this bad? Is there hope?

[ItsaMe]

The thing is... I don't really know, if he really is an avoidant because he is deeply depressed. I don't know if it's the depression or his attachment style 😢 And I am so worried about him. I think he is in a very serious state, and I don't know what to do...

[TJLikePiggy]

I am resisting the urge coach. The current me is content with loneliness