How Does A Woman Get A Man To Change?

[millicentstollenwerck]

If a man is not ready for God to change him, he won't change for a woman.

[jewelsafire]

We can influence a man, but real change has to come from him. If he doesn't want to do better, that's on purpose NOT by accident. Sad to say but all the way real, be prepared to LEAVE and go on with your life. Oftentimes, they understand ACTIONS more so than WORDS.🙏🏽💯

[lavenderkisses]

I did that exact thing-was very calm and told my husband I was so unhappy I could see myself leaving with someone else who was kind to me…. He still didn’t change.
We are now divorced.

[Bettermelf]

You get a man to change by not giving a damn and focusing on your mental health vs his. That way you won’t give a damn if he changes or not cause your living best life and being non effected.💯🙌🏾

[renew]

By accepting that they are who they are and if you can't deal with it, leave.

[amarisimpson]

Some men are giving you what they expect you to accept. It's your job to refuse it. This process should start early. If you don't like his behavior, then shut him out off top. Saves time.

[Astra.Kiro.EGYPT]

Hi brutha, man I would never be in another toxic relationship.

[MsChristianr]

I see alot of women see the word change as trying to force or convince. Every human needs correction. Changing a man really just means expressing what you like and dislike and what are your deal breakers in a relationship without bringing out your list but addressing or praising them as they happen. If you can not communicate then unfortunately you are not ready for marriage. Once you have expressed yourself you decide how crucial what you are expressing is to the health of the relationship. Every woman is different. I dont want a man bringing what he used to do with his old gf to me. Once you as the woman have expressed yourself with the same understanding and grace God has given you, to your man and he refuses to adjust to your desires, then its time to leave. If you are the one, your voice will become a prison in his mind that he cant escape from and he will finally hear everything you said as loud as day. Once hes made all the adjustments it will be up to you rather you want to try again. Sometimes too much damage has been done and sometimes you understand that you were the only person who had something with him he was afraid to lose. We are all a work in progress, and we can't have conceit in our own experiences that we lack the willingness to understand.

[tessajones]

I had to listen to this a few times. I have to admit I talk and talk then I walk and once I walk I’m completely done and don’t go back. I may forgive and even communicate with them but that door shuts for reengagement in terms of relationship once I walk away.

[queenofthesouth]

This video needs to go viral!! Ladies say what you mean....and mean what you say.

[genusisnuez]

That little boy back their has such an influence in his life

[afeatheredlife]

It is very painful when it’s a man you love and they still hurt your feelings simply because they don’t take you or the pain you’re experiencing seriously and then they leave. It’s heartbreaking.
I hope in future I can make better decisions with men who won’t take me for granted.

[missyadams]

I will never want a man to change for anyone but themselves and God because at the end of his life, I'm sure he would want to hear "Well done thou good and faithful servant!" This should be the goal for every human, not because of a relationship but because it's the end of the story of his/her life!

[JenniferReneeC]

You give away so much game it’s crazy!!! You telling the entire truth!!

[patricetrotter]

I say don’t change him walk away too much stress who got time for that

[victoriaxox]

If you feel you have to change the person then they are not the right one for you tf

[lauralei]

Many of you missing the point of his words. A man will change for a woman he loves - and yes when he’s ready. You should want a man to change for you.

[dominiquedelaine]

Whew!! This is soooo important to know!! I truly appreciate learning “how to” communicate to a man for him to get the message.

[DD-mgse]

You gotta be willing to lose a man in order to keep a man. Be willing to leave. Let him earn your love. All from Mr. Tony. Be blessed.

[curlyisconfident]

So good Tony, I liked the framing on women and mothers vs dads. Men need serious consequences- man have to know there is real risk. So real