#1 worst mistake for pet loss grief! 🐾💖

#1 worst mistake for pet loss grief! 🐾💖
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[debbiereynolds]

This often helps me deal with it though. It helps me move through the process instead of being quiet and bottling the pain inside

[jillmagno]

Telling the story makes the pain less. It helps in accepting. I don't want to bottle up my feeling. Because i relive the pain over and over, so i have to let it out and cry it out.

[leslieperalta]

My problem is not telling it to others but reliving that day to myself over and over. It’s torture and I try not to do that even though it’s six months today. It’s incredibly painful to think of taking him to be euthanized. It only helps when I then look at pictures I took of him in his last days and remind myself of how he needed to be free from that horrible cancer, and now he is❤
Thank you Danielle💜

[governmentname]

Exact opposite for me. I don't share enough and that makes it hard to let go of.

[shannonmerrill]

I always tell my stories of my pets.they are my family.i cannot let them be forgotten. Ever.

[raysapaw]

The worst thing is telling your story to someone who has never had an animal. It's the absolute description of 'adding insult to injury' when they dismiss your loss.

[Flo-xxez]

This has to be one of the worst life advice ever.
"You're in pain ? Well pretend you're not ! Dont talk about your feelings and grief and they will magically fly away !"
Processing your emotions is easier when you are sharing them with trustworthy people.
It may not be easy, but so very worth it.
Remember, your goal is not to smash and erase the grief, you cant, the goal is to make it bearable.
Take care yall

[Jeng]

Well with me its complete opposite. Not sharing the story at all hurts more than sharing. Talking it through helps. Everyone is different with grief.

[Eloria]

Hello, my pet has been gone since 2008 and I felt her jump on the bed last night which was wonderful ❤🐾

[lilymondragon]

I try avoiding telling the story of my Gilbert.
He has given me 3 signs since he pass❤ Thank you Bonito
Love you mi tito❤❤

[jimlap]

Thank You. This resonates truth to me. My 16 yr old Golden died yesterday . My wife and I are devastated. We would, I believe, answer everyone who is asking how, why, where, when….and I do believe even in the sacredness of this time, it cheapens and will certainly hurt us. Thank You

[kittyhunter]

This actually helps me I learn from it so that I can hopefully prevent it in the future and for other people too that’s me though and I know not everyone is like me

[reconnectwithyou]

I thought you were gonna say that it’s to get a new pet right away but your explanation makes so much sense. Buddy (my pet bird) transitioned in the middle of the night last night and I’m likely only gonna talk to my therapist about what happened in terms of details mostly because I wanna release it and leave it there.

[sandymeyer]

Thank goodness for this! I hate that people keep asking me details. I'm going to set boundaries and say, "I don't want to go there."

[theboneater]

Sounds like an unhealthy way to cope with grief

[itsjustme]

Just lost my 2 chihuahuas days from each other days ago they were 13 years old. Have to disagree with you here telling the story about them and their passing helps the grieving process keeping it bottled up only makes it harder. I've already got some amazing signs from them both which makes me so happy 😊 😃

[Flash-]

My personal story is already adopted another dog eight days before putting down my beloved senior
little dog. It didn't make the loss easier but allowed
me to move on every day.

[Chiller-pcdv]

Telling the story has been helping me a lot actually.... But yesterday I saw a beautiful, white butterfly when my dad and I were out collecting rocks for a pathway at kept flying by us, getting the closest whenever we got really into talking about my boy, Kona the guinea pig, (passed away at 6 years old just this past Friday) So....I like to think it was his spirit coming to check on us....but also liked hearing us talk about

[Vannessa-wg]

I can't let go. She was killed by the vet pills she gave her. She died in the most horrible way😢

[PrismSoul]

I am guilty about this!!! I have recanted & spoke about her & her passing.

My pain just won't allow me to move on. She was my Soulmate I feel & its been so hard for me to move on.

I even cry to my new rescue & even though I know its not fair to my lil rescue for me to be missing my furbaby on the other side & be crying for her.

Im trying but her presence & her being in my life is the hardest thing ever....its no wonder I dont get any signs from her. Since her passing 2/3/23 Ive dreamn't about her 2-3 times & they were horrific dreams.

I cried because I just want to have beautiful dreams of her & I being happy together.

This is so hard....😢