Why Women Are Struggling

[faintreaction]

Their independence drops the same time the check drops on the table 😂

[grace]

as an Indian, who has seen the 'providers' of the family, litreally treat their wives like absolute shit, no girls go work. make sure to be stable enough to be on your own and if you WANT to be dependent on someone else then do so. yall don't see, not all men are nice and humble, some are going to trample over their own wives and treat them like crap. you'll have to provide for yourself if things go south.

[Chiaa_seeds]

I don't know how it is in other countries but right here in my country it's necessary for us women to be independent, if we don't want to be a victim of domestic abuse by our husbands who are actually supposed to protect us, if I have a husband who isn't toxic and would keep me completely happy, I'd happily be a submissive woman but if I have to choose between being independent and work my ass off working a 9 to 5 job AND being submissive to a man who would constantly abuse me, I'd choose to work my ass off working a 9 to 5 job.

Edit : fyi if you check Indian news .. a man beheaded his wife recently .. and it has happened before as well so ~

[kunztuber]

Sometimes this woman pisses me off, sometimes she inspires me. This post, inspires! I think there is an ingrained supportive feminine virtue that makes a man a better man, and spurs him into being a supportive delight to his woman, and I’m quite certain there are forces that work visa-versa, but yeah, everything she says here I believe is truth. Period.

[normanquednau]

The age of ego-driven, patriarchal dominance is dying. We come into the age of partnership. No one is better or worse. No one is superior or inferior. We are not the same and we deserve to live in a partnership where our strengths are being allowed to unfold.😊

[ankolikasarkar]

My father is literally always talking about making me independent and spending all his money behind my education, so that I do not have to be dependent on men for my basic needs in this tough society (p.s.: my mother is a housewife). All these "designed to be dependent on men" shit is only possible for a woman to think when she is in a luxurious carefree environment already.

[C-qj]

bro.women have literally ALWAYS worked it's not some feminist thing. If we don't have our own money or any skills, what are we supposed to do if our husbands leave us for some 21 year old or turn abusive? Or even dies and we have to be the providers? I thought America was "land of the free" and here you are dictating how everyone should live. Get a life honey

[jamesturner]

Nah. In agrarian societies, everybody farms if they want to eat. Women work hard. I want one of those strong women that wants to combine resources with me.

[YuzukiEba]

Tell that to the conditions of living that require dual income unless the husband makes 200k per year well have to be equal. This is just fucked.

[Gumblethebear]

Equal doesn't mean the same. Every boat needs a captain, but none can function with 2.

[Anxiousamericantraveler]

I do not concur with your opinions. When a woman is fully accepting of her purpose of life with full control of her identity. She's happy with herself and with her friends family community and sharing her nurturing side. The right man who sees that who has self respect and dignity, he's going to naturally want to defend, protect, and honor. And he's going to love her no matter what. Because it's not all about ourselves beautiful young lady. It's about being full of humility, intelligence and respecting each other's boundaries. Most of all sharing. No one is entitled to anything just because we have mammary glands and a birth canal. ❤

[jasongates-]

Where I disagree is, "adults" ARE meant to work. We're ALL responsible for ourselves, period. But to your point, though, husbands are responsible to work, not the wife.

[Jona-dqcb]

Actually there's huge misunderstanding about this topic. I believe there should be a middleground to this. I agree with Billie, but being completely financially dependent on men can lead to abuse or unnecessary compromises. That's why I support women's financial freedom very much.

[danielcastillo]

Billie, here's the issue I have with this. The relationship you are describing is good and great if the guy is a decent human. What happens if he isn't though? What if he gets off on the power imbalance that comes with this type of relationship? Instead of getting to "nurture" and "enjoy life, " they will live in misery. They are also completely dependent on this guy, so there is no way out. Feminism didn't come up because women wanted to work in cubicles. It was to protect women from abusive men. Read the news... there are lots of them out there still.

[heidiocain]

Couldn't have said it better myself. Your point is spot-on

[TheMFStudios]

Just gonna say one thing. You should look in to how many women also believed what she is saying and paid for it BIG TIME. When we say don’t be dependent on a man we mean don’t put all your eggs in 1 basket because if that man decides to toss you once you’re a little older you will have nothing and not even be qualified for a high enough paying job for your lifestyle.

[Meepsmeep]

While I fully support this for any woman who wants it, I'm a lesbian so I'm not marrying a man. I'd marry another woman tho and be a SAHM if she agrees lol.

[TopMcMercenary]

I've seen no end of women try to live life the way men do and they fail very badly at it but as they're independent I won't interupt them from making some major nuclear mistakes.

[saoodkhan]

dont expect it to be fix unless shit hits the fan so you get what you want, you ladies handle this shit on your own your independence should help you when things go wrong 😘

[dannyooi]

So truely said. You are wise beyond your age