5 Signs Your Crush Doesn't Want a Relationship (new animation)

Unrequited! Unrequited! Unrequited love hurts. Unrequited love means love that is one-sided and not returned. When you are having an one-sided crush, you may wonder "How to know if he likes me?", "how to know if she likes me?". Have you guys ever wondered if your crush likes you back? Unrequited love can be painful and heartbreaking when someone rejects you. When someone friend zones you, they can show subtle signs such as bit making an effort, they talk about their love life, keeping you at arms' length, flaking on plans, and flirting with other people.

Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Dinda (new animator)
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[chiba]

My crush isn't interested in me but that's okay, I thought I would never get over my ex-girlfriend, I'm just happy to have feelings for someone that's not her.

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Your crush doesn't make an effort0:23
2). They talk about their love life 1:10
3). They keep you at arm's length 1:30
4). They flake out on plans 1:52
5). Their flirt with other people 2:19

Hope this helps you out.

[mognitus]

"some people may think that the other person is playing hard to get and that could be the case people play hard to get to see if the others are interested but why would you chase after someone who lures you in to play around with your feelings if it's obvious you're interested" it hurts but this is exactly what i need to hear

[HK-rnfb]

We both liked each other but she wasn’t ready, so we went one step back and started a friendship which is way better than a relationship in which one is not fully consent. Our friendship is strong and I am more than happy that It didn’t worked out. Sometimes the step back is the right one

[josephwee]

That sinking feeling when you relate to all of the signs.

[Yashuop]

I hope this channel never ends and keep spreading happiness ❤️

[paddyharris]

whenver i get a crush it always confuses me soo much, i can never tell if they like me or not, ill get very certain, then something will happen to make me think otherwise, i end up losing my mind until i decide to just forget about it and it goes nowhere.

unrelated but great vid!

[Dineffable]

I met a girl at a friend's bd. She was gorgeous. I felt attracted to her bc I felt she felt the same. I asked her out on a date an she was more than happy to go out with me. It was peak of happiness for me. We had an incredible first date, she and I felt pretty much the same, or at least, that's what I thought. She is in college right now and I am working. Her college is really demanding so we had little time to get to know each other. I think she felt a pressure to give me time she didn't have. I went to see her 2 times on her college. I brought her flowers, chocolates, cakes, her favorite snack and things like that. She seemed very happy with all of that but also I noted she was putting herself a pressure by herself. She didn't have time and I was something out of her routine. I was, at the end of the day, a waste of her time. So she stopped talking to me for like a week. She used to send me a good morning msg and so did I. But she stopped. My friend (the one of the bd) told me many times she was busy with college, but it wasn't just that and I could feel it.
So I asked her two days ago straight "hey, I've seen we haven't talk much and I'm wandering if something happened or you lost interest on me? I would appreciate if you could let me know and any answer you give it's gonna be ok with me".

So she told me, it wasn't that she didn't felt attracted or wasn't interested, but that she felt we are looking for different thing. She told me she didn't wanted a relationship and assumed that I did (honestly, I would have love to be her gf). I told her that it was ok and that I was happy to have the chance to know her. It was really sad and she thanked me too.

Now I understand more than ever that maybe we've meet with the right people (or very suitable people) more than once, but sometimes time is everything. Sometimes you are looking for something the other person isn't, or sometimes you are mature and the other person isn't, and many many things.

But even with that known and learn, I don't want to give up on love, because I know I am a good person that has a lot of love to give to the world. And to this girl, Fernanda, if she ever reads this comment (probably never gonna happen) I want you to know that you were one of the highlights of my year, by far. I would've loved to be in your life a little longer, and I just wish you to be happy and ok, you are incredibly beautiful, take care, xx

[catlinguesswho]

1. Your crush doesn't make an effort 0:25
2. They talk about their love life 1:12
3. They keep you at arm's length 1:32
4.They flake out on plans 1:54
5. They flirt with other people 2:19

[ronmichaels]

I can relate to every one of those signs. After 2 years of pursuit, I'm giving her up. Life is too short to waste on someone who isn't interested. Thanks for the eye opening presentation

[Yuvato]

I confessed to my crush last week, and she started crying. Not from happiness, from the pain of losing best friend. Im not the same since that day, I hope she is okay and happy

[GideonTong]

It's actually simpler than this, they don't want a relationship with you if they tell you they don't want a relationship with you

[DevinJHiggins]

6.) Your crush tells you things like "I love you. I'm just not capable of being IN love with you."
7.) They lean on you for emotional support, but can't accept that you have feelings that can change from platonic to non-platonic over time.

Yet another reason why I stopped socializing with new people and seeking new relationships over a decade ago.
They're not worth the pain you're put through, just because you want someone to care about you as much as you've grown to care about them.

[snowzel]

I confessed to my crush just a while ago, and he likes me back, I swear I'm the happiest todayyyy!!!

[Kamiyartz]

Point 1 and point 4 happened to me. At that point I knew my crush wasn't worth the effort because she couldn't afford to spend one day to hang out with me. It lead to me overthinking and getting depressed, thinking that there is something wrong with me. I decided to just tell her that I like her and clear the air, I already predicted the answer to be no so I wasn't surprised.
This incident happened recently but we are at least still talking as friends and I'm happy, most of my crushes will resent and stay away after they reject me.

[shanw.]

My crush isn't interested in me and that's okay, I'm just glad that I feel okay to like someone romantically again after having had some messed up relationships in the past.

Thank you for the video! Much love for the whole Phych2go team 💜

[anaiswatterson]

I have a girl who I think has a crush on me for a long time and I think I like her too.

She is an easygoing person and she does everything this video explains with me. She is the one who asks for a date, I'm that guy who can't reject if someone want to hangout so I always going out with her. The problem is, she already is close with someone and I think is in relationship with him. I'm not that type to steal anyone's partner, so I can't show my affection to her. I also got no permission for my family to date this girl, since her mom also got issues.

For now, I don't think love life is the most important thing to have, at least for me. I had so many bad memories with people that numbs my trust to anyone else. Let's see if I can survive in this solo mode, or if I can change. Either way, I feel glad to be happy, alone or with friends surrounding me. In her respect? I hope she is happy too with whoever she wants to be. I wish for everyone I met in my life to be happy too!

[SlashJoking]

i’ve had 2 crushes before and never had one again and they’re the reason why. they both never seemed interested in knowing more about me, they avoid me. when i reach my hand out for a high-five, one of them just grunts and makes this really uninterested face. The other...just high-fives another person.

[UndercoverTherapist]

To be honest, going all out for a person who doesn't want a relationship with you can be really embarrassing. I think people need to read the room more before they dive in. Otherwise, you might just be risking the embarrassment of a lifetime.

[GotSwissd]

me, without a crush: Finally! Something i can’t relate to!