Would you leave your partner if...? #dating #love #relationship #marriage

[CarterWare-jrbc]

Great question. My answer is NO, to my soon to be (Borderline) ex-wife. I told her during her massive abuse towards me from the beginning, that I would have NEVER chosen her if I was not in a dark place.

[robertsmatt]

If I had high self esteem I would have never got involved with them in the first place.

[Chad-gd]

Absolutely, once my self esteem was up, I never bothered to chase them again

[PaulOfTarsus]

I would still pick them. And I would stay, knowing I can love them even better ❤

[ladyb]

The answer would depend on the individual. Are they willing to do work on their self esteem or not. Everyone has potential. Most people are too lazy to to do the personal work needed to be their best version.

[ajiterumutiuadekunle]

This woman always sounds amazing, I always like the way she portraits her questions

[elkresurgence]

Why does this assume everyone with a relationship problem have self-esteem issues? There are countless reasons you may be uncertain or unhappy with a relationship that isn’t necessarily due to low self-esteem. Also, all the things you mentioned to mean life is going great are external stuff, and you may still lack self-esteem even if you had those things.

[truthbom]

I love how you've made that reference

It is so relevant though people typically connect with how they perceive themselves.
Low self worth equals a lower level partner further enhancing their negative view on themselves

[RegiaManos]

When we met, we were 18 what’s self-esteem we were kids in love. Now that we’re married 48 years he’s a different person and so am I but there’s so many things now that connects us.

[taichoudhury]

Damn… I didn’t think so but looks like I have my ideal wife. Alhamdulillah.

[isaflo]

It's simple for better or worse no matter what current or past situation was.

[ThePoetronhypothesis]

Has one of your clients ever Fall in Love with You❤

[michaelschaffer]

Yes she is my choice. I want to spend my life with her. I am a fortunate man.

[boskokovacevic]

hi Sadia, you have excellent insights into relationships and very interestingly you put complex mechanisms into sentences that are acceptable to everyone. if I had the chance, I would go with you into the depths of it because I would like to know a lot more about the causes. they are interesting because relationships are consequences. Keep up the good work. Many people find peace in your videos 🤓

[josearellano]

I can’t hear what you are saying I’m captured by your beauty.

[sorcereous]

I have had heart surgery. I never leave my woman. She left me during and after my surgery. Went to her ex's house when I was in the ICU. My self esteem was at an all time low. Im a powerlifter. And had a heart defect. And she left. Id never leave her if the situation were reversed. Even before the surgery, i still chose her. She never chose me.

[juriaanoussoren]

Would you leave them tommorow if you had high self

[julesfisher]

It would be interesting asking a similar question to ladies in relationships. I suspect that 80% of ladies would say "no, not select." I suspect guys would answer 80% "yes, I would select."

[PiotrKundu]

I have left just recently, having NO self esteem (in that moment) and basically rock bottom of my life for multiple reasons. I would choosen my ex-partner everyday of the week, but not the disrespect and lack of engagement I’ve seen lately (and have seen sign of previously when I treatened to walk away). Walking away is the only thing a man can do, just like an employee. And you can call me insecure or disloyal - I’m secure enough to walk away with a big L on my head and I’m loyal to my needs and boundaries. Sadia just explained that what I have always done is the way to do it.

[chakaoliver]

That's the kind of question.A man doesn't understand and a woman answers