5 Reasons Why Women Should Make The First Move

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[m.jensen]

I made the first move to a man i liked via messenger, and today he is my boyfrind. So dont hold back!🥰

[stephensperr]

My gf made the first move: “Hi, that’s interesting, tell me about such and such” is all you need to get started. It’s that easy. 6 months in and best relationship ever!

[grayhalf]

Some years ago I was walking home from the supermarket when a girl stopped me and asked me out for a drink. She was attractive, 17 years younger than me (me 37, her 20) and was only in the UK for a few months but we made it work for about four years. We rented a flat in her country and my work was online so I was able to travel back and forth. It didn't work out in the end (different life stages mainly) but it was a good relationship. And all from her just coming over to say hi 🙂

[Leggs]

Ladies, Please ask Me Out for Dinner.

[keithjackson]

If women mad the first move, it would be better for them. They would go after the man they wanted, instead of rolling the dice. My opinion

[SebastianKunysz]

100% spot on! I talk to women all the time. When a girl makes a move on me first I always give her a chance.. Even if she wasn't a 10/10. She is now in my eyes. Respect.

[theCatsitter]

I've been single for 6 years now, the first years I never went anywhere as I was too shy/introvert to make the first move, but then I started changing things and asked guys out 4 times so far. It went well just once and we went out for a few months and he told he was really happy I contacted him. I don't do it with anyone, I must really like the guy and the more you do it, the easier it'll get, at least I know immediately if a guy is interested or not (if they are interested they'll be pleased and happy you made a move, if they judge they are stupid idiots not worth your time) and I don't waste my time wondering if he's into me or not. If he doesn't like me, well, fine, NEXT.

[goombasquaddie]

As a shy man (and with anxiety) I can confirm you are absolutely right Hayley ☺ Thank you for making these videos, I Will try to be more brave and look after signals from women. I live in Norway, I gress most tings Apple in both UK and here, but the culture here is known for being even more introvert than most countries.

[Leggs]

If a Lady asked me out. I may been Married by now.

[woodstockenvy]

Thank you for sharing this, superb topic .. as a guy I would be extremely flattered and pleased if a woman hinted at any type of "first move" .. yes, it would be a win-win
and no matter who she might be .. or what social scenario
I would gladly and graciously accept her invitation for a coffee, lunch .. or even just to chat. Cheers

[admirbarucija]

I’m excited to hear your thoughts on this, making the first move is a lot of pressure, but it shouldn’t be exclusively guys doing it!! I hope you have a phenomenal week Hayley 🥰💜

[sparksfly]

I saw this guy, my spirit said, he's your husband, so, I created several intermittent conversations with him. Then I went in with the gusto move. I said, " if I give you my number would you call me, he said, Yes!😁 I felt great! But, he has a friend. Is it, wrong to go any further? My heart, says, differently.

[Tomas-wgqj]

Great and important topic Hayley! All women should see and realize this. Men are irresolute and even afraid to make a move in these days after #MeToo.

[Azmarith]

Great video. I love what you're doing. You're spot on with all of these points.

[Xatex]

I appreciate that you teach this to women and create a paradigm shift (them being an opportunity creator). Thanks for doing this and your phenomenal speech at the MMC 2019.

[demonfox]

I've had women very boldly approach when I wasn't even trying to get any attention! My big problem was when I was young I had piss poor social skills, low self esteem, distrust of women and either didn't understand what they were trying to do or did not trust them and was cold and rude to make them get away from me. In the last few years - as I learned these social skills - I've had them do it even though I'm wearing a wedding band. I'd let them know that I'm married and nothing is going to happen but I'm happy to make a new friend.

[dominizzle]

I’m basically the only one in my family who isn’t married or in a relationship. Men do not approach me at all and the ones that do ended up really hurting me in the end or just looking for a hookup. I have been single for four years and haven’t met anyone new at all. I start to think to myself that maybe I should make the first move, then I think about all the females that actually have someone telling me that the right man will find me and I have faced rejection before when I made the first move. Ugh idk anymore.

[MrCednumber]

Thanks for this video.

As a man it's letting me know that I personally have been not taking advantage of some of the opportunities women have been presenting.

[theapexpredator]

Women... If it feels right then Approach the Man!
Don't let limiting beliefs hold you back!

[NickalausFarris]

Women..
As a man 30yo, i had a slightly older coworker leave me a note on my car about 2 weeks ago. Had been single af atleast like 6 years, at first it was like i saw a UFO land infront of me. Total Shock. I decided to go out with her even tho i had reservations at first, and after 3 dates
Im pretty sure she put a spell on me by taking initiative.
Never had a relationship i wasnt responsible for initiating before, and now this woman has my interest like no other woman has because i know shes truly interested
Most dates guys will ever have feel like a job trying to impress or convince the woman youre good enough for her time, those connections will go nowhere

Imagine going on a date where they are already interested in you and its not a game of "impress me"
Too good to be true right? Guys are THAT simple
Hope it works out for us, I already know it will take every bit of 30 years for me to find a woman like this again