Questions to Ask on The First Date

Hooray, you have a date coming up! I want to see you succeed and have the best date ever. You need to know how to blow them away with sparkling and captivating conversations, but what do you ask and how you build a bond quickly?

In this video, I will gift you the 5 best first date questions that will help stimulate conversation. Let me know in the comment section what is the best conversation starter/ question you've heard or use while on a date.

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In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:40 Are you working on any personal passion projects?
1:02 What's the best present you ever gave someone?
1:25 What does a typical day look like for you?
1:52 What sort of vacations do you like to take?
2:30 Anything surprising happen today?
3:00 Final thoughts

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00:40 1. Are you working on any personal passion projects?
01:00 2. What's the best present you ever gave someone?
01:27 3. What does a typical day look like for you?
01:53 4. What sort of vacations do you like to take?
02:30 5. Anything surprising happen today? Consider asking high and low points.

[Dynamix]

'What do you do for fun?'. I think having some good default questions is fine, but it's way better to have a good attitude, meaning having humour, flirting/teasing, not to be to serious, don't always give a straight answer (be a bit mysterious) and improvise on the spot. Especially ask open ended questions that start with 'why' and 'how'. Listen what they say, use their language in your responses to create rapport and show them that you've listened.

Not to forgot, touch! Sit next to him/her and take every opportunity to touch him/her. Will make it much easier to kiss afterwards and to make someone feel comfortable with you. Perhaps a bit of an extensive answer but this works really well for me.

[JohnM...]

1st one: alternatively could just ask what he/she is most passionate about? passion project is far too cheesy.

[Jackthesmilingblack]

Is there any history of sanity in your family?

[JezUK]

I never ask questions on a first date before I've spoken about me for the first 2 hours. I find that's what keeps things interesting.

[twinsen]

Will ask a girl out within the next few weeks. In the miraculous case that she says yes, these questions will prove VERY useful!

If this channel happens to have any self-improvement video I'd love to know!

[julieholmes]

Love the passion project question. One of the best!

[lambo]

I'm a guy & reluctantly got a Speed Dating event coming up next month with my cousin she's 57 and I'm 59. Can I use this approach? Never been to one of these events so how long do you get with each person?

[Ducster]

This was an awesome episode. So much good content. Thank You Vanessa.

[arijitdas]

This is helpful until I get to know that my marriage has been arranged once the corona is gone and I can step out of my place for the first time to unlock the lockdown.

Regards
From India

[bbreviewsmoviesattemptscom]

My new go to question: what makes you a badass?

[Jooooooshcha]

What these sound like interview questions

[External]

Great questions, I'll use them! Wait, only improves the odds to 18% for a 2nd date. LoL...

[isisl]

If I'd meant is meat the most attractive quality is beign you natural starting from how you show yourself . I am never study question lol . But I can relate o beign respecful on other opinion and ope minded that we not looking for a twin lol but for a couple of similarities hat will enhance or trigger the desire to want more, hear more and see more . Simple

[omarnabeel]

Hey. If you had a chance to go to Hawaii what would be the most favorite thing that you want to do ?

[life-is-here]

This video provides helpful tips to start conversations on a first date and build a bond quickly. Vanessa den Edwards' five favorite questions are a great way to get to know someone.

[Jackthesmilingblack]

Sounds more like a job interview. Profound truth?

[millennialmindset]

from 19-25 seconds great video editing! I wish there were more women like you where i live haha

[bwayne]

+1 subscriber sweet Lady, and thanks for the lot of useful content :)