If You Fall In Love Too Fast - WATCH THIS

You can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed.
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[peterneu]

Love might be the most misused word in human history...

[eashwarmurthy]

You can't find someone without finding yourself first - Jay Shetty

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
― Dr. Seuss

[seggyvlased]

It's hard when you feel something incredible that you have never felt before to someone who doesn't feel the same to you. Everyone deserves to love and be loved :)

[TanvirAhmed]

This is a really tough message but I had to share it. Don’t fall in love too fast, because the truth is when you fall in love too fast, it’s not love. Let me explain, nothing good in our lives ever comes from falling.

They say love is blind because the only time we fall is when we're blinded. When you fall in love too fast you think you know their dreams, but you just know their plans. You think you know their heart, but you just know their mind. You think you know their past, but you just know parts.

Let the right person show you that they're the right person. Don't just give away your trust, let someone earn it. I know what it's like, it feels amazing to fall for someone quickly, that adrenaline rush. But why would you want to fall for someone that you don't know, is going to be there to catch you?

We don't just find a huge tree with beautiful fruits and flowers overnight. It takes time. No matter how much you water it, it takes time. No tree overnight has the most beautiful flowers and fruits. And so neither can a relationship. It takes time. Because remember, you can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed.

And on the flip side, don't make someone fall in love with you, if you don't know how to love them or if you don't love them back. Don't give someone enough reasons to love you if you don't feel in the same way for them. Because guess what - they won't end up questioning you, they end up questioning love.

And I'm trying to say this for your own benefit. I want you to have incredible, meaningful, purposeful relationships, but I want them to be real, I want them to be genuine. Because being in love isn't a mood, it's a commitment even after your mood changes.

[reallove]

I have bieng married for 16 years and stil have great chemistry

[Ness-nqmo]

no more chaotic chemistry! I want a calm love that comes with time ❤️

[maplebuddydoodles]

Agree, so many people fall in love fast because of great chemistry however you need a foundation to start building and if the basic needs are not met then the walls/decors will fall. It’s about getting to know the person, which takes time. It’s like a book. The cover and description is captivating but someone might start reading and see that it’s either not what it appears or it’s just not good for you.Take the time to read the book.. Also well said, don’t just give your love away so fast, people need to earn it. Which takes time.

[bookswithraj]

You're not supposed to fall in love, You're supposed to stand in love. 🤩🙌🏻

[vinayakkaurav]

You don't FALL in true love, you RISE..

[Sameer.dhiman]

When u think they are too cute and they are behaving just perfect as much u want in your life . They are faking . People are not perfect but There are very few people who r . If someone Loves u, he/she will be always there for u when he is needed most .
Remember everyone has somethings in their lives which are not going & they do have to work on that things is well .. If he/she is protective about u, shows more than enough Love towards u, makes u feel like no one ever did, don't force u to do things that u don't wanna do, motivates u, help u, cares for u, makes u laugh & Loves u, u have found ur soul mate . Don't let him/her go

[jaxx-inspiregrowcreate]

A man is not determined by his level of motivation or inspiration but by his daily routines. Study his daily actions to see if he is right for you.

[vishakhasingh]

Sometimes it's not love, it's the pain

[avnimalhotra]

I have never ever fall in love ...but I usually make crushes so fast... Literally my first ever crush was HARRY POTTER❤ (he still is, in some corner of my heart😳)

[relaxingmeditationsounds]

Stay truth to yourself no matter what happens. Go live your life, follow your dreams and walk the path that you always wanted. Don't wait for someone that will hold your hand and make your dreams come true. You will meet someone along the way with the same values as long as you stay truth to yourself.

[tsimeone]

It's painful, I've fallen for someone big time. And I know I need to reel it back in, because it's happening far too quickly. I don't know them, but when I'm with them it feels amazing. The day I set eyes on them, they handed there number over the bar.. It felt magic. 😢❤

[pooja.a.s]

Let the right person show you that they are the right person. Don't give away your trust, let someone earn it.🔥 My lesson to cherish for a life time😊😊

[Ventuskeymaster]

I had a break up before but, what I learned is that "finding the one" doesn't always happen like that. It takes time to build a relationship and in time it will grow to become something beautiful, I know because my new partner is one person that is growing with me and building a bright future together. Never just jump into a relationship fast because it will mean u r desperate and it will end in a bad way. Remember that I may not be a love expert but I know more things now then I did before. everyone needs love and no matter who u r, u will find it in time, never forget that love conquers hate.

[Duskydoc]

For the very frst time i hv ever watched Jay sir's video ever since i started to follow...its the video i think has been made for me only...😭😭😭
I m a Gay frm india n i usually start feeling love fr every kind of musculine fellows...n i end up weeping n crying while being in the corner of my room all alone...i hv been through many downs n downs only ...no ups....just downs...N all the downs teached me alot tht now me jst being a guy of 20 is so strong n stiff tht now i dont feel to cry n weep...
Be strong n be courageous...
I will jst say tht hv courage to accept the rejections frm any1 in this world...
N othr thing tht one must hv is courage to hv more n more experience so tht he/she might know more n more abt the world n people out in it...
Be Happy n be Strong...
Stay Healthy...
Bye...❤️🇮🇳

[duhhh]

Waited for this video for a complete year... 😂