How to Say No Without Killing His Attraction | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and how to establish boundaries without killing his attraction for you

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.

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[elliewill]

I think that every woman and every man has the right to say no at anytime anywhere. If you are a responsible mature adult, you can take it. It’s toxic to feel the need to sugarcoat something as vital as a “no”

[luuvvvuever]

I actually started talking to a guy 2 weeks ago online and it was kinda the opposite of this. He wanted to do virtual dates first and I said I'd rather meet him in person for the first time when all of this was over. He convinced me to do the virtual dates first and I'm so glad he did. We've done 3 so far and they went great! We're meeting up at a beach in a couple days bc we don't want to wait any longer and we're both so excited to see each other in person. 🥰

[PossumLover]

I've been on both ends of the gone to bed too soon because I wanted him to like me and regretted it only for him to move on anyway; and I've told them to wait cuz I'm worth waiting for. If he leaves then good riddance he wasn't worthy of me in the first place. If he sticks around, he'll eventually get what he wants cuz I'll want it too. It's taken me many decades to figure this bloomer and all.

[valory]

Personally I feel as though if he’s the kind of guy that will look for someone who will say yes then he’s not worth your time. If he’s the right one he’ll wait and if he really wants you enough he’ll keep trying. That’s the kind of man that will stay for the long term 😌 but everyone is entitled to their own opinions

[braxleighsplace]

I've been pressured a lot to "break quarantine" with guys I literally JUST started messaging on a dating app. I'm not comfortable meeting up that fast without a pandemic, plus I'm high risk so I'm not comfortable being around anyone just yet. I'm glad you put this video out. It's nice to know it's not just me having this issue.

[vhayashi]

Saying No Actually makes them want you more... They like a challenge. Easy is boring... No fun. They don't value what they don't work for. They have to earn that time. Men are not entitled to lay down with us just because they want to... We have to be ready and it's their job to make us feel comfortable and ready.
Omg Matt that is BRILLIANT "Do you have what it takes to wait?" WOW 😮😁🏅

[pryncesslove]

I really like this! Some women are taking this the wrong way, like they can’t say no. If you don’t want those things to eventually happen, say no. If the laws of attraction aren’t met for you, say no. if you are attracted to him, and like what is happening, say “Not yet” and watch him work to not only get you, but see him really get to know you! It will show you as well if he is really into you, because if not he won’t wait either way

[dayshadunlap]

If I don't feel a choice would be best for me, I say no with a "When I look at you/ Think of you, I always want to feel good about what we did/ had".

[lperformanceartist]

convert “no” to “not yet” / “not now”
A- common ground I would love to do that / spend time with you
B- barrier to overcome - I will feel more comfortable if we do ...first to achieve the pre comfort
C- do you have what it takes to wait?

[CorporateQueen]

This is not a dilemma. If they can't handle no on a first date, what are they going to be like at 6 months...
Can't take a no?
There's the door.

[AkaHeart]

Love the “Not Yet” theory!! Great advice!!
Thanks!! 💥🌈👍🏻🌈💫🌈👍🏻🌈💥

[shlomitbechar]

I just tried this with a guy I’ve been texting with for a week. It was a bit difficult to translate “do you have what it takes” to my language but he answered - sure! Let’s talk tonight. Thanks Matt!

[mirembeleahaisha]

Who else noticed Mathew Bogg's looks ❤

[adej]

I have been watching you videos for quite sometime now coz i am tryin to understand myself here🤣i know im a descent woman but when i choose the man i want it always the wrong one😅🤣 i mean hes the only one... So im here to learn more about men amd women and whats goin on in the world of love... Thanks matt

[ekaterinaivanova]

My strategy is to reply :"Maybe", for me is the same as "Not yet". If we have talked about what's going on I will understand that is all fine, just need more time.

[caeylin]

This video is brilliant. Some of the best advice I’ve heard for me personally because I struggle with this and can be too accommodating. So great Matt. I feel empowered. Thank you!!!

[kp]

Mat, this is great for wherever you’re at with a guy and a great reminder of how men interpret no. A technique I’ve used is redirect. “I’d love to do that sometime. How about xyz instead?” If I’m going to reject an idea, I’m not going to leave him guessing on what would make me happy. I will let him know what I’m comfortable with. “Sometime” is also another hope it can happen in the future :)

[wildwoman]

Thanks! I love this formula! The Challenge is awesome and, the "Not yet" is great too! And, the Barrier is awesome for staying my needs and values!

[beckyharper]

I have said, pause, but if you show me your patient side I can assure you it will be with your wait. I also can say it will not take long either, because I am craving your patience right now.

[ninabrown]

Enjoyed every minute of this video thank you