How to start talking to someone who you've never actually met

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A viewer works with this guy who she sees often, and they often look at each other but neither has said a word. So, how do you come up to someone you've never actually met? Start by saying, "Hi, I'm____I see you all the time, but I don't know your name." Then, hopefully a conversation will ensue.
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I wish you made this video 6 months ago - I messed up everything.

intelectr
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I was so glad to see your video in my in-box. You give the best advice!

mysonruns
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I think the best thing to do in that situation is once they smile at one another - at least walk up to the person and ask how is your day and then introduce yours self. That is the best time to do it... The woman making the first move in that situation is the best because there are too many women who mislead men with smiles and stares. Once a man starts to approach them then they act as if your trying to hit on them and that discourages the man. A woman smiling at a man and looking at him is a sign that they at least interested in talking with them. 

Rawz
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Can you please do a video on how to talk confidently to the "popular kid" at school. I sit next to her but when I talk to her, I either say very few words, or stutter. Lol pls help thx :)

gemlovesbeautyxo
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Good Morning Marie, it's Thara Messeroux again, my last comment was under the video: " Why you  shouldn't stay friend with someone who is not interested in you ?" and you told me to back off a little from the friend I was obsess with and to let her go for now, and that I will make a lot of friend at college. I did back off for a while, and then I became a little bit close to her again ( stay with  her, laugh with her, sleep with her… ) because we were doing our last trip with the class, and then now I'm backing off again, but I'm a little lost, because I'm not sure what backing off mean, is it normal to feel uncomfortable with her while backing off ? How much should I back off from her, and when should I stop backing off ( how long should I back off from her) ? How can I know how much she likes me, because I really need to know to feel an inside peace. I really hope that she loves me more than anything, and that the back off won't take away the little love she could feel for me. May I ask another friend to ask her to list the person she loves the most in the world, and after that, that other friend could tell me everything but in secret, or there is a more professional way to know ?  
 And today, she told me: "you know I love you more then anything, right ? " and there was another friend that was listening and that other friend told me: " ignore her! she's only saying that because she wants something from you." and I told her: " what do you want?" and she said: " I'm really tired, bring my back for me, please ?" and I told her: " If you want me to do something for you, you don't need to do all that, say you love me and all that stuff" and I brought the bag for her until she stand up from where she sat, but she told me to continue until she arrived where she was going, and I did that, while doing that the other friend was still talking and said (while smiling ) : "don't let her manipulate you! she's a viper!" I thought a little about what she was telling me, but I continued to walk with her bag on my back until she arrived where she wanted to go, than I walked away immediately. She screamed my name and said a thank you with a beautiful smile, and I screamed: "you're welcome !" with a nice smile. But, I can tell  that I was really sad from the inside, and till now… Do you think she never really loved me, and was nice to me just like that, and now she's using the fact that I love her so much that I can't remember to forget her, to use me :( or something ? Or was it a joke ? Please help me Marie Dubuque. I'm waiting for your answer. A video about it would be perfect, but please let me know which video is answering my question. Thank you already. Have a good day !

TharaMesseroux
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After what happened to me last time. Im done with interest and relationships for awhile :/.

thebourgeoisredneck
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Oh Marie what should I do without your advises? Thank you!

bishonenchan
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Hey Marie, I just started university and there's this boy that I really like. Like you described in the video, we always catch each others' eye and on nights out we always look at each other across from the room but neither of us approaches the other, although he has tried to approach me before but then backs out last minute. My flatmates have caught on that I like him and last weekend one of them told him that I have a crush on him and he asked for my number so she gave it to him. However, we still haven't spoken to each other and he hasn't texted me yet and its almost been a week so I'm worried that its become strange after last weekend. Do I brush it off and act natural and just finally talk to him normally or should I avoid it completely and move on?

KyuKyuLuv
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Can you make a video on how to handle drama that comes to you that you don't want to be apart of? Thanks

jacksonamirshahi
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I'm in this exact situation although I feel that it's too late. I like this girl from college and I think she likes me to, but neither of us approached each other to start a conversation. I guess I was shy or just didn't want to get rejected by her so I didn't want to risk it and get humiliated. We had the same classes for a year and in that time I had many opportunities to go and talk to her when she was alone but I just walked away from them. Whenever I saw her, I'd catch her looking at me in the corner of my eye or we'd look at each other and she'd instantly looked to the ground. I kind of thought that she wasn't interested at first because she was quickly avoiding eye contact with me. For a year we had 2 classes in the same room and for that whole year we always sat on opposite sides of the room, she'd sit on the left and I'd sit on the right side but in the same row. On the last day of our class, I go early to find her sitting in my seat. The room had no one else in it and there were 50-60 odd seats for her to choose from and out of all them she chose where I always sat. I don't know if I'm being paranoid or if she was trying to send me an indication to talk to her. Anyhow I think I've blown it, we no longer have any classes together but I saw her the other day, and as soon as she saw me she looked to the ground as we passed each other. I'm thinking about talking to her if or when I encounter her next. Marie, do you still think I have a chance with her or have I blown it?

Thank you for reading.

devonzway
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What should I do !! I asked someone out and he said he wanted to be friends with benefits. But I want to be more

sienamartin
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I have a question, I have been having this problem with a friend who had a break up six months ago. I was always that friend who was her shoulder to cry on and listened to her every time she wanted to vent out to him, but its been six months of hearing about this break up every conversation we had. I'm a pretty honest, and blunt person, and  the past 2 months, I've been holding my thoughts and feelings, because I already been down that road of trying to be honest with her, and she'll start a fight about my honestly of my feelings. Every time she calls, its always about her ex. I always hold my tongue, and shut up about my honestly, but when I do try to speak my feelings, she'll try to interrupt me about the situation.  She is getting to the point where she is not that person I once knew, now she is this person who was once my best friend, now a complete stranger. Of course, now my patience is wearing thin about it, cause from her that's all I hear. Please, help me, I don't know what else I should do. 

XNovaAssassinX
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Hey Marie, I am a 13 year old boy and I have 3 main friends theres not any other friends I can make, im at a small high school. Basically i dont like one of my frineds cause he always cries and hes a baby. I am tired of dealing with his drama. But my other friend likes him and i fell i canot trust neither of them. I dont know what to do? Please help me, im somethimes the 3rd weel. I really just need advice from you or a councler. But i dont want to tell my mom cause she gosspis to much. Thankyou plese respond!

brittoncooke
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I am a guy and this is happening with me except I am to scared to approach her
We see and say hey to each other and smile and we see each other looking at one another
Haha

N_Cyber
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Marie, I had a friend who I used to be really close initially had a crush on him but I understood that that couldn't be because he was not interested in me....he was going through some difficult moments, I was supporting him and attempting to help him in all I met this guy through my family and my family knew him well.... He was going through some difficult problems, he confided in me, I kept my secret very well.... But One day he texted me, telling me that I had proliferated what he had told me ( that I spread what he told me), at that point he told me not to ever contact him in any way, that our friendship was over. I promised him that I was going to prove him that I did not spread any rumors about him.... He was convinced I did it and told me to just leave it like that and never contacting him again...I lost contact with him...years later I found out that his problem was a public matter.... And anybody who knew how to use the internet would have found out anyways....I did not spread any rumors, I really appreciate the friendship we had....today I can only contact him only via a letter if I wanted to. I know I am innocent of what he accused me of....and I would have never told anybody about his issue anyways because my family would have made me limit my contact with him anyways....Lately I've been thinking about this matter, is a situation that is bothering me...Should I try and contact him again? How would I approach him so that he understands I didn't do anything? Or is this something that I should leave to time and forget about?

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