Beware of These 5 Frumpy Fall Fashion Trends + What to Wear Instead | Fashion Over 40

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[sunflower]

Him making little jokes at your expense is never ok. Many times a "love bomber" will be so "perfect" at the beginning of a relationship but start pushing your boundaries to feel out how much abuse you're willing to put up with. Been there! Talk to him and make your boundaries clear. Jokes at your expense are not allowed. Heather, you are a high value woman who has so much to offer. Only the very best man is worthy of you. I finally found my perfect match later in life and we've been happily married for 12 years now. Three months of knowing someone should be ample time to decide if you want to continue this relationship. Give it time and trust your intuition. Wishing you all the best.

[stacyb]

I will always love ballet flats and Mary Jane's.

Comfortable and timeless. This is why it's important to wear what you love and not what others like.

[amygerges]

Thank you so much, Heather for taking the time to provide a beautiful version of the designer item at a much more attainable price point for us.

[sl]

I have been searching high and low for a burgandy sweater that I like. I cleaned out my closet today, and I was pleasantly surprised, I found a brand new one in my closet that I don't remember purchasing and I love it!!

[TJS]

I feel like I can relate to you because I too, have a history of narcissistic abuse. Just sharing my experience, which may (or may not) fit for you, Heather. After years of therapy I have learned to recognize that "teasing" from a man, early on is a red flag for me. I used to stuff my feelings and I convinced myself that I was being "overly sensitive"; however, in ALL cases it quickly turned into "emotional abuse" and I came to regret that I did not listen to my gut. The first question I ask myself is, "how does his comment make me FEEL? Does the comment make me feel small, less than, insecure, stupid, am I questioning myself, ect... If I answer yes to any of them, I have a good indication of what often follows. I would quickly lose my sense of" self, " having to struggle once again to break free. It is a vicious ugly cycle. I wish you all the best!

[jodenabeale]

Heather, I know you are a grown woman but here is my “mom” advice to you from a woman who is in therapy for 3 years after her mentally abusive marriage. If his jokes are causing uncomfortable feelings in you, I would certainly make sure he knows they bother you. He cannot correct what he doesn’t know is a mistake. It doesn’t matter if you think you are remembering your previous marriage or not, it bothered you and you are trying to grow, not overlook things. Do not wear any rose colored glasses for uncomfortable feelings. On another note, I enjoyed this video and agree with a lot of what you say. Thank you.❤

[stacyinfishers]

Heather I can’t imagine ANYTHING looking less than stellar on you ❤️

[sharmanolshan]

I love the ballet flats and I don’t think they look frumpy. Enjoy your take but for me I dress more feminine and traditional. I do appreciate your comment’s and commitment to jeans

[boyzmom]

I love Maryjanes and ballet flats, also kitten heels, I’m 5’10 and thin so definitely don’t feel frumpy and I wear them all the time

[yvonneoshea]

You will definitely be OK no matter what. It's very early days and those 'little' jokes don't sound good, especially if your gut feeling picks up on them. Red flags? Thank you for your fashion advice too. I just got a gorgeous leopard print scarf in a clothes Swap. Just in time for Autumn ❤

[Rue]

KITTEN HEELS ARE EVERYTHINGGGG LOVEEE THEM

[amygerges]

I agree with you regarding the handbag charms. However, as you said the attached gold ones or silver ones look very classy and those go very well with the handbag that they came with.

[sl]

Heather, I have come to realize that my clothing style emulates yours in so many ways. I started watching you about two years ago and haven't stopped building my wardrobe since.

[mericarealz]

Mary Janes are darling! Took me awhile to come around BUT yes of course you have to wear them with the right jean and right length. They are just not your style. Same with the barrel jean, they are cutest on girls that that IS their style!

[DonnaScharff]

Good Morning Heather, I'm loving the leopard print, burgundy color, and faux leather this season. I love a ballerina flat, but the not the Mary Jane style and also prefer a kitten heal with dresses or a chunky heal under my wide leg jeans. I'm so glad that you know yourself well enough now to recognize old baggage when it comes up. I'm thinking good thoughts for you and this dashing young man you are currently dating. Enjoy this season in your life, you deserve it! 🤎🤎🤎

[LeahRush-m]

Once you're triggered, be self-aware of how your body feels. Sometimes, We never know if they are toxic until they have got you with Cognitive dissonance. Take your time. Again, self-awareness. Good for you, Heather, for recognizing this. I am recovering from a toxic marriage as well. And the triggers are so REAL.

[angelakeep]

Hi Heather!
One great thing to remember (I know it to be true): the faster a relationship moves *physically/romantically-***Physically, the more shallow the relationship because time/focus has been on chemistry - moreso - than the simple--but--most--important aspect: building trust / starting as FriendsFirst and slowly building trust over time . While keeping the 'brakes on' {very-low-gear until/unless marriage .

[jillbirnbaum]

Love you so much Heather. I love watching your videos and learning from you and you’re just such a beautiful person ❤ so happy you do what you do!

[dianevioletta]

I agree with everything except I just bought a pair of red mary jane flats and I love them. I initially thought I would pass on that trend but after seeing them styled on others I came around. They will be a super comfortable alternative to sneakers when running around NYC while visiting my daughter at school. It is definitely all in the styling!